Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole

This Summer, Don’t Let Screens Raise Your KidsWhat if the “golden idol” in your home glows… and fits in your child’s hand?This week on Needed Conversations, Ryan & Viktoriya Cole unpack one of the most urgent topics facing families today: how to reclaim your kids from screen time and reset your home around God’s presence this summer.With school out and devices calling louder than ever, most parents feel stuck between survival mode and spiritual neglect. But this episode offers something different—a practical reset plan rooted in Scripture, presence, and peace.💡 In this powerful episode:– What the golden calf in Exodus reveals about modern distraction– Why your kids need your face more than FaceTime– The surprising science behind overstimulation (and how to reverse it)– Screen swaps: Easy ways to replace digital chaos with soulful connection– How to reframe this summer as a season of spiritual renewal, not just survival👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Whether you’re a parent, grandparent, or mentor—your influence matters.Your kids are watching. And what they see in you becomes what they pursue.✨ Make this a Summer of Presence, not just entertainment.Sign the Presence Pledge and join families who are choosing to rebuild altars, not idols.Join the Presence Pledge today and reclaim the first and last two hours of your day to center your marriage on what matters most. Sign up here: https://marriage.ryancoleempowerment.com/presencepledge00:00 Introduction to Needed Conversations00:03 The Importance of Spiritual Renewal00:20 Modeling Behavior for Children01:34 The Presence Pledge Explained02:33 Incorporating Kids into The Presence Pledge03:52 Challenges and Strategies for Parents10:41 Biblical Lessons on Presence17:36 Practical Tips for Reducing Screen Time27:30 Final Thoughts and EncouragementSupport this ministry by donating at www.empoweredcultureministries.orgThen, share this episode with a friend or couple who needs this reset, too.#PresencePledge #NeededConversations #ChristianMarriage #DigitalDetox #MarriagePodcast #FaithAndMarriage #MarriageGoals #screentime #kidsscreentime Follow us on Social Media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moremostforever/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/moremostforever/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moremostforever👉 Need help or to book a session?Text us at 864-428-7131Visit moremostforever.com for resources, blogs, and support.Your #1 source for marriage empowerment. In this podcast, we have the conversations that are sometimes the hardest to have but are the most needed in society today. Discussing everything from purpose, spiritual growth, marriage, and culture, we are not afraid to confront the hottest topics to bring a biblical response and help bring the body of Christ back to God's original design for marriage, family, and the church as a whole.

In this week’s powerful episode of Needed Conversations, Ryan and Viktoriya Cole tackle one of the most sensitive issues many couples face: setting healthy boundaries with extended family.Whether it’s in-laws overstepping, family drama leaking into your marriage, or blurred lines of emotional dependency, learning how to protect the spiritual atmosphere of your home is critical. With biblical examples and personal stories, Ryan and Viktoriya walk you through:✅ Why "leave and cleave" still matters✅ How to honor your parents without giving them unlimited access✅ Creating a united front with your spouse✅ What to do when family members don’t accept your boundaries✅ How to protect your marriage from emotional outsourcing✅ And how acceptance, not just confrontation, can bring peacePlus, they explore biblical case studies like Abraham & Hagar, Moses & Jethro, and even Jesus’ own family tensions to show how God uses boundaries to build healthy legacy.Join the Presence Pledge today and reclaim the first and last two hours of your day to center your marriage on what matters most. Sign up here: https://marriage.ryancoleempowerment.com/presencepledge00:00 Introduction to Healthy Boundaries00:45 Navigating Boundaries with Extended Family03:19 The Presence Pledge and Social Media Fast04:29 When Family Crosses the Line08:43 Practical Tips for Setting Boundaries20:55 Biblical Examples of Boundaries28:05 Final Thoughts and EncouragementSupport this ministry by donating at www.empoweredcultureministries.orgThen, share this episode with a friend or couple who needs this reset, too.#PresencePledge #NeededConversations #ChristianMarriage #DigitalDetox #MarriagePodcast #FaithAndMarriage #MarriageGoalsFollow us on Social Media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moremostforever/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/moremostforever/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moremostforever👉 Need help or to book a session?Text us at 864-428-7131Visit moremostforever.com for resources, blogs, and support.

On today’s episode of Needed Conversations, we dive deep into how worship can recalibrate your heart, your home, and your marriage.Too often, we allow distractions, busyness, and even our own pain to shift our focus. But Scripture reminds us that we become what we behold. If your eyes are constantly fixed on problems, comparison, or negativity, your spirit will grow weary — and your marriage will suffer.Worship shifts our gaze back to what’s true, restoring intimacy with God and softening our hearts toward our spouse.Today, we unpack:Why worship is more than a song — it’s a posture of lifeHow gratitude changes the atmosphere of your marriageHow true intimacy starts with vulnerability before GodWhy presence — with God and your spouse — is the foundation for lasting connectionWe also share practical ways you can invite worship into your daily rhythms and reconnect through stillness, gratitude, and spiritual intimacy.Join the Presence Pledge today and reclaim the first and last two hours of your day to center your marriage on what matters most. Sign up here: https://marriage.ryancoleempowerment.com/presencepledgeThen, share this episode with a friend or couple who needs this reset, too.#PresencePledge #NeededConversations #ChristianMarriage #DigitalDetox #MarriagePodcast #FaithAndMarriage #MarriageGoals00:00 Introduction to Needed Conversations00:03 The Power of Gratitude and Worship01:33 Welcome and Setting the Scene02:01 The Presence Pledge and Worship02:28 Understanding Worship in Marriage04:24 Personal Reflections on Worship17:16 Worship's Impact on Family and Marriage26:56 Final Thoughts and Encouragement31:54 Closing Remarks and AnnouncementsSupport this ministry by donating at www.empoweredcultureministries.orgFollow us on Social Media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moremostforever/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/moremostforever/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moremostforever👉 Need help or to book a session?Text us at 864-428-7131Visit moremostforever.com for resources, blogs, and support.Your #1 source for marriage empowerment. In this podcast, we have the conversations that are sometimes the hardest to have but are the most needed in society today. Discussing everything from purpose, spiritual growth, marriage, and culture, we are not afraid to confront the hottest topics to bring a biblical response and help bring the body of Christ back to God's original design for marriage, family, and the church as a whole.

