Creating Her Best Life
Creating Her Best Life

Creating Her Best Life

Shannan Christiansen

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It's time to create your best life. The life that you want and deserve. It starts with simple steps forward and Shannan can show you how. Coaching will change your life. This podcast is designed to help you heal, find more happiness, and create the life of your dreams. Your host Shannan Christiansen is a Fortune 100 Executive and Master Coach. She was a single mom, overweight, and barely making it through the day. She changed her life, lost the weight, found the love of her life, got her MBA, and started living her best life. She now coaches women to do the same. Each week, we'll explore the thoughts and feelings that contribute to the struggles many women have. Shannan will use her experience as a Master Coach to share real life examples, tools and tips to help you change the way you think so you can experience real transformation. To learn more, visit bflycoaching.com.

Recent Episodes

Ep. #291: When You Wake Up and Wonder, "Is This It?"
DEC 3, 2025
Ep. #291: When You Wake Up and Wonder, "Is This It?"

This episode dismantles the version of you built for approval and drags your real identity back into the light. It forces the quiet questions you've avoided: what actually energizes you, what you would want if guilt wasn't running the show, what you stopped doing that you still crave. It challenges the conditioned life you inherited, the roles, expectations, and performances that no longer fit, and examines the moment when those identities fall silent and you're left with the truth underneath.

You'll hear a breakdown of how identity evolves, why phases of life expose what's real, and how letting yourself change opens doors you couldn't see while you were busy trying to be acceptable. Feeling lost becomes a signal, not a failure. That disorientation is often the doorway to what you value, what you want, and who you are when the noise stops.

Ready to Take This Work Deeper?:

Are you ready to stop living on autopilot and start creating the life you actually want? The Life Upgrade Masterclass Series is your monthly blueprint for real change. 12-months of live Masterclass workshops (with replays available) designed to help you break old patterns, build momentum, and create lasting transformation. With a focused downloadable workbook monthly, you'll get the tools, strategies, and structure to take charge of your growth and stay aligned with your goals. No more drifting. No more stuck. Just intentional action, one month at a time. CLICK HERE TO REGISTER NOW!

Interested in 1:1 Coaching? Go to bflycoaching.com/coaching to schedule your free 30-minute consultation with one of our BFLY Coaches today!

Visit bflycoaching.com and learn more about how to work with me!

Follow me on social media:

Facebook: @bflycoaching

Instagram: @shannanchristiansen

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Ep. #290: Turning Jealousy Into Insight
NOV 12, 2025
Ep. #290: Turning Jealousy Into Insight
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25 MIN
Ep. #289: Redefining Productivity, Value, and Progress
OCT 29, 2025
Ep. #289: Redefining Productivity, Value, and Progress

In this episode, Coach Jenn and I challenge the belief that busyness equals worth. For too long, many have worn "busy" like a badge of honor, believing that rest must be earned, that stillness means laziness, and that productivity defines value. But the truth is simple: you are valuable because you exist, not because of what you do.

We explore the different seasons of life, from motherhood to midlife transitions and how each one calls for a redefinition of what it means to make progress. Rest isn't indulgent; it's essential. Slowing down doesn't mean you're falling behind, it's how you realign with who you truly are.

If you've ever struggled with guilt for resting, perfectionism that keeps you in constant motion, or the pressure to prove your worth through doing, this conversation will remind you that progress doesn't need to be seen, validated, or measured by anyone else.

Ready to Take This Work Deeper?:

Are you ready to stop living on autopilot and start creating the life you actually want? The Life Upgrade Masterclass Series is your monthly blueprint for real change. 12-months of live Masterclass workshops (with replays available) designed to help you break old patterns, build momentum, and create lasting transformation. With a focused downloadable workbook monthly, you'll get the tools, strategies, and structure to take charge of your growth and stay aligned with your goals. No more drifting. No more stuck. Just intentional action, one month at a time. CLICK HERE TO REGISTER NOW!

Interested in 1:1 Coaching? Go to bflycoaching.com/coaching to schedule your free 30-minute consultation with one of our BFLY Coaches today!

Visit bflycoaching.com and learn more about how to work with me!

Follow me on social media:

Facebook: @bflycoaching

Instagram: @shannanchristiansen

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22 MIN
Ep. #288: The Comparison Trap of Motherhood (Yep, Even with Grown Kids)
OCT 15, 2025
Ep. #288: The Comparison Trap of Motherhood (Yep, Even with Grown Kids)
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Ep. #287: The Life You Don't Post About
OCT 1, 2025
Ep. #287: The Life You Don't Post About

It's easy to scroll through social media and feel like everyone else's life is perfect, exciting, or somehow "better" than yours.

But here's the truth: the highlight reels you see aren't the whole story, they're curated snippets, edited for likes, comments, and applause.

In this episode, we talk about why the quiet, ordinary moments matter more than the flashy ones. Your life isn't meant to be a highlight reel, it's meant to be lived.

The coffee in silence, the laundry piles, the laughs and tears with the people you love, these moments are real, meaningful, and enough.

If you've ever compared your behind-the-scenes to someone else's carefully edited reel, this episode is a reminder to stop scrolling, stop comparing, and start fully inhabiting your own story.

Are you ready to stop living on autopilot and start creating the life you actually want? The Life Upgrade Masterclass Series is your monthly blueprint for real change. 12-months of live Masterclass workshops (with replays available) designed to help you break old patterns, build momentum, and create lasting transformation. With a focused downloadable workbook monthly, you'll get the tools, strategies, and structure to take charge of your growth and stay aligned with your goals. No more drifting. No more stuck. Just intentional action, one month at a time. CLICK HERE TO REGISTER NOW!

Interested in 1:1 Coaching? Go to bflycoaching.com/coaching to schedule your free 30-minute consultation with one of our BFLY Coaches today!

Visit bflycoaching.com and learn more about how to work with me!

Follow me on social media:

Facebook: @bflycoaching

Instagram: @shannanchristiansen

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9 MIN