138: How To Use My 3 Best Money Affirmations To Change Your Life

Now, today I want to talk about how to use my three best money affirmations to change your life. I know that money affirmations can get a little bit iffy for some of you, but you know that I absolutely love a good affirmation because I think they really have a powerful impact on your life and business, and it can be as powerful as reading a book or taking a course. 

How does affirmation work? 

(01:54-02:13) Affirmations are a huge part of how I have manifested my life and business, and I always recommend them as a great starting point if you are looking to upgrade your life or to have more belief in yourself, to own and love the F word.

(02:51-03:13) There are specific affirmations for specific situations. Okay, so there are three best affirmations that I have that can help you shift you from feeling negative and frustrated to feeling really good about yourself. Abundant and deserving really quickly.

How Can Affirmations Impact Your Money Mindset?

(03:15-03:38) Let's do it. So how Affirmations Can Impact Your Money Mindset? First and foremost, affirmations are positive brain training statements that help you shift your focus from the negative, where a lot of us spend our time and shift it to the positive.

(03:45-04:03) Scientifically activate our reticular activating system in our brain that's like a light tower shining brightly, showing a signal outwards so that the good stuff will come to you that you want.

(05:24-05:55) If you don't pattern interrupt these negative thoughts patterns, you will probably create a downward spiral that manifests more frustration, lack, and negativity. When you're feeling absolutely crap about yourself or feeling absolutely lousy, you often miss out on opportunities. You talk yourself out of taking action, and then you get stuck in the same position of procrastination.

(06:03-06:14) Negative self-talk is one of the biggest sabotaging patterns I've seen—people who aren't living their ideal life the life of the F word.

My signature affirmation

(06:38-07:06) So my signature affirmation is that if you use an affirmation like my signature affirmation, you will say, "I love myself, and I set myself free." "This is my time, and I'm ready for the next step." This immediately gives your brain something really positive to focus on instead of those annoying, stupid negative patterns.

(07:07-07:22) Now, this particular affirmation sends the message that you are ready even before you are really ready. And that is only the step that needs to happen. So it becomes less scary. 

(07:54-08:32) So when you train your brain to look for the positive, you automatically start to feel better and act in different ways. You might feel more motivated to take action, even a small one. And it has a knock-on effect to create positive outcomes too. So if you use affirmations. Whenever you notice the negative thoughts come into play, you successfully patent interrupt the downward spiral of your mood, of your thoughts before it causes drama in your life.

Affirmation 1: My face is my fortune

(09:09-09:27) This is for you. Entrepreneurs out there or budding entrepreneurs. Okay, aspiring entrepreneurs. Whether you're thinking about starting a bakery, starting your own site, hustle, even though you're not the five employees, or even though you're in a full-time business, hey, it's for you.

(09:28-09:35) Don't hide. For your customers to connect with you, you need to be seen.

(09:54-10:21) So, the way to differentiate yourself in a crowded marketplace is to be you unapologetically. Yes, Darling, yes. Even at your current weight, current size, current skin, current colour. Even though you think you're not ready. And even if you worry you're not good enough.

(11:03-11:13) So six of my favourite ways to get visible. Get some new photoshoots done before you're ready. 

(11:24-11:38) Number two, use your face on your branding. Even if you're a product business or live stream business, eCommerce business, give yourself permission to be seen as a real-life model of what you do.

(11:52-11:59) Number three, if you make things, show the behind-the-scenes of your workspace and how you create your work. 

(12:07-12:19) Number four, this also helps you to charge well for what you do because your audience starts to appreciate the work that goes into your product.

(12:20-12:34) Number five, be brave to show a mix of photos, the glam up ones versus the real-life ones. You’ll be surprised what your audience or the people resonate with.

(12:55-13:11) Lastly, get on the camera either with live streaming interviews or prerecorded videos so that your audience can connect with you. Do what feels comfortable, Darling, but basically show up and show yourself.

Affirmation 2: I serve. I deserve.

(13:41-13:50) The word deserve means that when you serve through your programs, your products or your services, you deserve to be rich. 

(13:59-14:08) So when I first started using this affirmation, it completely changed the way I felt about my impact on the world and my ability to receive abundance in return. I used to feel really horrible and terrible that I couldn't help everyone and would constantly feel guilty.

(15:44-16:04) The truth is that when you have a business, you could work 24/7 and still not feel like you are doing enough. There's no off time or clock off time for most of us. So how do you deal with it now? Think of all the ways you serve people.

(18:28-18:37) You deserve to be rich when you serve, or you make an impact on people's lives or add value to other people's lives.

(18:39-19:12) This affirmation will remind you of all the ways to help people, but it also helps you to remember that you don't have to serve in all ways or be everything to everyone you already served. Use this affirmation as your reminder that it's okay to receive good things doing what you do. You are entitled to receive abundance in your life from serving people, including money.

(19:17-19:28) So remember this. I serve. I deserve. I deserve to be rich when I add value to other people's lives. 

Affirmation 3: This is what a soul rich woman looks like!

(19:50-20:06) Now, this one will change your life. When you think about the stereotypical rich woman wealthy person, what do you think they will look like, sound like or dress like?

(20:26-20:57) Surely a rich woman has to have a mess. Chanel and all the big fancy brands and fancy outfits all the time, right? Go look in the mirror and say this affirmation to yourself. Point to your face and say this. “This is what a soul rich woman looks like.!”

(22:56-23:24) Then you will interrupt the pattern and remind yourself that you can be as a soul rich woman, as rich as you want to be, as much so rich as you want to be, as you love to be, as much wealthy as you want to be. And you can be as wealthy as you like, you start to believe that it's possible for you to be exactly how you are now.