What if the most spiritual thing you could do right now… is rest?In this week’s episode of Needed Conversations, Ryan and Viktoriya Cole unpack a revolutionary truth: you were never meant to live from hustle to exhaustion, from pressure to burnout. You were designed to work from rest—not for it. Before Adam received his assignment, God introduced him to the rhythm of rest. His very first full day was the Sabbath. In this episode, the Coles explore how our obsession with productivity has disrupted our marriages, diminished intimacy, and distanced us from God’s voice. They call couples back to a slower, more sacred pace—a Kingdom rhythm where rest becomes our posture, not our reward. If you’ve been chasing success but feel emptier than ever, this conversation is your reset.Join the Presence Pledge—a digital detox and rhythm reset for your marriage—and begin reclaiming the most important hours of your day. Sign up here: https://marriage.ryancoleempowerment.com/presencepledgeThen, share this episode with a friend or couple who needs this reset, too.#PresencePledge #NeededConversations #ChristianMarriage #DigitalDetox #MarriagePodcast #FaithAndMarriage #MarriageGoals00:00 Introduction: The Impact of Opinions on Success00:25 Embracing Kingdom Culture Over Hustle Culture00:53 Understanding Purpose and Presence01:16 The Principle of Rest Before Responsibility02:28 Welcome Back: The Presence Pledge Series02:35 Setting Margins and Boundaries in Marriage03:42 The Digital Detox: The Presence Pledge Explained07:59 Reclaiming Energy and Overcoming Digital Addiction10:11 The Importance of Fasting and Health11:24 The Power of Community and Connection15:44 Building Margins for Work and Rest16:09 The Biblical Foundation of Rest and Work21:05 The Deception of Striving for Success24:32 The Sabbath Lifestyle: Rest as a Daily Experience25:44 Final Thoughts and EncouragementSupport this ministry by donating at www.empoweredcultureministries.orgFollow us on Social Media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moremostforever/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/moremostforever/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moremostforever👉 Need help or to book a session?Text us at 864-428-7131Visit moremostforever.com for resources, blogs, and support.Your #1 source for marriage empowerment. In this podcast, we have the conversations that are sometimes the hardest to have but are the most needed in society today. Discussing everything from purpose, spiritual growth, marriage, and culture, we are not afraid to confront the hottest topics to bring a biblical response and help bring the body of Christ back to God's original design for marriage, family, and the church as a whole.

What does your social media algorithm say about the state of your soul—and the health of your marriage?In this week’s episode of Needed Conversations, Ryan and Viktoriya take you deep into the quiet war being waged right in your pocket. It's not just about screens—it's about desires, distractions, and the subtle erosion of intimacy.You’ll explore:How your algorithm is discipling your desiresThe spiritual dangers of ambient noise and digital fatigueWhy stillness is where God speaks—and connection thrivesA powerful couples' challenge: swap phones and examine your explore feedsThe biblical roots of temptation and how sin begins with distorted desireThe connection between what you feed your soul and what flows from your heartHow to curate your feed and your environment to protect what matters mostSign the pledge today at ⁠https://marriage.ryancoleempowerment.com/presencepledge⁠Then, share this episode with a friend or couple who needs this reset, too.You don’t need more time. You need to be present with the time you already have. Let's walk this out together—one sacred moment at a time.#PresencePledge #NeededConversations #ChristianMarriage #DigitalDetox #MarriagePodcast #FaithAndMarriage #MarriageGoals00:00 Introduction to the Presence Pledge00:06 The Digital Dilemma in Marriages01:56 Understanding the Presence Pledge Challenge04:31 The Impact of Digital Overload05:59 Defining Algorithms and Their Influence10:43 Guarding Your Heart and Mind15:38 Practical Steps for Digital Detox19:08 Spiritual Insights and Final Thoughts30:17 Join the Presence PledgeSupport this ministry by donating at www.empoweredcultureministries.orgFollow us on Social Media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moremostforever/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/moremostforever/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moremostforever👉 Need help or to book a session?Text us at 864-428-7131Visit moremostforever.com for resources, blogs, and support.Your #1 source for marriage empowerment. In this podcast, we have the conversations that are sometimes the hardest to have but are the most needed in society today. Discussing everything from purpose, spiritual growth, marriage, and culture, we are not afraid to confront the hottest topics to bring a biblical response and help bring the body of Christ back to God's original design for marriage, family, and the church as a whole.