Untold Santa Cruz

If you are a new listener to Untold Santa Cruz, I would love to hear from you, do you know someone with a story that simply ought to be told? Please email me and let me know who I should meet! Music for the Podcast was graciously created and offered by the talented Ketsa and was obtained at the Fee Music Archive . Please visit the artist's webpage for more info! In this episode of Untold Santa Cruz, Irene and I talk about the origins of the program and how the value of an evolving organization has pivoted to meet the moment. 1:48 Kidpower pivots to online learning in the pandemic to teach more people how to stay safe and enjoy relationships. 4:27 Kidpower teaches “relationship safety” with conflict resolution training webinars 6:28 Communicating from a place of calm, aware, respectful and persistent when needed. 8:00 Listening to people with compassion to let go of anger and move the conversation forward. 8:57 Maintaining the values of safety and respect as Kidpower grows and becomes more inclusive. Learning through our mistakes, “You don’t have to be perfect to be great, mistakes are part of learning. 13:00 The ACES study, Adverse Childhood Experiences and how Kidpower can help people of all ages deal with stress and traumatic experiences. 15:05 Kidpower of answers and real help from caring people with experience at [email protected] 19:48 A simple question that can make a huge difference is,  “How are you doing how can I help?”  20:50 My own sense of peace after my first Kidpower training. 22:20 How to keep yourself safe regarding the news and your spirit. “Is there something I need to know?“ 24:24 The power of, “you are important and I care”  26:53 Kidpower Mission Statement and Values lead the way forward with integrity. 27:25Kidpower works with all ages, all abilities, and all walks of life  28:20 The incident that inspired Kidpower 30:18 The bystander effect 31:15 Ellen Bass: “The Courage to Heal” and the seeds of physical self-defense work. 3315 “I wish I could do that“ 33:46 The realization that telling kids to be careful not to let strangers close is tragically not enough 34:45 The search for a better way to keep kids safe and meeting the Kidpower co-founder, Timothy Dunphy  35:06 Kidpower is fun, not scary, and based on experiential learning, practice, then the adults started asking, “what about us?“  37 The power of experiential learning. We learn better when we do things, not just hearing or talking about them. 3745 Don’t just teach the children, Kidpower teaches their parents too. 3830 Irene’s empathy drove her capacity to teach.  It wasn’t easy for her to learn self-defense which turned out to be a gift to students. 39:10 Kidpower starts with the problems people are actually having in their lives from bullying to interpersonal problems within families using. 41:20 Evolution is a Kidpower value that allows the curriculum, and teaching techniques to adapt and evolve with changing needs of the communities they serve. 4305 How can we help Kidpower? Donate, Purchase a Kidpower Book on Amazon Smile, Take a class and share your experience with someone you care about!   46:00 excuse me let’s talk about something else. 46:45 My friend was talking about something, and you know that we are safe. 47:30 is there anything that you’ve been wondering about or worrying about a powerful question to a child. 48:15 Tapping, emotional freedom technique to reduce stress 48:30 Dealing with anxiety especially in children. 49:30 The Protection Promise on Facebook “You are VERY important to me! If you have a safety problem, I want to know – even if I seem too busy, even if someone we care about will be upset, even if it is embarrassing, even if you promised not to tell, and even if you made a mistake. Please tell me, and I will do everything in my power to help you.”   https://www.kidpower.org/ https://www.facebook.com/Kidpower.org "1,2,3, The Toddler Years" with Amazon Smile link that benefits Kidpower Amazon Smile link to

If you are a new listener to Untold Santa Cruz, I would love to hear from you, do you know someone with a story that simply ought to be told? Please email me and let me know who I should meet!   In this episode of Untold Santa Cruz: Shelter In Peace April Stearns, creator of Wildfire magazine for young women with breast cancer (Free Issue!) and I talk about: The music for the podcast is generously provided by Ketsa the track is Multiverse Check It Out!    2:55 The birth of the name Wildfire  4:10 A family of firefighters and April's dad  4:30 The possibility of new growth  5:35 The road has ups and downs  6:45 The story of positivity in the breast cancer community  8:05 Where is my normal? The magazine came from a need  9:15 “Too young for breast cancer”  9:45 It was hard to find young breast cancer patients to talk to  11:55 First came blogging, the opportunity to tell her story and stay connected  13:15 There are many different expressions of breast cancer   13:45 She wasn't trying to be “the voice of breast cancer”  14:30 She wanted to create a space where it was possible to find the others  15:40 Start now, start again look for the other guides on the path  17:25 The classic breast cancer trope can feel hard sometimes  18:45 If you're feeling sad, there's someone else out there feeling the same way, guaranteed 19:40 We like stories of triumph 20:25 The importance of providing a space between “you got this” and “today is hard” 22:15 Are you sure you want to stay in cancer?  24:45 How family and caregivers can stay supportive 25:05 Making isolation more sparkling, a huge response!    25:55 Wildfire magazine is for everyone who is surrounding and supporting that young woman in her life 28:45 The Pen Pal club and the Mister Rogers connection, “ who do I want to be in this crisis?”    31:25 A foundation for new friendships 32:45 “ Start before you are ready”  33:55 I don't know what  I am doing but let's see what happens 35:00 Writing Workshops! 37:10 The human superpower is adaptability, pain is a great guide  38:30 Trying to bargain our way back to normal doesn't work.  40:23 Paying respect to the struggle  41:13 There is a richness to life in the struggle and finding the others  43:10 How to help? Please just be normal oh, it's a great way to serve. 43:65 Telling your story makes the world safer for everyone. Follow the Guest   April Steans created WILDFIRE Magazine in 2015 the first magazine of its kind for young women facing life after a breast cancer diagnosis. The magazine was created by April Stearns following her own diagnosis at 35 years old. Published every other month, featuring stories from all stages of breast cancer, from women living all over the world. Themes range from love and intimacy to parenting with cancer to body image issues after breast surgery. Available in digital and print formats. wildfirecommunity.org. "I believe that telling your story (and reading the stories of others) can be the difference between a difficult cancer experience being traumatic, and a difficult cancer experience being empowering." Follow the Guest Wildfire Magazine on Instagram April Stearns on Linkedin @wildfirecommunity on Facebook https://www.wildfirecommunity.org/   Follow the Podcast Untold Santa Cruz on Podbean Untold Santa Cruz on Twitter Untold Santa Cruz on Instagram Untold Santa Cruz on Facebook Follow the Host Ryan on Facebook Ryan on Linkedin Ryan on Instagram   Need a Realtor? Email me!

