<p>Ever wondered if your efforts to raise a bilingual child are actually working? Especially when your toddler understands Spanish but only responds in English? In this episode, Janny shares the truth behind this quiet stage, the invisible learning that happens before speech, and what parents can do to support their child without adding pressure or stress.</p><p>You’ll also hear real-life examples from Janny’s own journey raising her daughter in a mostly English environment and the powerful “Senor, puedo pasar?” moment that revealed just how much her child was absorbing.</p><p><strong>Show Promos You Don&#39;t Want to Miss:</strong></p><p><a href="https://www.milegasi.com/pages/bilingual-milestone-freebie" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><em><strong>DOWNLOAD THE BILINGUAL BABY QUICKSTART GUIDE</strong></em></a><em></em></p><p><a href="https://milegasi.thinkific.com/products/live_events/raising-bilingual-children" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><em><strong>SAVE YOUR SPOT FOR THE LIVE WORKSHOP MAY 14th!</strong></em></a></p><p><strong>Timestamps &amp; What You’ll Discover</strong></p><ul><li><p>01:48 – <strong>Why Doubting Yourself is Normal</strong><br>Janny shares how parenting confidence gets shaken when your child understands but doesn’t respond in Spanish and reassurance for moms feeling unsure.</p></li><li><p>04:38 – <strong>The “Senor, puedo pasar?” Moment</strong><br>How a construction worker encounter in New Jersey unlocked proof of bilingual progress, and what this means for everyday learning.</p></li><li><p>06:20 – <strong>Inside the Silent Learning Stage</strong><br>Before speech, your child is making connections, absorbing vocabulary, and building understanding, why this matters more than you think.</p></li><li><p>07:23 – <strong>It Applies to All Languages</strong><br>Why Janny&#39;s daughter’s Bulgarian learning proves that understanding always comes before speaking, no matter which language.</p></li><li><p>08:28 – <strong>Avoiding Pressure &amp; The “Repeat After Me” Trap</strong><br>How well-intentioned efforts (“Dímelo en español,” translating, asking for repetition) can interrupt learning and what to do instead.</p></li></ul><li><ul><li>10:02 – <strong>Low-Pressure Opportunities &amp; Consistency</strong><br>Simple strategies for everyday Spanish: repeatable phrases, modeling, and letting your child observe and absorb at their own pace.</li><li>12:15 – <strong>What Really Matters in the Toddler Stage</strong><br>Why you’re not behind, your child is simply in a crucial but invisible phase. How to support, not stress.</li></ul><p><strong>About Janny Perez</strong></p></li><li><p>Janny Perez is a bilingual parenting educator and the voice behind the The Latina Mom Legacy podcast.</p><p>Through her work, she helps first-generation Latina and multicultural moms raise Spanish-speaking children with confidence—even in English-dominant environments.</p><p>As a multilingual mom herself, Janny understands that raising a bilingual child takes more than reading a few books or singing songs in Spanish. It requires intention, consistency, and the right strategies.</p><p>She shares practical guidance rooted in real-life experience, helping families move past self-doubt and build a strong language foundation at home—while staying deeply connected to their culture.</p><p>Follow @milegasi on social media for bilingual parenting tips, resources, and support.</p><p>Resources Mentioned in the Podcast:</p><p><a href="https://www.milegasi.com/pages/bilingual-milestone-freebie" target="_blank">Bilingual Baby Quick Start Guide</a><br>Walk-through for introducing Spanish from day one. Find it in the show notes.</p><p><a href="https://milegasi.thinkific.com/products/live_events/raising-bilingual-children" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Upcoming Live Workshop – May 14</a><br>Go deeper into supporting your child in the silent stage. Details in show notes.</p><p>More free printables &amp; bilingual parenting tools at <a href="https://www.milegasi.com/" target="_blank">milegasi.com</a></p><p><br></p><p><strong>How You Can Support &amp; Engage</strong></p><ul><li><a href="https://calendly.com/d/g4s-jh3-9zt" target="_blank"><strong>Apply to Be a Guest on The Latina Mom Legacy</strong></a> – Share your bilingual parenting story!</li><li>Leave a Review – <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-latina-mom-legacy/id1479716825" target="_blank">Apple Podcast</a> or <a href="https://www.milegasi.com/blogs/the-latina-mom-legacy-podcast/706#" target="_blank">Spotify</a>. Your feedback helps more families discover the show.</li><li>Join the Newsletter – La Lista at <a href="https://www.milegasi.com/" target="_blank">Milegasi.com</a>. 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Trust the stage before speech, celebrate silent wins, and remember—consistency creates confidence.<br>Tú puedes, mamá.</p><p>If you’d like to learn more, visit <a href="https://milegasi.thinkific.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">milegasi.thinkific.com</a>.</p><p><strong>Final Thoughts</strong></p><p><br></p></li>