In this episode, you&apos;ll learn two powerful antidotes for porn addiction: play and awe. Ready for a deep dive into neuroscience? According to Polyvagal Theory, play and awe are both &quot;blended states&quot; that regulate your autonomic nervous system through connection instead of disconnection. Play is not peripheral. Awe is not optional. These experiences are essential for men outgrowing porn. Watch the video at <a href='https://www.husbandmaterial.com/blog/play-awe-porn-addiction-a-polyvagal-perspective'>www.husbandmaterial.com/play-awe-porn</a> Related podcast episodes:<ul><li><a href='https://podcast.husbandmaterial.com/713910/episodes/14730147-porn-and-polyvagal-theory-with-john-kilmer'>Porn And Polyvagal Theory</a> (with John Kilmer)</li><li><a href='https://podcast.husbandmaterial.com/713910/episodes/9418585-why-men-need-to-play-with-dr-michael-crocker'>Why Men Need To Play </a>(with Dr. Michael Crocker)</li><li><a href='https://podcast.husbandmaterial.com/713910/episodes/8769732-master-your-nervous-system-live'>Master Your Nervous System</a> (LIVE)</li></ul> Recommended reading (these are paid links):<ul><li><a href='https://amzn.to/3FGBChh'>Anchored</a> by Deb Dana</li><li><a href='https://amzn.to/3sh6lhI'>Polyvagal Theory in Therapy</a> by Deb Dana</li><li><a href='https://amzn.to/4aUQZjd'>The Sex Talk You Never Got</a> by Sam Jolman</li></ul>Take the Husband Material Journey... <ul> <li>Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on <a href='https://www.youtube.com/husbandmaterial'>YouTube</a> </li> <li>Step 2: Join the private <a href='https://www.husbandmaterial.co/'>Husband Material Community</a> </li> <li>Step 3: Take the free mini-course: <a href='http://outgrowporn.com/'>How To Outgrow Porn</a> </li> <li>Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: <a href='https://www.husbandmaterial.com/academy'>Husband Material Academy</a> </li> </ul> Thanks for listening!

<description>&lt;p&gt;In this episode, you&amp;apos;ll learn two powerful antidotes for porn addiction: play and awe. Ready for a deep dive into neuroscience? According to Polyvagal Theory, play and awe are both &amp;quot;blended states&amp;quot; that regulate your autonomic nervous system through connection instead of disconnection. Play is not peripheral. Awe is not optional. These experiences are essential for men outgrowing porn.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Watch the video at &lt;a href='https://www.husbandmaterial.com/blog/play-awe-porn-addiction-a-polyvagal-perspective'&gt;www.husbandmaterial.com/play-awe-porn&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Related podcast episodes:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='https://podcast.husbandmaterial.com/713910/episodes/14730147-porn-and-polyvagal-theory-with-john-kilmer'&gt;Porn And Polyvagal Theory&lt;/a&gt; (with John Kilmer)&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='https://podcast.husbandmaterial.com/713910/episodes/9418585-why-men-need-to-play-with-dr-michael-crocker'&gt;Why Men Need To Play &lt;/a&gt;(with Dr. Michael Crocker)&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='https://podcast.husbandmaterial.com/713910/episodes/8769732-master-your-nervous-system-live'&gt;Master Your Nervous System&lt;/a&gt; (LIVE)&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Recommended reading (these are paid links):&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='https://amzn.to/3FGBChh'&gt;Anchored&lt;/a&gt; by Deb Dana&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='https://amzn.to/3sh6lhI'&gt;Polyvagal Theory in Therapy&lt;/a&gt; by Deb Dana&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='https://amzn.to/4aUQZjd'&gt;The Sex Talk You Never Got&lt;/a&gt; by Sam Jolman&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;Take the Husband Material Journey...&lt;/p&gt; &lt;ul&gt; &lt;li&gt;Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on &lt;a href='https://www.youtube.com/husbandmaterial'&gt;YouTube&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/li&gt; &lt;li&gt;Step 2: Join the private &lt;a href='https://www.husbandmaterial.co/'&gt;Husband Material Community&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/li&gt; &lt;li&gt;Step 3: Take the free mini-course: &lt;a href='http://outgrowporn.com/'&gt;How To Outgrow Porn&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/li&gt; &lt;li&gt;Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: &lt;a href='https://www.husbandmaterial.com/academy'&gt;Husband Material Academy&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/li&gt; &lt;/ul&gt; &lt;p&gt;Thanks for listening!&lt;/p&gt;</description>

In this episode, you'll learn two powerful antidotes for porn addiction: play and awe. Ready for a deep dive into neuroscience? According to Polyvagal Theory, play and awe are both "blended states" that regulate your autonomic nervous system through connection instead of disconnection. Play is not peripheral. Awe is not optional. These experiences are essential for men outgrowing porn.Watch the video at www.husbandmaterial.com/play-awe-pornRelated podcast episodes:Porn And Polyvagal Theory (w...

