Vol.33一时兴起聊育儿之遇到了一只胡同蛙

OCT 12, 2025128 MIN

Vol.33一时兴起聊育儿之遇到了一只胡同蛙

OCT 12, 2025128 MIN

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生活在一个初级鸿沟里几个月了，突然想问问其他沟里的朋友都怎么样。突然有点像初中的时候，地理老师说，你们下周找高年级的同学借借课本啊，我们要超前的讲课！所以即使我还是几个月婴儿的妈妈的时候，已经想看看罗罗和Froggy的课本了。课本看了，没被吓到，反而很有信心。但考试还是得自己考！不过有一条大题的答案我决定死记硬背了，妈妈怎么轻松就怎么来！- 东哥 我们不是在塑造孩子，而是在守护一片生长的土地。她们有自己的方向与节奏，我们能做的，只是浇水、除草，等待花开。在漫长的等待里，我们也在生长。也许养育的意义，从来不是塑造，而是守望；不是掌控，而是陪伴。 - Froggy� 自从有了孩子，每一个阶段都会有过来人给出忠告：珍惜吧，现在就是最好的时候！婴儿时期：珍惜吧，现在只是吃饭睡觉，还没有那么多需求！大一点：趁还不会走好好休息吧，会走就要一直追着跑啦！一岁多：叛逆期还没来，好好享受还是个甜心小宝宝的时光。哦，两三岁时确实没人这么说了。而我现在听到最多的是：再大一点就不那么需要妈妈了，尽量多陪伴吧！我慢慢也意识到这些话确实有一些道理，但更大的感悟是如果只盯着麻烦事，就会觉得解决了一个又冒出来一个，可小孩子不是该被解决的问题呀。时间走这么快，每一刻都应该好好享受。不要惧怕时间和未来，在不同的鸿沟里互望，我们三个人还可以互为role modal！-罗罗 欢迎新嘉宾@Madfroggy！� 并特别鸣谢第一次参与录音的蛙仔就勇敢尝试了剪辑！--------------------以下是我们有史以来最详实的真shownotes--------------------00:04:16 大家的一时兴起00:22:05 月嫂走了咋办？00:35:14 家庭分工00:45:31 妈妈是一种处境00:48:22 那爸爸也是一种处境吗？00:54:00 海淀爸爸的Role Model01:01:29 加州带娃的一些体会01:28:04 分享一个买绘本的方法01:39:25 让我们蹲下来01:46:18 在海淀带娃01:55:24 硅谷是加州的海淀吗？ 片头曲 Linus & Lucy - Vince Guaraldi Trio 片尾曲 Wild Kids - David Benoit 本期提及作品《摩登家庭》中的 Claire Dunphy 与 Phil Dunphy<img data-key="0" 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