What if intimacy isn’t something you “get back”… but something you rebuild?
What if intimacy isn’t something you “get back”… but something you rebuild?In today’s episode of Confidence and Coffee, I’m joined by Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith, who share their powerful story of healing after betrayal, recovering trust, and learning how to build true intimacy again.They introduce the concept of the Intimacy Pyramid, showing that intimacy isn’t just physical, it’s a thriving connection built on honesty, safety, trust, vulnerability, and only then, real intimacy.If you’ve been walking through betrayal, marriage pain, or rebuilding after broken trust, this conversation is full of truth, grace, and practical hope.What you’ll learn in this episodeWhy intimacy is a thriving connection that brings lifeThe Intimacy Pyramid and why honesty is the foundationHow betrayal damages safety and trustWhy shame and guilt block healingWhat rebuilding trust actually requires (not just promises)The role of vulnerability in restorationWhy individual healing matters for relationship healingHow grace makes room for recovery and forgivenessKey Quotes“Intimacy is a thriving connection.”“Hope is possible even after betrayal.”“Trust is built through consistent, trustworthy actions.”Episode Keywordsintimacy, relationships, healing, betrayal, honesty, trust, recovery, marriage, communication, graceChapters00:00 The Power of Connection and Intimacy 04:52 Understanding the Intimacy Pyramid 10:42 Facing Addiction and Shame 16:29 The Impact of Honesty on Relationships 22:28 Healing Through Vulnerability 31:58 The Gift of Being Chosen 37:01 The Importance of Individual Responsibility 47:00 The Journey of Healing and Restoration 53:58 The Power of Hope and Grace 01:01:40 OutroIf this episode encouraged you, leave a review and tell me what part spoke to you, I read them and they matter more than you know 🤍Support the showIf this encouraged you, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts and subscribe on YouTube. It helps more women find hope, healing, and bold faith.DisclaimerConfidence and Coffee is a Christian centered podcast. All conversations are approached through a faith based lens that honors Jesus and biblical truth.Connect with Ashley:Order Ashley's New Book Confidence Is An Inside JobApply for Coaching with AshleyConnect with Ashley to be your Next Speaker!Subscribe to Confidence and Coffee here