Play, Awe, & Porn Addiction: A Polyvagal Perspective

Don&apos;t let unwanted same-sex attraction hold you back from a life of purpose and possibility. In this episode, Jason Mellard tells his story of feeling separate from masculinity and how that affected him sexually. Hear how Jason found lasting freedom from porn through finding his voice, grieving his wounds, and stepping into his purpose. Jason Mellard is the founder of <a href='https://www.ownyouridentitynow.com/'>Own Your Identity,</a> where he empowers men experiencing unwanted same-sex attraction to live the life they truly desire. Jason is a Certified High Performance Coach and Certified Husband Material Coach. He has experienced sexual abuse, same-sex attraction, and freedom from porn. Jason is committed to helping men live beyond their unwanted attractions and negative habits into a life of purpose and possibility through the power of Christ and for the glory of God. Listen to Jason&apos;s podcast, <a href='https://ownyouridentitynow.com/podcast/'>Own Your Identity</a>, where he provides practical tools to bring clarity and hope to men navigating unwanted same-sex attraction. Jason is also the creator of <a href='http://ssaquiz.com/'>SSAquiz.com</a>. Take the quiz to discover how much same-sex attraction is impacting your life. Learn more about Jason at <a href='http://ownyouridentitynow.com/'>ownyouridentitynow.com</a>.Take the Husband Material Journey... <ul> <li>Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on <a href='https://www.youtube.com/husbandmaterial'>YouTube</a> </li> <li>Step 2: Join the private <a href='https://www.husbandmaterial.co/'>Husband Material Community</a> </li> <li>Step 3: Take the free mini-course: <a href='http://outgrowporn.com/'>How To Outgrow Porn</a> </li> <li>Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: <a href='https://www.husbandmaterial.com/academy'>Husband Material Academy</a> </li> </ul> Thanks for listening!

<description>&lt;p&gt;Don&amp;apos;t let unwanted same-sex attraction hold you back from a life of purpose and possibility. In this episode, Jason Mellard tells his story of feeling separate from masculinity and how that affected him sexually. Hear how Jason found lasting freedom from porn through finding his voice, grieving his wounds, and stepping into his purpose. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Jason Mellard is the founder of &lt;a href='https://www.ownyouridentitynow.com/'&gt;Own Your Identity,&lt;/a&gt; where he empowers men experiencing unwanted same-sex attraction to live the life they truly desire. Jason is a Certified High Performance Coach and Certified Husband Material Coach. He has experienced sexual abuse, same-sex attraction, and freedom from porn. Jason is committed to helping men live beyond their unwanted attractions and negative habits into a life of purpose and possibility through the power of Christ and for the glory of God.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Listen to Jason&amp;apos;s podcast, &lt;a href='https://ownyouridentitynow.com/podcast/'&gt;Own Your Identity&lt;/a&gt;, where he provides practical tools to bring clarity and hope to men navigating unwanted same-sex attraction.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Jason is also the creator of &lt;a href='http://ssaquiz.com/'&gt;SSAquiz.com&lt;/a&gt;. Take the quiz to discover how much same-sex attraction is impacting your life.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Learn more about Jason at &lt;a href='http://ownyouridentitynow.com/'&gt;ownyouridentitynow.com&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Take the Husband Material Journey...&lt;/p&gt; &lt;ul&gt; &lt;li&gt;Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on &lt;a href='https://www.youtube.com/husbandmaterial'&gt;YouTube&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/li&gt; &lt;li&gt;Step 2: Join the private &lt;a href='https://www.husbandmaterial.co/'&gt;Husband Material Community&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/li&gt; &lt;li&gt;Step 3: Take the free mini-course: &lt;a href='http://outgrowporn.com/'&gt;How To Outgrow Porn&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/li&gt; &lt;li&gt;Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: &lt;a href='https://www.husbandmaterial.com/academy'&gt;Husband Material Academy&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/li&gt; &lt;/ul&gt; &lt;p&gt;Thanks for listening!&lt;/p&gt;</description>

