The Lesbian Love Podcast

Is it true that lesbian couples have the highest divorce rates? Are we really doomed—or just misunderstood? In this eye-opening episode of The Lesbian Love Podcast, relationship coach Pamela Gort (aka The Lesbian Love Coach) digs deep into the viral statistic that’s had the internet buzzing. You’ll uncover the truth behind the studies, the social and emotional dynamics that affect lesbian relationships, and—most importantly—what conscious love really looks like.Whether you're married, dating, or U-Haul-curious, you'll walk away with powerful, practical strategies to protect your relationship from burnout, over-processing, and emotional overwhelm. Plus, learn how mental fitness rewires your mind for lasting love and deeper connection.Chapters00:00 Understanding Lesbian Divorce Rates05:03 Debunking Myths and Misconceptions10:00 The Role of Conscious Love14:48 Actionable Advice for Healthy RelationshipsKeywords:lesbian divorce, lesbian marriage, lesbian relationships, lesbian couple advice, LGBTQ+ relationship coach, mental fitness for couples, same-sex divorce stats, conscious love, queer love coach, lesbian dating struggles, lesbian intimacy, lesbian love adviceTags:#LesbianLove #LGBTQPodcast #QueerRelationships #RelationshipCoach #LesbianMarriage #DivorceStats #MentalFitness #ConsciousLove #LesbianCouples #EmotionalIntimacy #LGBTQSupport

Podcast Summary: In this powerful episode of The Lesbian Love Podcast, Pamela Gort launches her “Lesbian Luminaries” series Episode #2 with a deep and inspiring conversation with Mary Ann Horton—transgender activist, speaker, author, and true trailblazer. Mary Ann shares her personal journey of self-discovery and transition, highlights her groundbreaking work to advance transgender equality in corporate America, and opens up about the emotional realities of living as her authentic self. From workplace advocacy, family dynamics and public education, Mary Ann’s story is rich with vulnerability, courage, and wisdom.Her memoir, Trailblazer: Lighting the Path for Transgender Equality in Corporate America, serves as a central thread throughout the conversation and offers a must-read account of her pioneering journey. Whether you’re seeking to better understand the trans experience, exploring identity, or simply love great storytelling—this episode is not to be missed.Detailed Breakdown: Questions Pamela Asked Mary Ann Horton1.      Can you share a little about your early life before transitioning? What were some defining moments?2.      What is your definition of transgender, and what does the term include?3.      What were the key phases in your transition journey, and how did you come to the decision to live full-time as Mary Ann?4.      How did your spouse respond to your desire to transition?5.      What are the four spectrums of identity you teach in your Transgender 101 presentations?6.      What was it like living a double life before you came out fully? How did that affect you emotionally and mentally?7.      Can you share the story of how you advocated for inclusive language in Lucent Technologies' non-discrimination policy?8.      What were some of the biggest obstacles you encountered during your transition?9.      How did your family, especially your sons, respond to your transition?10. What challenges did you face attending places like church or school events as a trans parent?11. Did you ever consider going back to presenting as male after transitioning? How did you know you were truly done with that part of your identity?12. Do you find it difficult to revisit your past as a man while living fully as a woman today?13. What inspired you to be an activist before you transitioned? What was your motivation?14. Why did you decide to be “out” and visible as a trans woman instead of living stealth?15. What inspired you to write your memoir Trailblazer?16. How did you gather the data shown in the “ice cream cone” slide, and what does it reveal about the range of trans identities?17. What advice would you give to someone considering transitioning?18. What are the WPATH standards of care and why are they important?19. How should we approach trans kids who are exploring their identity at a young age?20. How do you respond to religious arguments that suggest being trans is a mistake?21. How has society’s perception of transgender people evolved over the years?22. How has media representation of transgender individuals changed, and why is that important?23. How do you personally celebrate your identity today?24. Why are pronouns important, and how can people make a respectful effort to use them?25. Who did you write Trailblazer for, and who has been most impacted by it?26. Can you share the letter you wrote to your mother when you came out, and her response?27. What are some misconceptions about trans individuals you wanted to clear up in your book?Connect with Mary Ann Horton:Website: MaryAnnHorton.comBook: Trailblazer: Lighting the Path for Transgender Equality in Corporate America (Available on Amazon & Google Play)Speaking Inquiries: Via her website (small community groups or formal keynotes available)

