The Main Thing Podcast

In this heartfelt and deeply meaningful wisdom conversation, I sit down with Kathleen Walker—a trusted friend of more than 25 years, a respected leadership consultant, an entrepreneur and one of the most compassionate people I know. Kathleen works with leaders, teams, and organizations to strengthen communication, clarity, and performance. But beyond her professional expertise, Kathleen brings a rare blend of empathy, insight, and lived wisdom that has shaped countless lives—including mine. This conversation is an invitation to slow down, look inward, and lead differently. Lead With Love – Leadership, Relationships & the Choice That Changes Everything We explore Kathleen's powerful "main thing" wisdom—lead with love—and how it applies in both leadership and personal life. From hiring and workplace communication to parenting, grief, friendship, and everyday relationships, Kathleen reveals how love can become a conscious, transformative choice instead of a reaction driven by fear or frustration. You'll be moved by stories of her father's influence, her journey as a leader and mother, and the simple daily practices that help her choose love again and again. This conversation is filled with encouragement, perspective, and practical insight you can apply immediately. What You'll Learn from Our Wisdom Conversation How love transforms leadership, feedback, and workplace culture The difference between reacting in fear and responding in love How relationships directly shape fulfillment, health, and longevity A Bit More About Our Wise Guest Kathleen Walker is the cofounder of Epiphany Consulting, a leadership and assessment firm serving individuals, teams, and organizations. Her professional background spans telecommunications, transportation, healthcare, law, and personal services. She specializes in communication, leadership alignment, hiring, and personal development. Kathleen is a South Charleston native, a devoted wife and mother of two daughters, and a lifelong encourager. She joins us from Charleston, West Virginia. Podcast Resources Learn more about Epiphany Consulting Credits Editor + Technical Advisor Bob Hotchkiss Brand + Strategy Advisor Andy Malinoski PR + Partnerships Advisor Rachel Bell Marketing, Social Media and Graphic Design Chloe Lineberg Stay Connected with Us on Social YouTube @themainthingpod Twitter @themainthingpod Instagram @themainthingpod Facebook @TheMainThingPod LinkedIn Help Support and Sustain This Podcast Become a subscriber. Share the podcast with one or two friends. Follow us on social media @TheMainThingPod Buy some Main Thing Merch from our Merchandise Store. Buy a book from our curated wisdom collection on bookshop.org. Become a patron and support us on Patreon with funding. Episode Chapters [00:02:45] - Why hiring & onboarding are frustrating; Kathleen's keys to success [00:04:48] - Kathleen's elevator pitch; why she loves what she does [00:05:21] - Understanding our communication styles; generational differences [00:06:15] - What she wanted to be when she grew up [00:07:05] - Assessments: key to understanding ourselves and personal impact [00:08:10] - One morning at the bagel shop; how Kathleen & Skip are connected [00:09:37] - Inviting you to support our mission of delivering wisdom to the world [00:10:40] - Kathleen reveals her Main Thing [00:11:11] - The impact of a mentor - Kathleen's father; wisdom + love in action [00:13:30] - Humanity; three things every human needs (and craves) [00:15:20] - Choosing love over fear [00:18:40] - Seasons of life, friendships and community [00:20:11] - Kathleen shares a parting thought; the butterfly effect [00:22:45] - Skip's final reflection on Kathleen's wisdom lesson