Don't let unwanted same-sex attraction hold you back from a life of purpose and possibility. In this episode, Jason Mellard tells his story of feeling separate from masculinity and how that affected him sexually. Hear how Jason found lasting freedom from porn through finding his voice, grieving his wounds, and stepping into his purpose. Jason Mellard is the founder of Own Your Identity, where he empowers men experiencing unwanted same-sex attraction to live the life they truly desire. Jason i...

Own Your Identity (with Jason Mellard)

Have you ever felt afraid to be vulnerable? Me too! In this episode, Trent Dollyhigh tells his story of childhood trauma, porn, pastoral ministry, prison, rehab, and a new life of redemptive risks. Here is a man who lost the world and gained his soul. May Trent inspire you to be vulnerable! &quot;There is no relationship without risk.&quot; —Trent Dollyhigh Trent Dollyhigh is the founder of <a href='https://www.bvmentoring.com/'>Be Vulnerable Mentoring</a>, a recovery mentoring ministry. Trent is a Certified Professional Life Coach who holds a Bachelor&apos;s of Science in Education and a Master&apos;s of Divinity in leadership and counseling. He has experienced healing from trauma, divorce, and pornography. Trent&apos;s past immaturity, lack of courage, unhealthy sexuality, and fear as a lead pastor cost him almost everything. He has done the hard work of recovery from his own failures, and he has spent years living in freedom. Trent&apos;s passion is to guide others from their brokenness to redemption. He has experience with clinical residential treatment and years of recovery work specializing in sexual addiction and trauma. He works with men, women, and couples and is available for 1-on-1 mentoring, intensives, speaking engagements, group mentoring, and wilderness trips.  If you&apos;re looking for a trauma-informed mentor with personal experience with sexual addiction and recovery, contact Trent to begin the journey to hope and healing. Learn more at <a href='http://www.trentdollyhigh.com/'>TrentDollyhigh.com</a>.Take the Husband Material Journey... <ul> <li>Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on <a href='https://www.youtube.com/husbandmaterial'>YouTube</a> </li> <li>Step 2: Join the private <a href='https://www.husbandmaterial.co/'>Husband Material Community</a> </li> <li>Step 3: Take the free mini-course: <a href='http://outgrowporn.com/'>How To Outgrow Porn</a> </li> <li>Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: <a href='https://www.husbandmaterial.com/academy'>Husband Material Academy</a> </li> </ul> Thanks for listening!

<description>&lt;p&gt;Have you ever felt afraid to be vulnerable? Me too! In this episode, Trent Dollyhigh tells his story of childhood trauma, porn, pastoral ministry, prison, rehab, and a new life of redemptive risks. Here is a man who lost the world and gained his soul. May Trent inspire you to be vulnerable!&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&amp;quot;There is no relationship without risk.&amp;quot; —Trent Dollyhigh &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Trent Dollyhigh is the founder of &lt;a href='https://www.bvmentoring.com/'&gt;Be Vulnerable Mentoring&lt;/a&gt;, a recovery mentoring ministry. Trent is a Certified Professional Life Coach who holds a Bachelor&amp;apos;s of Science in Education and a Master&amp;apos;s of Divinity in leadership and counseling. He has experienced healing from trauma, divorce, and pornography. Trent&amp;apos;s past immaturity, lack of courage, unhealthy sexuality, and fear as a lead pastor cost him almost everything. He has done the hard work of recovery from his own failures, and he has spent years living in freedom. Trent&amp;apos;s passion is to guide others from their brokenness to redemption. He has experience with clinical residential treatment and years of recovery work specializing in sexual addiction and trauma. He works with men, women, and couples and is available for 1-on-1 mentoring, intensives, speaking engagements, group mentoring, and wilderness trips.  If you&amp;apos;re looking for a trauma-informed mentor with personal experience with sexual addiction and recovery, contact Trent to begin the journey to hope and healing. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Learn more at &lt;a href='http://www.trentdollyhigh.com/'&gt;TrentDollyhigh.com&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Take the Husband Material Journey...&lt;/p&gt; &lt;ul&gt; &lt;li&gt;Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on &lt;a href='https://www.youtube.com/husbandmaterial'&gt;YouTube&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/li&gt; &lt;li&gt;Step 2: Join the private &lt;a href='https://www.husbandmaterial.co/'&gt;Husband Material Community&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/li&gt; &lt;li&gt;Step 3: Take the free mini-course: &lt;a href='http://outgrowporn.com/'&gt;How To Outgrow Porn&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/li&gt; &lt;li&gt;Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: &lt;a href='https://www.husbandmaterial.com/academy'&gt;Husband Material Academy&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/li&gt; &lt;/ul&gt; &lt;p&gt;Thanks for listening!&lt;/p&gt;</description>