Note: This was recorded on 9/1/23.Welcome to The Lesbian Love Podcast special series, Lesbian Luminaries, where we dive deep into the stories, struggles, and triumphs of lesbians who are making a real impact—locally and globally. I’m Pamela Gort, also known as The Lesbian Love Coach, and I’m thrilled to bring you this special episode, kicking off our brand-new series celebrating the pioneers, activists, and trailblazers who have shaped our community.And who better to start with than Dr. Bonnie Morris!If you’re a history buff, a sports enthusiast, or simply someone who loves hearing about badass women breaking barriers, you’re in for a treat. Dr. Bonnie Morris is a powerhouse—an award-winning author, historian, and professor who has spent decades documenting and preserving lesbian culture and women’s history. She’s written over a dozen books, but today, we’re focusing on her latest: What’s the Score?—a deep dive into the hidden history of women’s sports and the lesbian athletes who’ve paved the way.Women’s sports have always been a battleground for equality, but did you know just how deeply intertwined they are with lesbian history? In this episode, Dr. Morris shares fascinating, little-known stories of resilience, activism, and triumph—from the locker rooms to the Olympic podiums. She paints a vivid picture of what it was like for lesbian athletes who had to navigate homophobia, sexism, and the ever-present pressure to stay closeted while fighting for their place in the game.But this isn’t just about the past. Dr. Morris also discusses the current state of women’s sports, the ongoing struggles for inclusion, and the pushback against LGBTQ+ athletes today. With the increasing politicization of sports and identity, these conversations have never been more relevant.Beyond sports, we get personal. Dr. Morris opens up about her own journey—her early days as a student-athlete, the mentors who inspired her, and the moments that solidified her passion for preserving our history. We talk about why representation in sports matters, how lesbian visibility has evolved over the decades, and what we can do to continue advocating for change.This episode is more than a history lesson; it’s a call to action. Whether you’re an athlete, a fan, or someone who simply wants to see justice and equality in every arena of life, Dr. Morris’s insights will leave you feeling inspired, informed, and ready to cheer even louder for the incredible women breaking barriers today.So, get ready to step onto the court, into the locker room, and behind the scenes of some of the most game-changing moments in women’s sports history. Tune in, turn up the volume, and join me for this eye-opening conversation with the one and only Dr. Bonnie Morris.Dr. Bon's website - https://www.bonniejmorris.com/You can reach Dr. Bon at - https://www.bonniejmorris.com/contact🎧 Listen now on The Lesbian Love Podcast!Breaking Barriers in Women’s Sports: A Conversation with Dr. Bonnie Morris

Self-care is vital to our existence and yet many of us forget to do it. What self care techniques do you use and do you schedule them into your day and week? I share 5 of the sensual, in your body ideas to help you have a deeper experience of you. These tips will make you happier and in more ease and flow, especially #5 which is my favorite. I hope #5 is one you include at least weekly. It will make you a better lover and reduce your stress. For a FREE copy of my ebook: 5 Ways To Love Myself Better: A Guide for Lesbian Self-Care, go to: https://lesbianrelationshipcoach.com/products/lesbianselfcare

What is self-care?Meet Sally Green, The Self-Care RockstarWhat inspired your self-care journey?Self-care is not selfish!How it benefits us?Habits to replaceSelf-care practices - meditation, exercise in nature, healthier eating, art/hobbies, journal, sleep, social media breaksSchedule time for things that bring you joyTake care of your mental, physical & emotional stateSally's gift to my listeners - Self-Care Rockstar Journal with 7-days of writing promptshttps://www.theselfcarerockstar.com/