In this inspiring wisdom‑conversation, I sit down with Chris Breed. He's not only a top PGA-certified golf instructor, coach, encourager and faith‑driven leader, he is one of the most inspiring people I've ever met. FACE Forward - Encouragement, Focus & Faith We explore how Chris' coaching insights and spiritual perspectives combine to help us live wiser, bolder lives. Chris introduces his "FACE" framework (Focus • Attitude • Commitment • Effort) and shows how it applies not only on the green, but in our everyday journeys of growth and meaning. You will laugh and learn with stories from his golf career, lessons in resilience and encouragement, and practical tools to help you get unstuck, shift perspective and move forward. Chris' authenticity and positivity will leave you energized and full of confidence. What You'll Learn from Our Wisdom Conversation Tips on how to give feedback that sticks and helps improve performance Inspiration to apply when you're feeling discouraged How to find and rejuvenate our confidence when it seems to have disappeared Plus - an inside look at how our faith can spill over and fuel growth in other areas of life A Bit More About Our Wise Guest Chris Breed is a full-time golf professional who works at Berry Hills Country Club in Charleston, West Virginia. He has a passion for growing the game of golf and watching his students' skills grow through his instruction and guidance. Chris loves seeing his students shine on and off the golf course. At an early age, Chris developed a passion for teaching and coaching because of the influenced of his mentor, Ted Sheftic. Chris holds numerous PGA golf certifications. He was recently honored by Golf Digest as the #1 golf instructor in West Virginia for the 2025-2026 season. Chris resides in Charleston with his wife and children. He joins us today from the majestic grounds of Berry Hills Country Club. Podcast Resources Connect with Coach Chris Breed on social media— TikTok: @Chris.Breed7 Instagram: ChrisBreed85 Berry Hills Country Club website Credits Editor + Technical Advisor Bob Hotchkiss Brand + Strategy Advisor Andy Malinoski PR + Partnerships Advisor Rachel Bell Marketing, Social Media and Graphic Design Chloe Lineberg Stay Connected with Us on Social YouTube @themainthingpod Twitter @themainthingpod Instagram @themainthingpod Facebook @TheMainThingPod LinkedIn Help Support and Sustain This Podcast Become a subscriber. Share the podcast with one or two friends. Follow us on social media @TheMainThingPod Buy some Main Thing Merch from our Merchandise Store. Buy a book from our curated wisdom collection on bookshop.org. Become a patron and support us on Patreon with funding. Episode Chapters [0:01:35] - Meet Coach Chris Breed Introduction to Chris's personality, passion, and personal connection to Skip. [0:03:34] - Coaching with Purpose Chris's coaching approach and heart for personal growth. [0:06:25] - Golf as a Metaphor for Life True or false questions spark deeper life wisdom through the lens of golf. [0:08:49] - The FACE Framework Chris shares his powerful system for performance and mindset: Focus, Attitude, Commitment, Effort. [0:12:42] - Midnight Golf & Fatherhood Warm memories of learning golf with his dad and how that shaped Chris's passion. [0:14:03] - Coaching Styles & Learning Personalities How Chris adapts lessons to fit visual and feel-based learners. [0:16:21] - Coach Chris Breed Reveals His "Main Thing" Wisdom Chris shares his guiding principle in life — and how encouragement creates transformation. [0:20:35] - Coaching His Son Riley Lessons in expectations, patience, and the shift from "impress" to "bless." [0:24:46] - Faith Through TikTok Using social platforms for spiritual encouragement and sharing daily devotions. [0:26:37] - Anchored by Faith Chris reflects on God's guidance and staying grounded in turbulent times.

