Dear Future Wifey

In this special solo episode of Dear Future Wifey, Laterras Whitfield interviews himself while his co-host and bride, Ashley, is in Los Angeles working the GRAMMYs and the Super Bowl.   With vulnerability and gratitude, Laterras reflects on the first three months of marriage, sharing what has surprised him, stretched him, and strengthened their union. From newlywed adjustments to spiritual growth, he opens up about what this new season has truly been like behind the scenes.   For the first time ever, Laterras also shares never-before-seen footage from his proposal, giving viewers an intimate look at the moment that changed everything.   But this episode isn’t just about marriage—it’s about the journey to it. Laterras offers heartfelt encouragement to those who are still waiting on their spouse, reminding them that waiting is not punishment—it’s preparation. He speaks directly to the singles who have prayed, hoped, and trusted God through seasons of delay.   This episode is reflective, inspiring, and deeply personal—a reminder that love is worth the wait, and when the promise arrives, it will have been worth every process.   CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield   ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S NEW BOOK "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com     FOLLOW DEAR FUTURE WIFEY 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  In this special returning guests episode of Dear Future Wifey, Laterras Whitfield welcomes back Dotha & Chanell Sykes for a refreshingly real conversation about love, faith, and navigating uncertainty together.   The couple opens up about Dotha’s life as a professional stunt double, pulling back the curtain on the instability that often comes with a career in Hollywood and how that uncertainty impacted their relationship. They candidly revisit the early days of their love story—when Dotha was unemployed—and discuss modern dating norms, expectations, and whether Chanell would recommend dating a man who’s in between jobs.   Together, they dive into the importance of shared values, mutual support, and what it truly means to take care of one another through sickness and health—not just in theory, but in real life. The conversation is layered with wisdom, laughter, and honesty as they share how comedy—both literally and figuratively—became a source of healing, strength, and connection in their marriage.   This episode is equal parts practical and playful, offering encouragement to couples, singles, and anyone navigating love in the middle of uncertainty.   CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/therealdother https://www.instagram.com/lovechanellenje   CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield   ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S NEW BOOK "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com   FOLLOW DEAR FUTURE WIFEY 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this unforgettable episode of Dear Future Wifey, Laterras R. Whitfield sits down with Bishop Joseph Walker III and Dr. Stephaine Walker for a conversation that redefines timing, trust, and obedience in love. The Walkers share the remarkable story of how they met during a pivotal season of life—when Dr. Stephaine was working at Harvard and Bishop Walker was three years removed from the loss of his first wife after 11 years of marriage. What followed was a relationship marked by uncommon clarity and conviction, leading them to marriage just three months later. Together, they unpack how discernment, prayer, and emotional readiness shaped their decision, and why pace doesn’t always equal recklessness when purpose is clear. The couple also discuss the unexpected benefits of long-distance dating, including how space strengthened communication, trust, and intentionality. Dr. Stephaine opens up about becoming an unconventional First Lady—sharing how she navigated public expectations without losing her identity, calling, or voice. Her transparency offers wisdom for women who desire partnership without self-erasure. This episode explores: Love after loss and trusting God again Discernment versus delay Long-distance relationship dynamics Marriage that honors individuality and purpose Leading together without losing yourself   🎧 This is a powerful conversation for singles, widows, leaders, and anyone believing God for a love story that doesn’t fit the mold—but fits His plan.   CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/josephwalker3 https://www.instagram.com/drstephwalker   CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield   ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S NEW BOOK "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com   FOLLOW DEAR FUTURE WIFEY 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

When life deals its toughest cards, who will stand beside you? Roy and Shanta Q Williams share their powerful journey through serious health challenges that tested their marriage vows in ways they never imagined. From heart attacks to strokes to cancer, this couple's story isn't just about survival—it's about the extraordinary power of commitment when "in sickness and in health" becomes your daily reality. Their candid conversation reveals how they navigated life's unexpected turns while maintaining their sense of humor and deep connection. What began as a chance meeting between two Denver natives blossomed into a 20-year marriage built on friendship, faith, and unwavering support. Through Shanta Q's multiple misdiagnoses and Roy's prostate cancer battle, they discovered what truly matters in a partnership. ## Key Timestamps: 12:30 - How they met and their unique Denver connection - 25:45 - Shanta Q's resistance to marriage despite their compatibility - 38:20 - The beginning of serious health challenges in 2012 - 45:15 - Shanta Q's heart attack and the fight for proper diagnosis - 1:02:30 - Roy's prostate cancer journey and treatment decisions - 1:08:45 - The value of marriage during life-threatening illness ## Key Takeaways: - Statistics show many husbands leave when wives face terminal illness, but Roy never considered it - True independence isn't about doing everything alone—it's having someone who supports you when you can't support yourself - Communication remains the foundation of their relationship through every challenge - Their health journeys transformed into purpose as Shanta Q now uses humor to advocate for health awareness - Marriage provides a unique partnership where vulnerability becomes strength Listen to this moving episode that will make you laugh, reflect, and perhaps reconsider what it truly means to love someone through life's most difficult moments. This is the kind of love story that reminds us what "till death do us part" really looks like in practice. 📸 CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/heyshantaq PRE-ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://a.co/d/bx0E1iv WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON  https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404 👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com 👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com SUBSCRIBE & LEAVE A REVIEW Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@DearFutureWifey?sub_confirmation=1 🍏 Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dear-future-wifey/id1506095537 🎵 Google Play: https://play.google.com/music/m/Iae4cjudkuuxmjnjza7zputjfuu?t=Dear_Future_Wifey 🧵 Stitcher: https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/dear-future-wifey 🎧 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1r3Ba1GxkpwFkWVqmxZNPA FOLLOW US 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast | https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcast See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this must-hear episode of Dear Future Wifey, Laterras R. Whitfield sits down with Niya Gonzales, a 31-year-old influencer who recently went viral after making the bold decision to call off her very public engagement.   What sparked widespread conversation—and mixed reactions online—was Niya’s honesty: there was no infidelity, no abuse, no scandal. She simply changed her mind.   In this transparent and emotionally grounded conversation, Niya shares what led to that decision, the internal wrestle of listening to her intuition, and the pressure of making a life-altering choice under the scrutiny of social media. Together, Laterras and Niya unpack the difference between doing what looks right and doing what is right, especially when it comes to marriage.   This episode explores:   The courage it takes to choose clarity over comfort   Why “nothing went wrong” can still be a valid reason to walk away   The emotional toll of public opinion on private decisions   Discernment, self-trust, and honoring your inner voice   Redefining failure, faith, and freedom in relationships   Whether you agreed with her decision or questioned it, this conversation invites you to look deeper—beyond the headlines—and wrestle with what it truly means to choose yourself before saying “I do.”   🎧 This episode is honest, thought-provoking, and necessary.   CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/niyah.gonzalez   CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield   ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S NEW BOOK "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com   FOLLOW DEAR FUTURE WIFEY 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.