Have you ever felt afraid to be vulnerable? Me too! In this episode, Trent Dollyhigh tells his story of childhood trauma, porn, pastoral ministry, prison, rehab, and a new life of redemptive risks. Here is a man who lost the world and gained his soul. May Trent inspire you to be vulnerable!"There is no relationship without risk." —Trent Dollyhigh Trent Dollyhigh is the founder of Be Vulnerable Mentoring, a recovery mentoring ministry. Trent is a Certified Professional Life Coach who holds a B...

The Fear And Power Of Being Vulnerable (with Trent Dollyhigh)

What can Inside Out 2 teach us about outgrowing porn? I’ll share my top three takeaways. Spoiler alert: important plot details will be revealed.  Related episodes about Internal Family Systems (IFS):<ul><li><a href='https://www.husbandmaterial.com/blog/experience-healing-through-ifs-with-dr-peter-malinoski'>Experience Healing Through IFS</a>, with Dr. Peter Malinoski</li><li><a href='https://www.husbandmaterial.com/blog/unburdening-a-sexual-part-with-dr-peter-malinoski'>Unburdening Sexual Arousal</a>, with Dr. Peter Malinoski</li><li><a href='https://www.husbandmaterial.com/blog/internal-family-systems-and-jesus-with-kim-miller'>Internal Family Systems and Jesus</a>, with Kim Miller</li><li><a href='https://www.husbandmaterial.com/blog/jenna-riemersma'>Move Toward, Not Against</a>, with Jenna Riemersma</li><li><a href='https://www.husbandmaterial.com/blog/the-image-of-god-in-you-with-jenna-riemersma'>The Image Of God In You</a>, with Jenna Riemersma</li></ul>Take the Husband Material Journey... <ul> <li>Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on <a href='https://www.youtube.com/husbandmaterial'>YouTube</a> </li> <li>Step 2: Join the private <a href='https://www.husbandmaterial.co/'>Husband Material Community</a> </li> <li>Step 3: Take the free mini-course: <a href='http://outgrowporn.com/'>How To Outgrow Porn</a> </li> <li>Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: <a href='https://www.husbandmaterial.com/academy'>Husband Material Academy</a> </li> </ul> Thanks for listening!

<description>&lt;p&gt;What can Inside Out 2 teach us about outgrowing porn? I’ll share my top three takeaways. Spoiler alert: important plot details will be revealed. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Related episodes about Internal Family Systems (IFS):&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='https://www.husbandmaterial.com/blog/experience-healing-through-ifs-with-dr-peter-malinoski'&gt;&lt;b&gt;Experience Healing Through IFS&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;, with Dr. Peter Malinoski&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='https://www.husbandmaterial.com/blog/unburdening-a-sexual-part-with-dr-peter-malinoski'&gt;&lt;b&gt;Unburdening Sexual Arousal&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;, with Dr. Peter Malinoski&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='https://www.husbandmaterial.com/blog/internal-family-systems-and-jesus-with-kim-miller'&gt;&lt;b&gt;Internal Family Systems and Jesus&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;, with Kim Miller&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='https://www.husbandmaterial.com/blog/jenna-riemersma'&gt;&lt;b&gt;Move Toward, Not Against&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;, with Jenna Riemersma&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='https://www.husbandmaterial.com/blog/the-image-of-god-in-you-with-jenna-riemersma'&gt;&lt;b&gt;The Image Of God In You&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;, with Jenna Riemersma&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;Take the Husband Material Journey...&lt;/p&gt; &lt;ul&gt; &lt;li&gt;Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on &lt;a href='https://www.youtube.com/husbandmaterial'&gt;YouTube&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/li&gt; &lt;li&gt;Step 2: Join the private &lt;a href='https://www.husbandmaterial.co/'&gt;Husband Material Community&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/li&gt; &lt;li&gt;Step 3: Take the free mini-course: &lt;a href='http://outgrowporn.com/'&gt;How To Outgrow Porn&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/li&gt; &lt;li&gt;Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: &lt;a href='https://www.husbandmaterial.com/academy'&gt;Husband Material Academy&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/li&gt; &lt;/ul&gt; &lt;p&gt;Thanks for listening!&lt;/p&gt;</description>

