Welcome to episode 3 of the "Not Your Mother’s Life, Not Your Mother’s Advice", Podcast. In this episode we will be talking about “figuring out what you want & don’t want”. And yes, sometimes it is easier to start with what you DON’T want. Here are two reasons why I believe it is often a good idea for many people to start out with what we DON’T want: Reason #1: There are so, so many choices in this world, that it is often difficult to see “the forest through the trees”, meaning that there are so many options to evaluate that we never get to do what we really want to do because we get too bogged down with all of the choices. It can be very overwhelming! The second reason that it is sometimes a good idea to determine what it is we don’t want, if we aren’t aware of what we don’t want, we may find ourselves compromising or worse yet, doing what other people think we should be doing. Now I’m not saying that being flexible & knowing how to compromise doesn’t have a place in our lives; just not here. So how do we actually do this in “real life”? Determine what we want and what we do want? Well it takes: 1.) Being open-minded 2.) Willingness to try new things 3.) Being aware of our past experiences and realizing what resonated with us and what didn’t. What lit us on fire & what didn’t. 4.) Willingness to change; to say, nope, this IS NOT FOR ME and to move on to something new. It may be interesting and a good idea to take the Meyers Briggs personality test to see what types of things suit you best. There is a link below to a similar test, based on Carl Jung and Isabella Meyers Briggs personality theory. Once you decide what you really want to do, don’t let lack of experience or education sway you to pursue something else! Find out what it takes to do that and start on the road to pursue your passion! I would like to invite you to download my FREE guide, the link is below, on the 9 Steps to Create Change. This will give you an idea of the process to make successful changes in your life. Link to 9-steps-to-create-change Link to the personality test based on the theories of Carl Jung/Isabella Meyers Briggs: http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/jtypes2.asp Email: kimberly@unapologeticfreedom.com Website; www.UnapologeticFreedom.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kimpennacchia_lifecoach/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Unapologeticwealthandfreedom/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kim-pennacchia-a931a92a/

Not Your Mother's Life; Not Your Mother's Advice!

Kimberly Pennacchia

Episode 3_ Figuring out what you do want & what you don't want

AUG 23, 201923 MIN
Not Your Mother's Life; Not Your Mother's Advice!

Episode 3_ Figuring out what you do want & what you don't want

AUG 23, 201923 MIN

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Welcome to episode 3 of the "Not Your Mother’s Life, Not Your Mother’s Advice", Podcast. In this episode we will be talking about “figuring out what you want & don’t want”. And yes, sometimes it is easier to start with what you DON’T want. Here are two reasons why I believe it is often a good idea for many people to start out with what we DON’T want: Reason #1: There are so, so many choices in this world, that it is often difficult to see “the forest through the trees”, meaning that there are so many options to evaluate that we never get to do what we really want to do because we get too bogged down with all of the choices. It can be very overwhelming! The second reason that it is sometimes a good idea to determine what it is we don’t want, if we aren’t aware of what we don’t want, we may find ourselves compromising or worse yet, doing what other people think we should be doing. Now I’m not saying that being flexible & knowing how to compromise doesn’t have a place in our lives; just not here. So how do we actually do this in “real life”? Determine what we want and what we do want? Well it takes: 1.) Being open-minded 2.) Willingness to try new things 3.) Being aware of our past experiences and realizing what resonated with us and what didn’t. What lit us on fire & what didn’t. 4.) Willingness to change; to say, nope, this IS NOT FOR ME and to move on to something new. It may be interesting and a good idea to take the Meyers Briggs personality test to see what types of things suit you best. There is a link below to a similar test, based on Carl Jung and Isabella Meyers Briggs personality theory. Once you decide what you really want to do, don’t let lack of experience or education sway you to pursue something else! Find out what it takes to do that and start on the road to pursue your passion! I would like to invite you to download my FREE guide, the link is below, on the 9 Steps to Create Change. This will give you an idea of the process to make successful changes in your life. Link to 9-steps-to-create-change Link to the personality test based on the theories of Carl Jung/Isabella Meyers Briggs: http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/jtypes2.asp Email: [email protected] Website; www.UnapologeticFreedom.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kimpennacchia_lifecoach/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Unapologeticwealthandfreedom/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kim-pennacchia-a931a92a/