The Matt Phifer Experience
The Matt Phifer Experience

The Matt Phifer Experience

Matthew Phifer

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The Matt Phifer Experience makes emotional intelligence contagious. Every Monday and Friday, you can listen to new conversations with some of the most insightful people in this world straight from your computer or mobile device! With episodes available for streaming on-demand immediately after they air, there's never been an easier way to learn about what is emotional intelligence. Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/themattphiferexperience/support

Recent Episodes

Asylum Seekers and Marital Realities in the U.S - Attorney Shan Potts
MAY 3, 2024
Asylum Seekers and Marital Realities in the U.S - Attorney Shan Potts

Have you ever pondered the profound complexities that intertwine immigration with the emotional threads of family law? Join me, Matthew Phifer, as the Matt Phifer Experience invites the insightful Shan Potts, a Glendale-based attorney, to unravel the legal conundrums faced by Central American asylum seekers. Diving deep, we venture beyond the surface to bust myths and uncover the rich tapestry of family connections that many immigrants bring to the U.S. Tackling tough issues like abusive relationships and the legal intricacies of the Violence Against Women's Act, Shan illuminates the often overlooked avenues that offer protection and a pathway to citizenship for vulnerable individuals. Navigating the murky waters of legal challenges that non-citizen couples must face in the U.S., this episode sails through the significance of expert legal advice, the sensitive nature of domestic abuse, and the impact of immigration status on child custody battles. We understand that the legal terrain can be daunting, and therefore emphasize the importance of trust when choosing an attorney to guide you. Shan's vast experience offers a beacon of hope to those entangled in these scenarios. So tune in, take notes, and share the wisdom gleaned from this episode with someone who could truly benefit from it. As we conclude, I extend an invitation to connect with Shan, follow his journey, and join us next time for more enlightening discussions that promise to educate and inspire. (00:01) Navigating Immigration and Family Law Immigration attorney Shan Potts discusses challenges faced by Central American asylum seekers, stigmas surrounding immigration, and protections for immigrants in abusive relationships. (15:06) Legal Issues for Non-Citizen Couples Legal complexities for binational couples, seeking counsel, relationship dissolution, domestic abuse, prenuptial agreements, child custody, and selecting trustworthy legal representation. (23:24) Show Support and Refer Others Nature's expert shares insights, encourages engagement, and expresses gratitude for community support in this episode. https://www.shanpottslaw.com/ https://www.linkedin.com/company/shan-potts-law-offices https://web.facebook.com/shanpottslaw/?_rdc=1&_rdr https://twitter.com/potts_martinez?lang=en https://www.crunchbase.com/organization/shan-potts-law-offices https://www.instagram.com/shan.potts/ https://www.uclaprelawsociety.org/pottsfellows

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24 MIN
Mastering Military Divorce and Entrepreneurship - Amanda J. Hill
APR 26, 2024
Mastering Military Divorce and Entrepreneurship - Amanda J. Hill

Navigating the intricacies of military divorces and business ownership in marriage is no small feat, as my conversation with Amanda, an accomplished family law attorney from San Diego, so vividly reveals. With a compassionate ear and a shrewd legal eye, she shares her experiences guiding clients through the turbulent waters of what can be one of life’s most challenging transitions. Amanda offers a treasure trove of insights, from the importance of setting realistic expectations to understanding the dual role attorneys play in the lives of their clients—as legal advisors and confidants. Her stories, rich with the complexities of human emotion and legal strategy, paint a vivid picture of the path to a new chapter in life for those grappling with the end of a marriage. Our discussion takes us deeper into the rabbit hole of family law as we scrutinize the process of business valuation and division in the throes of divorce, highlighting California's unique legal landscape. Amanda's expertise shines as we examine the vital role of extensive discovery and the importance of a 730 evaluator in securing an equitable split. The conversation also ventures into the thorny issue of custody for active duty military members, dispelling myths and underscoring the courts' commitment to serving the best interests of children. From the heartwarming tale of a drill sergeant connecting with their teenager to the nitty-gritty details of dividing military benefits, this episode is an essential listen for anyone interested in the convergence of family law, military life, and entrepreneurship. (00:19) Military Divorces and Business Ownership Military divorces, co-owned businesses, and setting realistic goals are discussed by a family law attorney in this podcast. (14:27) Business Valuation and Division in Divorce Valuing and dividing a business in a California divorce, including discovery, 730 experts, fiduciary duties, emergency court orders, and post-divorce business dynamics. (22:41) Military Custody and Legal Advice Military custody rights, federal laws, jurisdiction issues, mental health challenges, and personal growth in military family life. https://kandhlawgroup.com/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/amanda-j-hill-esq-587701a2 https://kandhlawgroup.com/amanda-j-hill/ https://www.avvo.com/attorneys/92108-ca-amanda-hill-4698657.html https://apps.calbar.ca.gov/attorney/Licensee/Detail/304175

