Haven Hub Life: Shift, Change, Create

In this episode of Haven Hub Life, Lolly Aiye explores the hidden exhaustion faced by high-functioning women. Despite lives that appear perfect, the emotional labor of managing others' feelings and preemptive peacekeeping takes a toll. Lolly shares insights into why rest doesn't alleviate this deep fatigue and introduces a framework to identify energy leaks. Join her as she guides you through understanding emotional overdrafts and provides practical steps to reclaim your energy. FREE RESOURCES:→ Book your FREE Coaching call→ Get your Boundary scripts Join Lolly's Letters (free weekly insights)#SelfCareRevolution #EnergyReclamation #RestIsEssential

Save your space in the workshop www.havenhub.life/workshop In this empowering episode, Lolly Aiye delves into the transformative power of setting personal boundaries. Discover how saying 'no' can sort people into categories, revealing their true intentions. Lolly shares practical scripts for handling guilt trips, character assassinations, and other manipulation tactics. Learn how boundaries are not barriers but bridges to healthier relationships, and explore the emotional journey of grief and growth that comes with asserting your needs. Join Lolly as she guides you through understanding the importance of boundaries and how they can lead to genuine connections and personal empowerment.FREE RESOURCES:→ Book your FREE Coaching call→ Get your Boundary scripts Join Lolly's Letters (free weekly insights)#HavenHub

Save your space in the workshop www.havenhub.life/workshop In this episode of Haven Hub Life, Lolly Aiye discusses the emotional complexities surrounding the act of saying no and the guilt that often accompanies it. She emphasises the importance of setting boundaries, reframing them as acts of love rather than cruelty. Lolly introduces practical strategies for establishing boundaries, including the 'pause protocol' to help individuals process requests without immediate pressure. She also addresses the concept of reciprocity in relationships, encouraging listeners to focus on genuine care rather than scorekeeping. The conversation concludes with actionable steps for saying no and the importance of prioritising self-care.In this episode, we dive into the often uncomfortable but crucial topic of setting boundaries. Join Lolly Aiye as she explores why saying no can feel like a crime and how to overcome the guilt associated with it. Discover practical strategies to protect your peace and learn why boundaries are not walls but filters that let the right things in. Tune in to transform your approach to personal boundaries and embrace the power of saying no.FREE RESOURCES:→ Book your FREE Coaching call→ Get your Boundary scripts Join Lolly's Letters (free weekly insights)Instagram:@havenhublife

In this episode of Haven Hub Life, Lolly Aiye delves into the hidden exhaustion that many high-functioning women experience.Despite having lives that seem perfect on paper, the emotional labour of managing others' feelings and preemptive peacekeeping takes a toll.Lolly offers insights into why rest doesn't alleviate this deep fatigue and introduces a framework to identify energy leaks. Join Lolly as she guides you through understanding emotional overdrafts and provides practical steps to reclaim your energy.FREE RESOURCES:→ Book your FREE Coaching call→ Get your Boundary scripts Join Lolly's Letters (free weekly insights)#HavenHub #Exhaustion #EmotionalLabour

In this heartfelt episode of Haven Hub, Lolly Aiye delves into the complex dance between grief and joy. She shares personal stories and insights on how to embrace happiness without guilt, honoring both the memory of loved ones and the beauty of life. Join Lolly as she guides listeners through the journey of allowing joy to coexist with grief, offering permission to exhale and live fully. Perfect for those navigating life's hardest chapters with dignity and honesty.Navigating the complex landscape of grief can be overwhelming, especially when it comes to experiencing a sense of normalcy or even "finding joy after loss." It's essential to remember that "dealing with grief" is a unique and personal "grief journey", filled with a range of "emotions". Focus on "healing after loss" by allowing yourself to feel and process all aspects of "grieving". FREE RESOURCES:→ Downloadables→ Join Lolly's Letters Let's Connect:Instagram: @havenhublife#HavenHub #grief #UncomfortableTruths