Today's wise guest is an entrepreneurial business owner who has lived and worked in Chicago, London and San Francisco. Lindsay Yellin is creative and bold—and she keeps it very real. She's worked as an executive in high-pressure industries and now helps other executive leaders in similar environments to cope and thrive. When you listen to this episode you will come away with … Tips and techniques for dealing with fear. Practices you can apply right now - today - for coping with stress and uncertainty. Leadership practices and advice on leading your team during tumultuous times. More About Our Wise Guest Lindsay Yellin Lindsay Yellin is an executive leadership coach who helps high-achieving creative leaders move beyond fear and self-doubt to lead with possibility and self-trust. A former advertising executive, she's no stranger to high-pressure, high-visibility environments. And she understands firsthand the challenge of staying true to yourself while leading others. Today, Lindsay is a passionate champion and challenger for her clients, helping them unlock their leadership potential through deep self-connection and intentional relationships. She's also host of a new podcast, "Unfiltered Leadership with Lindsay Yellin." Beyond coaching, you'll also find her behind the espresso bar, where her love for sparking connection shows up just as strongly. Whether in a coaching session or over a cup of coffee, her mission is the same: to inspire clarity, courage, and conviction that drive meaningful, lasting change. Lindsay joins us today from her home in Half Moon Bay, California - on the Pacific Coast midway between Silicon Valley and San Francisco. Resources Lindsay Yellin Coaching website Lindsay's Podcast: Watch on YouTube Listen on Spotify or on Apple Podcasts Credits Editor + Technical Advisor Bob Hotchkiss Brand + Strategy Advisor Andy Malinoski PR + Partnerships Advisor Rachel Bell Marketing, Social Media and Graphic Design Chloe Lineberg Stay Connected with Us on Social YouTube @themainthingpod Twitter @themainthingpod Instagram @themainthingpod Facebook @TheMainThingPod LinkedIn Help Support and Sustain This Podcast Become a subscriber. Share the podcast with one or two friends. Follow us on social media @TheMainThingPod Buy some Main Thing Merch from our Merchandise Store. Buy a book from our curated wisdom collection on bookshop.org. Become a patron and support us on Patreon with funding. Episode Chapters [0:03:41] - Meet Lindsay Yellin: A Journey from Agency Life to Coaching [0:04:18] - Lindsay and Skip share how they are connected [0:04:51] - The Power of Place: Chicago Roots and Career Growth [0:05:51] - The Moment Everything Changed [0:06:31] - Fear vs. Possibility: A Practical Reframe [0:08:59] - Coaching for Creative Leaders [0:10:11] - When the Jenga Tower Shakes: Navigating Uncertainty [0:14:59] - Lindsay Yellin Shares Her Main Thing [0:15:18] - Who I Am, Who I Want to Be: Using Values to Lead Yourself [0:20:53] - Self-Compassion Isn't Soft—It's Strong [0:25:42] - Final Thoughts: Humanity Over Perfection

Welcome to a very special wisdom mini-series. This four-part project originates from an archive of rare 2004 recordings of wisdom conversations with my mentor, John Wells Jr. In the truest sense this batch of wisdom has been two decades in the making. Sadly, John passed away in early February 2005, after battling cancer. Those conversations and recordings served as a pre-cursor, perhaps even a prequel to this podcast which launched 15 years later in 2019. The Courage to Change Part Four features what was, perhaps, John's favorite story to tell, his favorite wisdom lesson. It showcases John's humility and his lifelong commitment to learning. John Wells Jr never stopped striving to better himself, to improve. That passion fueled his physical fitness, as you heard in Part One, as well as his business acumen, as you'll hear in this episode. I think this lesson was his favorite because something he was initially opposed to doing, surprised him with such a positive outcome and impact. You see, to John, learning something was more important and more valuable than simply being right about something. As you listen today, you will get a feel for the Well Home Furnishings flagship store, as well as their innovative approach to business and leadership. The wisdom lesson you get in this episode is straightforward and immediately applicable. It provides a powerful illustration of the values of humility and adaptability in business success. It also delivers a strong reminder of the need to be open to—and ready for—change. Let's face it, that's not always easy. More About Our Wise Guest - John Wells, Jr. John was one of the most effective and influential mentors in my lifetime. He taught, led and influenced me, opening my eyes and expanding my thinking on those