What can Inside Out 2 teach us about outgrowing porn? I’ll share my top three takeaways. Spoiler alert: important plot details will be revealed. Related episodes about Internal Family Systems (IFS):Experience Healing Through IFS, with Dr. Peter MalinoskiUnburdening Sexual Arousal, with Dr. Peter MalinoskiInternal Family Systems and Jesus, with Kim MillerMove Toward, Not Against, with Jenna RiemersmaThe Image Of God In You, with Jenna RiemersmaTake the Husband Material Journey...  Step 1:...

Inside Out 2 And Porn

What are the 3 phases of healing from sexual betrayal? In part 2 of our series with Dr. Barbara Steffens and Lyschel Burket, you&apos;ll get a helpful overview of the Multidimensional Partner Trauma Model (MPTM). You&apos;ll also learn the difference between forgiveness vs. reconciliation vs. trust and how to avoid &quot;good boy syndrome&quot; while working on rebuilding trust. Dr. Barbara Steffens is the founding president of APSATS, the Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists. She has specialized in providing help for the partners of sexual addicts since 1999. Dr. Steffens is a recognized expert in the field, and is now accepting speaking engagements for churches and professional organizations. Learn more and connect with Barb at <a href='https://www.drbarbarasteffens.com/'>drbarbarasteffens.com</a> Buy Barb&apos;s book (this is a paid link):<a href='https://amzn.to/4dAdafN'>Your Sexually Addicted Spouse: How Partners Can Cope and Heal</a> Lyschel Burket is the Lead Hope Caster and Founder of <a href='https://hoperedefined.org/'>Hope Redefined</a>. She is also a current APSATS Board Member and the committee lead for BTRL (Betrayal Trauma Religious Leader Training). Lyschel has been working with women since 2008 by helping them navigate the road of betrayal by sexual infidelity. She knows all too well the isolation, shame, fear, and trauma that betrayal causes. More than anything, Lyschel wants women to know that they don’t have to walk this road alone, so she provides a safe community where each one can find healing and hope. Learn more about Lyschel and Hope Redefined at <a href='https://hoperedefined.org/'>hoperedefined.org</a> More resources for women from Hope Redefined:<ul><li><a href='https://hoperedefined.org/online-community/'>private online community</a></li><li><a href='https://hoperedefined.org/online-groups/'>online support groups</a></li><li><a href='https://hoperedefined.org/retreats/'>intensive retreats</a></li><li><a href='https://hoperedefined.org/coaching/'>1:1 coaching</a></li></ul> Listen to the <a href='https://hopeforwives.com/'>Hope For Wives</a> podcast at <a href='https://hopeforwives.com/'>hopeforwives.com</a>! Get trained by Dr. Barbara Steffens and Lyschel Burket through <a href='https://get%20trained%20by%20dr.%20barbara%20steffens%20and%20lyschel%20burket%20through%20btrl%20(betrayal%20trauma%20religious%20leader%20training).%20learn%20more%20here./'>BTRL</a> (Betrayal Trauma Religious Leader Training). Learn more <a href='https://www.apsats.org/BetrayalTraumaReligiousLeader'>here</a>.Take the Husband Material Journey... <ul> <li>Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on <a href='https://www.youtube.com/husbandmaterial'>YouTube</a> </li> <li>Step 2: Join the private <a href='https://www.husbandmaterial.co/'>Husband Material Community</a> </li> <li>Step 3: Take the free mini-course: <a href='http://outgrowporn.com/'>How To Outgrow Porn</a> </li> <li>Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: <a href='https://www.husbandmaterial.com/academy'>Husband Material Academy</a> </li> </ul> Thanks for listening!

