Blended Family Breakthrough

Does it ever feel like you have a bit of a double life going?

You have those moments when it's just you and your partner and it feels like all is right with the world…

…but suddenly, when one or both sets of kids enter the scene — everything seems to fall apart!

That's because when it comes to blended families, "coupleness" does NOT necessarily equal "familyness".

This is often a tough reality to accept.  You're deeply in love and excited about building a life together, but it seems that you've got some emotional and relational whiplash as it feels like you're tossed back and forth between two dynamics over and over.

If that strikes a chord, you might want to consider the difference between "coupleness" and "familyness"..  Otherwise disappointment and confusion can quickly set in.

Blending a family is so much more than your couple relationship.  That's why it's important to carefully consider  what it takes to build "familyness" and prepare for the road ahead.
  

In this episode, we'll explore how to intentionally approach "Familyness" so that you can reduce relational tension and create genuine connection in your home.

You'll Discover:

• How to avoid the 'easy wrong turns' couples tend to make around building "familyness"
• Empowering insights and practical strategies to successfully build "familyness" 

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When you and your partner hit a leadership bump in the road and you're struggling to stay connected and communicate effectively, pause and honestly ask yourself these 3 questions:

1.  Am I really listening to my partner and affirming their perspective…or am I quick to disagree?
2.  Am I curious about what my partner might be experiencing…or have I become critical?
3.  What am I experiencing emotionally and how might I openly express and manage my own emotions well?

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I (Mike) take leadership very seriously.  

One of my desires, even in our current empty nest years is to be the kind of family leader that my children and stepchild want to connect with and listen to.

But often I feel overwhelmed or frustrated as I lead my blended family.  All the complexities can lead to confusion that robs me of the confidence and connection I'm trying to build.

Guys — have you ever felt that way?

You certainly aren't alone.  And you don't have to figure it all out by yourself.  

In this episode, we're reconnecting with Mike Haney who will offer his insightful perspectives on how to intentionally lead your blended family.  

Mike has been courageously leading his blended family for over 20 years and this discussion will help you to gain hope through a deeper understanding of your role so that you can experience fulfillment in your marriage and in blended family life.

Don't let the complexities of blending keep you from courageously leading your family.  You can be intentional and effective with the right attitude and understanding.  Then you can experience the confidence, connection (and peace) you're looking for!

You'll Discover:

• Why it's critical to gain information and understanding of the complexities of leading a blended family 
• How to manage your anger and frustration when faced with challenges
• The 5 Stages of relationships and positive ways to cherish and connect with your wife as you move through them
• How to break free from unproductive patterns  

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Stepdads need courage!  

Navigating all the complexities, confusion, and common frustrations is not for the faint-hearted.

But it's not just courage stepdad's need, they also need community.  Sure, lots of guys operate as if they can fix the challenges, untangle the complexities, and "be the hero" on their own — but most experience relief and reassurance when they discover they're not alone!  

Our special guest, Mike Haney is on a mission to encourage stepdads and share what he's learned through almost 23 years of blending!

In this episode, I (Kim) will be interviewing two stepdads — my Mike and Mike Haney.  Both of these men are experienced stepdads who've acquired loads of wisdom over more than two decades.  They've learned from their mistakes and discovered some key elements every man needs to become the stepdad they really want to be!

If you're a stepdad (or you're married to one), you don't want to miss this insightful (and humorous) conversation.

You'll Discover:

• Solid tips and valuable insight for Stepdads (and moms too) 
• The unique role Stepdads play and the best approach to parenting  
• The importance of building a partnership with your wife
• Helpful attitudes around how to relate with your wife's Ex-husband

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