things that truly matter. I was deeply blessed to know him. John was a dedicated retail veteran and community leader who co-founded Wells Home Furnishings. Known for his entrepreneurial spirit, he led his business to award-winning success. Beyond his career, Wells was deeply involved in civic and youth service organizations in Charleston, including the Boys Scouts, YMCA and United Way, among others, reflecting his commitment to community betterment. In 2000, John was honored with the prestigious Ernst Young Entrepreneur of the Year Award. Though he never sought the spotlight, one day the President of the United States, George W. Bush, stood in Charleston and honored John Wells for his service. His legacy is marked by his dedication to his family, his profession and his community, leaving a lasting impact on everyone who knew him. Resources YMCA Spirit of the Valley Tribute Video to John Wells, Jr. (2005) Wells Home Furnishings website Conversations with My Mentor John - Part Three Conversations with My Mentor John - Part Two Conversations with My Mentor John - Part One Credits Special thanks to Motion Masters, Inc. - Diana Sole Walko, CEO/President - for generously supporting and capturing video and audio from these 2004 sessions. Editor + Technical Advisor Bob Hotchkiss Brand + Strategy Advisor Andy Malinoski PR + Partnerships Advisor Rachel Bell Marketing, Social Media and Graphic Design Chloe Lineberg Stay Connected with Us on Social YouTube @themainthingpod Twitter @themainthingpod Instagram @themainthingpod Facebook @TheMainThingPod LinkedIn TikTok @TheMainThingPod Help Support and Sustain This Podcast Become a subscriber. Share the podcast with one or two friends. Follow us on social media @TheMainThingPod Buy some Main Thing Merch from our Merchandise Store. Buy a book from our curated wisdom collection on bookshop.org. Become a patron and support us on Patreon with funding.

This four-part series originates from an archive of rare 2004 recordings of wisdom conversations with my mentor, John Wells Jr. Sadly, John passed away in early February 2005, after battling cancer. Those conversations and recordings served as a pre-cursor, perhaps even a prequel to this podcast which launched 15 years later in 2019. A Powerful Six-Word Phrase for Leaders Part Three of our our mini-series is the shortest of the four. In it, you will discover one of John's favorite leadership tools. It's a powerful, six-word phrase that's easy to grasp, easy to use and easy to master. It holds the power to unlock your leadership potential. Enjoy this concise, practical wisdom lesson from John Wells Jr. As you listen and learn, begin to think where and when you will have the best opportunity to apply it. More About Our Wise Guest - John Wells, Jr. John was one of the most effective and influential mentors in my lifetime. He taught, led and influenced me, opening my eyes and expanding my thinking on those things that truly matter. I was deeply blessed to know him. John was a dedicated retail veteran and community leader who co-founded Wells Home Furnishings after many years working at R.H. Kyle Furniture Co. Known for his entrepreneurial spirit, he led his business to award-winning success and earned induction into the National Wholesale Furniture Association Hall of Fame. Beyond his career, Wells was deeply involved in civic and youth service organizations in Charleston, including the Boys Scouts, YMCA and United Way, among others, reflecting his commitment to community betterment. In 2000, John was honored with the prestigious Ernst Young Entrepreneur of the Year Award. Though he never sought the spotlight, one day the President of the United States, George W. Bush, stood in Charleston and honored John Wells for his service. His legacy is marked by his dedication to his family, his profession and his community, leaving a lasting impact on everyone who knew him. Resources YMCA Spirit of the Valley Tribute Video to John Wells, Jr. (2005) Wells Home Furnishings website Credits Special thanks to Motion Masters, Inc. - Diana Sole Walko, CEO/President - for generously supporting and capturing video and audio from these 2004 sessions. Editor + Technical Advisor Bob Hotchkiss Brand + Strategy Advisor Andy Malinoski PR + Partnerships Advisor Rachel Bell Marketing, Social Media and Graphic Design Chloe Lineberg Stay Connected with Us on Social YouTube @themainthingpod Twitter @themainthingpod Instagram @themainthingpod Facebook @TheMainThingPod LinkedIn TikTok @TheMainThingPod Help Support and Sustain This Podcast Become a subscriber. Share the podcast with one or two friends. Follow us on social media @TheMainThingPod Buy some Main Thing Merch from our Merchandise Store. Buy a book from our curated wisdom collection on bookshop.org. Become a patron and support us on Patreon with funding.