<description>&lt;p&gt;What are the 3 phases of healing from sexual betrayal? In part 2 of our series with Dr. Barbara Steffens and Lyschel Burket, you&amp;apos;ll get a helpful overview of the Multidimensional Partner Trauma Model (MPTM). You&amp;apos;ll also learn the difference between forgiveness vs. reconciliation vs. trust and how to avoid &amp;quot;good boy syndrome&amp;quot; while working on rebuilding trust.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Dr. Barbara Steffens is the founding president of APSATS, the Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists. She has specialized in providing help for the partners of sexual addicts since 1999. Dr. Steffens is a recognized expert in the field, and is now accepting speaking engagements for churches and professional organizations. Learn more and connect with Barb at &lt;a href='https://www.drbarbarasteffens.com/'&gt;drbarbarasteffens.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Buy Barb&amp;apos;s book (this is a paid link):&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href='https://amzn.to/4dAdafN'&gt;Your Sexually Addicted Spouse: How Partners Can Cope and Heal&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Lyschel Burket is the Lead Hope Caster and Founder of &lt;a href='https://hoperedefined.org/'&gt;Hope Redefined&lt;/a&gt;. She is also a current APSATS Board Member and the committee lead for BTRL (Betrayal Trauma Religious Leader Training). Lyschel has been working with women since 2008 by helping them navigate the road of betrayal by sexual infidelity. She knows all too well the isolation, shame, fear, and trauma that betrayal causes. More than anything, Lyschel wants women to know that they don’t have to walk this road alone, so she provides a safe community where each one can find healing and hope.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Learn more about Lyschel and Hope Redefined at &lt;a href='https://hoperedefined.org/'&gt;hoperedefined.org&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;More resources for women from Hope Redefined:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='https://hoperedefined.org/online-community/'&gt;private online community&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='https://hoperedefined.org/online-groups/'&gt;online support groups&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='https://hoperedefined.org/retreats/'&gt;intensive retreats&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href='https://hoperedefined.org/coaching/'&gt;1:1 coaching&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Listen to the &lt;a href='https://hopeforwives.com/'&gt;Hope For Wives&lt;/a&gt; podcast at &lt;a href='https://hopeforwives.com/'&gt;hopeforwives.com&lt;/a&gt;!&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Get trained by Dr. Barbara Steffens and Lyschel Burket through &lt;a href='https://get%20trained%20by%20dr.%20barbara%20steffens%20and%20lyschel%20burket%20through%20btrl%20(betrayal%20trauma%20religious%20leader%20training).%20learn%20more%20here./'&gt;BTRL&lt;/a&gt; (Betrayal Trauma Religious Leader Training). Learn more &lt;a href='https://www.apsats.org/BetrayalTraumaReligiousLeader'&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Take the Husband Material Journey...&lt;/p&gt; &lt;ul&gt; &lt;li&gt;Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on &lt;a href='https://www.youtube.com/husbandmaterial'&gt;YouTube&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/li&gt; &lt;li&gt;Step 2: Join the private &lt;a href='https://www.husbandmaterial.co/'&gt;Husband Material Community&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/li&gt; &lt;li&gt;Step 3: Take the free mini-course: &lt;a href='http://outgrowporn.com/'&gt;How To Outgrow Porn&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/li&gt; &lt;li&gt;Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: &lt;a href='https://www.husbandmaterial.com/academy'&gt;Husband Material Academy&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/li&gt; &lt;/ul&gt; &lt;p&gt;Thanks for listening!&lt;/p&gt;</description>

What are the 3 phases of healing from sexual betrayal? In part 2 of our series with Dr. Barbara Steffens and Lyschel Burket, you'll get a helpful overview of the Multidimensional Partner Trauma Model (MPTM). You'll also learn the difference between forgiveness vs. reconciliation vs. trust and how to avoid "good boy syndrome" while working on rebuilding trust.Dr. Barbara Steffens is the founding president of APSATS, the Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists. She has special...

How Women Heal From Sexual Betrayal Trauma (with Dr. Barbara Steffens and Lyschel Burket)

So you want to outgrow porn. But how? How do you change your brain, heal your heart, and save your relationship? Welcome to Husband Material with Drew Boa, where we answer all these questions and more! Each episode makes it easier for you to achieve lasting freedom from porn—without fighting an exhausting battle. Porn is a pacifier. This podcast will help you outgrow it and become a sexually mature man of God.

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