Everywhere we go we can find rules and regulations.  When we travel to a baseball tournament on the weekends, there are regulations for the number of innings, runs, and pitch counts.  The purpose of these regulations is to maintain safety and provide proper rest for the players. Just like a pitcher needs regulations and rest, so do we.  We need nervous system regulation to help us flexibly fluctuate between states of arousal and not get stuck or so stimulated that we shut down.   In this podcast, we talk about Nervous System Regulation and I offer 5 of my favorite ways to regulate. <ol> <li>Breathe</li> <li>Settle In</li> <li>Music</li> <li>Rubbing</li> <li>Hand over Heart</li> </ol> These are my favorites because they can be done anywhere and sometimes consecutively.  They have helped me when feeling completely overwhelmed or exhausted and provided rest and relief so I can reset. Listen in to today's podcast to get some ideas to use in your day-to-day!

<description>&lt;p&gt;Everywhere we go we can find rules and regulations.  When we travel to a baseball tournament on the weekends, there are regulations for the number of innings, runs, and pitch counts.  The purpose of these regulations is to maintain safety and provide proper rest for the players.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Just like a pitcher needs regulations and rest, so do we.  We need nervous system regulation to help us flexibly fluctuate between states of arousal and not get stuck or so stimulated that we shut down.  &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;In this podcast, we talk about Nervous System Regulation and I offer 5 of my favorite ways to regulate.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;ol&gt; &lt;li&gt;Breathe&lt;/li&gt; &lt;li&gt;Settle In&lt;/li&gt; &lt;li&gt;Music&lt;/li&gt; &lt;li&gt;Rubbing&lt;/li&gt; &lt;li&gt;Hand over Heart&lt;/li&gt; &lt;/ol&gt; &lt;p&gt;These are my favorites because they can be done anywhere and sometimes consecutively.  They have helped me when feeling completely overwhelmed or exhausted and provided rest and relief so I can reset.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Listen in to today's podcast to get some ideas to use in your day-to-day!&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt;</description>

Everywhere we go we can find rules and regulations.  When we travel to a baseball tournament on the weekends, there are regulations for the number of innings, runs, and pitch counts.  The purpose of these regulations is to maintain safety...

Find Rest with Regulation

Every single one of us has a problem or challenge that can feel like we are walking around with a 50 pound weight on our shoulders. They can be heavy, burdensom, and tiring.  And sometimes it feels like we are completely alone when packing that challenge.   I know that I have a tendency to keep my worries and burdens to myself, to not ask for help from God or from anyone else.  Probably due to some pride and also some fear. Fear of being vulnerable and letting my gaurd down.  Fear of admitting that I don't have it all figured out and can't do it all alone. In this podcast we talk about asking for help.  Who do we ask? First, Heavenly Father. The one who knows all and is always working in our favor. Ask Him.  He will help us get the answers and solutions we will need to move forward, problem solve, and he will give us the strength to endure. Second, ask others.  There is a statistic that says that if we have a challenge and explain our situation to three trusted individuals, those 3 people will be able to help you get the answers and solutions you will need by either having the answer or helping you find the answer. We are not alone in this life or in our challenges.  We have many who care and love us and who want to help. All we have to do is ASK! Listen in to hear more and ways to implement this!

<description>&lt;p&gt;Every single one of us has a problem or challenge that can feel like we are walking around with a 50 pound weight on our shoulders. They can be heavy, burdensom, and tiring.  And sometimes it feels like we are completely alone when packing that challenge.  &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;I know that I have a tendency to keep my worries and burdens to myself, to not ask for help from God or from anyone else.  Probably due to some pride and also some fear. Fear of being vulnerable and letting my gaurd down.  Fear of admitting that I don't have it all figured out and can't do it all alone.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;In this podcast we talk about asking for help.  Who do we ask?&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;First, Heavenly Father. The one who knows all and is always working in our favor. Ask Him.  He will help us get the answers and solutions we will need to move forward, problem solve, and he will give us the strength to endure.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Second, ask others.  There is a statistic that says that if we have a challenge and explain our situation to three trusted individuals, those 3 people will be able to help you get the answers and solutions you will need by either having the answer or helping you find the answer.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;We are not alone in this life or in our challenges.  We have many who care and love us and who want to help. All we have to do is ASK!&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Listen in to hear more and ways to implement this!&lt;/p&gt;</description>

Every single one of us has a problem or challenge that can feel like we are walking around with a 50 pound weight on our shoulders. They can be heavy, burdensom, and tiring.  And sometimes it feels like we are completely alone when packing that...

There are many times when things go just as we thought they would. When we have planned and prepared and everything goes perfectly, and then there are times when they don't. In fact. As I think about most things, they often look different than I thought they would have in my mind, but it's OK. This week we had a surprise text that followed with having our son Cody coming home from his mission from Costa Rica! He has been having several health challenges for months and we've done all we can to support him out there, but after months of "gutting it out" he decided it was time to come home to get some tests and care here. In this podcast I talk about that and what it felt like on this journey.  There was sadness, fear, frustration, anger, happiness, joy, and many other emotions. It's been a roller coaster for sure! And there are many things we have learned and are learning. First: It's OK to be sad that things are different than you thought. It's OK to mourn that ideal expectation or scenario. However, sometimes our sadness gets layered on with many other emotions like anger and then we do things that aren't who we are. We can pull away, disconnect, and abandon our true selves.   After giving yourselves a minute to be sad, choose to see opportunity. Choose joy. Choose happiness. There will be blessings and more joy, there will be growth and learning, and there will be peace. Listen in for more!