If you are a new listener to Untold Santa Cruz, I would love to hear from you, do you know someone with a story that simply ought to be told? Please email me and let me know who I should meet! Music for the Podcast was graciously created and offered by the talented Ketsa and was obtained at the Fee Music Archive . Please visit the artist's webpage for more info! In this episode of Untold Santa Cruz: Shelter In Peace Erika Leonard and I talk about:    2:45 Meeting and knowing your “actual" child.  7:55 The Liberation of giving up cherished beliefs.  10:10 Homeschooling vs “doing school” at home.  10:40 As many ways to homeschool as there are homeschool families.  11:20 The power of agency and choice.  12:20 The power and liberation of low standards.  17:15 Having personal rules can guide us through tough times.  18:20 Facing challenges head-on.  20:30 How to progress when there is no map for what you are doing.  21:55 Expectations get in the way of reality.  23:55 It's easier to keep authenticity alive than to rebuild it once it is lost.  24:55 Praise, gender dynamics, and other things that can stifle authenticity. 27:40 When mental health and the ability to read by the age of 18 became the gold standard 31:00 “The world" found her child “difficult”. 32:50 Be present with what is so, the actual world, what is actually happening. 35:20 Nobody ever called me fun. 36:55 The space to explore one's values.  40:00 The history of human experience has been hard.  40:10 Isolation vs. ISOLATION: Anne Frank a perspective. 41:10 The freedom of no cohort.  43:10 Always the mother's fault. 43:40 I did everything right and my life still fell apart. 47:40 Behind in school does not have to mean behind in learning.  48:10 Does this disruption stimulate growth?  48:55 Kids are learning about this and us. What are we teaching them with who we are being in this crisis?  51:00 What does this crisis say about how we are treating animals  52:10 I'm accountable to my child as a 35-year-old adult.  55:55 Am I qualified?  57:20 A rubric for decision making.  58:55 I'm not my child's friend or playmate, I'm a mom.  60:00Social media is just another “place”.In every place there exists both good, and bad intent. 64:10 A conversation about social media and teens.  65:00 What is the pathway to yes? It's not an age, or a date. 65:15 Find the expert on the place, ask them to tell you all the ways people mess with each other there.  65:40 “Common Sense” newsletter as a resource.  69:40 The power of having a conversation versus “spying”.  82:40 The perspective of a digital footprint.  74:40 Being interested in your children's stuff doesn't mean you like it.  75:40 Tell kids the truth, it does not have to be in the whole truth.  “I'm so glad... “   a simple script to set boundaries powerfully yet gently while fostering connection.  76:40 Talking about sex, The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo  78:25 Team parenting  79:40 Kidpower resources for talking to children about current events.  80:55 How to talk to children about scary things they have already heard.   84:10 Gratitude + Perspective + Joy = Presence Follow the Guest   Erika Leonard has worked with KIDPOWER since 1985, first as a volunteer/advisor, then as an instructor, a program coordinator, and now as the Assistant Director of Community Education. She has recently taken on the role of expanding the social media presence of the non-profit organization.  Her skills, talents, and responsibilities include: * Leading success-based People Safety skills workshops tailored to the specific needs of people of all ages and abilities. * Presenting to small groups as well as to very large groups in business, academic, and conference environments. * Communicating program skills and concepts via articles, large and small group presentations, and podcasts * Fundraising/resource development * Training and supervision of new instructors Specialties: * Adaptation of People Safety skills training for children, teens,

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A bridge conversation to pre Covid-19 fears.  A prescient perspective into the common thread of human existence, mortality.  Micah Rodler is an inspiration to his family, friends and community. His love of life is infectious even in the face of his ALS diagnosis.     You can get in touch with Micah Rodler and support his cause in bringing awareness and support to ALS and research at any of the links below. Micah Rodler on Facebook Micah Rodler on Instagram Rodler Family GoFund Me page Micah Rodler Raises Spirits, Battles ALS Micah Rodler on Linkedin ALS Association, Golden West Chapter   15:30 Tremendous support and counseling from The ALS Association, Golden West Chapter 17:30 The importance of community during tough times 19:45 The Rodler Family Rollathon on West Cliff Drive, Santa Cruz CA 22:30 Wraparound model of care from the Golden West Chapter helps get assistive technology to families 24:30 On the persp[ective regarding former "problems" post-diagnosis 26:30 "Remember thou art mortal" The concept of Memento Mori 28:30 Meditation to mitigate exposure to stressors 29:30 The support and brotherhood of The Paradise Park Masonic Lodge 31:45 The importance of connection 32:00 Tribalism v Inclusivity 34:00 Tribalism and blind acceptance to a set of beliefs 37:00 The diagnosis lead limiting of bandwidth has limited the superfluous 38:15 Self-awareness of one's own bias 43:00 the power of "yet" it's not cured...yet.