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Healing from Monetary Betrayal and Building a Secure Future - Carmen Dellutri
APR 19, 2024
Healing from Monetary Betrayal and Building a Secure Future - Carmen Dellutri

Discover the roadmap to financial resiliency as Carmen Dellutri, a financial crisis attorney, unpacks the intricacies of rebuilding your economic foundation after divorce. This episode will leave you equipped with the tools needed to overcome the shift from dual to single-income living, emphasizing the power of financial discipline and prudent estate planning. Carmen's expertise shines a light on the necessity of a comprehensive fiscal analysis, focusing on the intricate balance of income, expenses, assets, and debts, to ensure a secure future for those facing the daunting task of starting anew, particularly for single parents concerned about their children's financial security.Our conversation takes a deeper look at how money matters can strain or strengthen the ties that bind us. We explore how debt and financial responsibility perceptions have shifted across generations, and how these changes play out within the dynamics of family and marriage. By uncovering the psychological underpinnings of spending habits and identifying potential warning signs of financial distress, we provide insight into how couples can work through their economic differences and, in some cases, even save their relationships by bravely confronting their fiscal woes together.Finally, we navigate the turbulent waters of financial infidelity, a betrayal that can leave deeper scars than its physical counterpart. From secret accounts to covert cash transactions, we examine the various guises of financial deceit and the emotional turmoil it can wreak on partnerships. Yet, through the clouds of mistrust, we also witness stories of redemption, where honesty and transparency pave the way to forgiveness and a stronger bond. Join us for this compelling journey as we offer a blend of cautionary tales and affirming narratives for those walking the path toward financial and emotional healing.

(00:01) Financial Recovery After Divorce

Carmen Dellutri shares insights on navigating financial hardships post-divorce, emphasizing the importance of assessing one's financial situation and practicing discipline.

(07:06) Financial Pressure on RelationshipsGenerational attitudes towards debt, financial issues in marriages, and red flags in financial behaviors.

(14:47) Financial Infidelity in RelationshipsFinancial infidelity in relationships, its forms and impact, emotional fallout, and the journey of bankruptcy with empathy and support.

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24 MIN
Fostering Joint Custody & Complex Divorces with Expert Jacqueline Harounian
APR 12, 2024
Fostering Joint Custody & Complex Divorces with Expert Jacqueline Harounian