<description>&lt;p&gt;There are many times when things go just as we thought they would. When we have planned and prepared and everything goes perfectly, and then there are times when they don't. In fact. As I think about most things, they often look different than I thought they would have in my mind, but it's OK.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;This week we had a surprise text that followed with having our son Cody coming home from his mission from Costa Rica! He has been having several health challenges for months and we've done all we can to support him out there, but after months of "gutting it out" he decided it was time to come home to get some tests and care here.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;In this podcast I talk about that and what it felt like on this journey.  There was sadness, fear, frustration, anger, happiness, joy, and many other emotions. It's been a roller coaster for sure! And there are many things we have learned and are learning.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;First: It's OK to be sad that things are different than you thought. It's OK to mourn that ideal expectation or scenario. However, sometimes our sadness gets layered on with many other emotions like anger and then we do things that aren't who we are. We can pull away, disconnect, and abandon our true selves.  &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;After giving yourselves a minute to be sad, choose to see opportunity. Choose joy. Choose happiness. There will be blessings and more joy, there will be growth and learning, and there will be peace.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Listen in for more!&lt;/p&gt;</description>

There are many times when things go just as we thought they would. When we have planned and prepared and everything goes perfectly, and then there are times when they don't. In fact. As I think about most things, they often look different than I...

When Things Don't Go As Planned

Easter is coming! I love this holiday and the opportunity to reflect on Jesus Christ. A few years ago I was asked to write an essay to enter into a compiled essay book.  While the book is still in the works,  I am sharing this essay with you today in celebration of the Easter holiday! <a href= "https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/2007/10/mothers-who-know?lang=eng"> Mother's Who Know, Julie B. Beck</a> <a href="https://www.byui.edu/devotionals/sheri-dew">Will You Engage in the Wrestle? Sheri Dew</a>

<description>&lt;p&gt;Easter is coming! I love this holiday and the opportunity to reflect on Jesus Christ. A few years ago I was asked to write an essay to enter into a compiled essay book.  While the book is still in the works,  I am sharing this essay with you today in celebration of the Easter holiday!&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;a href= "https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/2007/10/mothers-who-know?lang=eng"&gt; Mother's Who Know, Julie B. Beck&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.byui.edu/devotionals/sheri-dew"&gt;Will You Engage in the Wrestle? Sheri Dew&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description>

Easter is coming! I love this holiday and the opportunity to reflect on Jesus Christ. A few years ago I was asked to write an essay to enter into a compiled essay book.  While the book is still in the works,  I am sharing this essay with you...

Replay! This Mother Knows

As promised, this week we are going to talk about Easter and some Traditions to incorporate with your families. Some of you may do easter egg hunts, baskets, and bunnies, and some may not, and choose to just focus on the Savior, his life, and his resurrection. And some may do both. We try hard to find a balance between both. So I am going to give you a couple of ideas for both!  There really isn’t a right or a wrong, it is whatever you feel is best for your family. All traditions take a little bit of planning, work, and time.  Decide which ones you want to do. Why do you want to do them? Is it just a tradition you just do? Why? My why is because it brings us together. It is fun to spend time together Talk with your families if there is too much and see what they say about your traditions. I know there are some nonnegotiables for me, but there may be some others that the kids could take or leave that you're spending A LOT of time and energy doing! Sometimes, doing traditions can be a bit overwhelming, and a bit much.  Sometimes we can put a lot of pressure on ourselves to have everything look perfect, but we forget the reason we have them. Maybe even just a little bit of simplifying or asking for some help will make all of the difference and your traditions more enjoyable for you.  Is there a tradition you’d like to start? So many talented people share ideas online!  I always seem to find one that I love, and then make it my own.  The reason for traditions is to gather and build relationships with family. They are to spend time together. To have experiences together that bind and create bonds that last, and at Easter to remember Christ.

<description>&lt;p dir="ltr"&gt;As promised, this week we are going to talk about Easter and some Traditions to incorporate with your families.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p dir="ltr"&gt;Some of you may do easter egg hunts, baskets, and bunnies, and some may not, and choose to just focus on the Savior, his life, and his resurrection. And some may do both. We try hard to find a balance between both. So I am going to give you a couple of ideas for both!  There really isn’t a right or a wrong, it is whatever you feel is best for your family.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p dir="ltr"&gt;All traditions take a little bit of planning, work, and time. &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p dir="ltr"&gt;Decide which ones you want to do.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p dir="ltr"&gt;Why do you want to do them?&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p dir="ltr"&gt;Is it just a tradition you just do?&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p dir="ltr"&gt;Why?&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p dir="ltr"&gt;My why is because it brings us together.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p dir="ltr"&gt;It is fun to spend time together&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p dir="ltr"&gt;Talk with your families if there is too much and see what they say about your traditions.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p dir="ltr"&gt;I know there are some nonnegotiables for me, but there may be some others that the kids could take or leave that you're spending A LOT of time and energy doing!&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p dir="ltr"&gt;Sometimes, doing traditions can be a bit overwhelming, and a bit much. &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p dir="ltr"&gt;Sometimes we can put a lot of pressure on ourselves to have everything look perfect, but we forget the reason we have them. Maybe even just a little bit of simplifying or asking for some help will make all of the difference and your traditions more enjoyable for you. &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p dir="ltr"&gt;Is there a tradition you’d like to start?&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p dir="ltr"&gt;So many talented people share ideas online!  I always seem to find one that I love, and then make it my own. &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p dir="ltr"&gt;The reason for traditions is to gather and build relationships with family.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p dir="ltr"&gt;They are to spend time together. To have experiences together that bind and create bonds that last, and at Easter to remember Christ.&lt;/p&gt;</description>

As promised, this week we are going to talk about Easter and some Traditions to incorporate with your families. Some of you may do easter egg hunts, baskets, and bunnies, and some may not, and choose to just focus on the Savior, his life, and his...

Easter Traditions You'll Love

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