Have you had your red dress moment? Kimmy can help you out with that!In this episode of Dating in the Bae, Becca talks to dating expert, confidence coach, therapist, and stylist Kimmy Seltzer, who is also the host of The Charisma Quotient Podcast. Kimmy tells us the story of how she went from having a traditional picket-fence life to divorcing and rediscovering herself. She believes in working on your confidence from the outside in and creating a symbiotic relationship between how you look and how you feel. Tune in and listen to Becca fangirl over the wonderful and super knowledgeable Kimmy!Jump straight into:(00:25) - Kimmy’s back story and her red dress moment: A gal from Chicago that turned into a Renaissance woman in LA.(08:17) - “It’s about you!”: Shift the way you feel about yourself and start being confident and sexy!(10:45) - Charisma, magnetism, and the attraction factor: Building up the advertisement piece you need.(13:45) - Why Kimmy loves flirting: How to be present, playful, and have fun without attachments. (18:06) - Gratitude attitude makes you more dateable! A few tangible things you can do to be in the right positive state of mind. (22:27) - A quick story about changing your mindset: Put a different pair of glasses on and look at the world differently. Episode resources:Follow Kimmy on InstagramCharisma Quotient | Apple PodcastsKim Seltzer | Dating & Image ExpertAsk KimmyFollow us on Instagram (@datinginthebae). Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and share with all of your fellow baes. Rebecca’s IG:@pibblesandpizza