Have you ever wondered how the legal system adapts to the ever-changing dynamics of modern families? Family law expert Jackie Harounian from Wisselman, Harounian & Associates Law Firm joins us to unpack the complexities of custody arrangements, child support, and the nuances of New York's surrogacy law. With over two decades of experience, Jackie highlights the transition from 'matrimonial law' to 'family law,' reflecting the diverse forms of contemporary family structures. She passionately discusses the rewarding process of facilitating adoptions and the significant impact lawyers can have during times of family distress.Navigating the delicate balance of co-parenting post-divorce can be like walking a tightrope, but it's a journey that parents and courts are increasingly undertaking with more amicability and legal recognition of fathers' rights. Jackie and I delve into this transformation, emphasizing the importance of clear communication and proper legal guidance. The chapter on mental health's role in divorce proceedings sheds light on the importance of recognizing abuse and the critical intervention necessary for those in relationships with a partner exhibiting personality disorders.Finally, if you're facing the prospect of relocation or simply have an interest in family law, Jackie's insights are indispensable. We discuss how to connect with a family law attorney and the intricacies of moving with children in the mix. Listeners are encouraged to engage with us in the comments to continue this important conversation. In recognition of the depth of this dialogue, we're already planning a follow-up episode to further explore these vital family law issues. Jackie's knowledge is a treasure trove for anyone navigating the legal landscape of family dynamics.(00:01) Family LawFamily law attorney Jackie Harounian shares her experience in handling diverse family structures, including custody, support, adoption, and surrogacy.(12:51) Co-Parenting and Legal RightsJoint custody and co-parenting provide balance for parents, but legal rights and safety must be considered.(15:58) Co-Parenting and Mental Health in DivorceNature's evolving custody landscape, 50-50 arrangements, co-parenting, and children's preferences impact custody decisions.(23:13) Understanding Personality Disorders in RelationshipsPersonality disorders, domestic violence, mental health issues, and the role of family law attorneys in relationships and divorce.(30:54) Connecting With a Family Law AttorneyFamily law attorney Jackie shares insights on relocation complexities and valuable resources for listeners to learn more.https://lawjaw.com/attorneys/jacqueline-harounian/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/jacquelineharounian https://usattorneys.com/lawyer/ms-jacqueline-harounian/ https://www.instagram.com/jackie_harounian/?hl=en https://www.usa500clubs.com/members/?id=75122172 https://jewishlawyers.net/jacqueline-harounian-3868

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32 MIN
Navigating the Stormy Seas of Divorce and Co Parenting - Billie Tarascio
APR 5, 2024
Navigating the Stormy Seas of Divorce and Co Parenting - Billie Tarascio

Witnessing the unraveling of my own parents' marriage as a child left me with a suitcase of unanswered questions and emotions. Fast forward to today, and we're joined by Billie, a family attorney from Gilbert, Arizona, who not only lived a similar story but also dedicated her career to guiding others through the choppy seas of family law. In this heart-to-heart talk, she shares valuable insights on how the echoes of divorce resonate with children and young adults, emphasizing that the conflict level is the true culprit of long-lasting scars, not the divorce itself. Billy marries her personal narrative with her legal acumen to offer strategies that protect the emotional well-being of those caught in the middle. The echoes of lockdown still reverberate in many homes, where the pandemic's pressure-cooker environment escalated underlying domestic tensions, sometimes shattering relationships beyond repair. On the flip side, some families found a silver lining, with strengthened bonds forged in the crucible of shared adversity. Billy walks us through these contrasting tales while unraveling the knotted threads of parental alienation—a term that's as complex legally as it is emotionally. Her advice to those navigating these treacherous waters is both a lighthouse and a lifeboat, as she emphasizes the importance of mental health and clear communication in weathering the storm. We close our episode with a compass for the journey of co-parenting and divorce, illuminating the path through the dense fog of legalities and emotional turmoil. Billy speaks to the importance of knowing your rights and when to seek legal counsel, advocating for mediation as a beacon of hope for maintaining peace and ensuring the welfare of the children involved. Whether you're at the beginning of this voyage or navigating the aftermath, this episode is charted to offer support, resources, and guidance to help you find your way to calmer waters.


(00:01) The Impact of Divorce on Children


Divorce's impact on children, strategies for protection, and addressing common concerns from a family attorney's personal experience.


(09:28) Effects of Pandemic on Families


Lockdowns brought relationship issues to forefront, leading to domestic conflicts and divorces, while also addressing parental alienation.


(17:27) Understanding Parental Alienation Dynamics


Parental alienation, misconceptions, therapist recommendations, different parenting styles, navigating parental rights, and imperfect parenting.


(20:51) Co-Parenting and Divorce Advice


Family court's approach to parenting time, the importance of understanding rights during divorce, benefits of mediation, and long-term perspective.


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26 MIN