<description>&lt;p&gt;In this episode of&amp;nbsp;&lt;em&gt;Space for Life&lt;/em&gt;, Tommy and Joe dive deep into one of the most overlooked drivers of personal transformation:&amp;nbsp;&lt;strong&gt;the environment you build around your life&lt;/strong&gt;. Instead of focusing on tips, hacks, or quick fixes, they explore how habits, self-coaching, meaningful relationships, and spiritual spaciousness create the kind of “rich soil” where long-term growth actually happens.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Drawing from the&amp;nbsp;&lt;strong&gt;Parable of the Sower&lt;/strong&gt;, Tommy unpacks four types of “soil environments” and shows how they mirror the spiritual, emotional, and practical conditions we create in our lives. The conversation moves through the role of spaciousness, the discomfort that often precedes growth, why self-reflection is essential, and the four kinds of people every person needs around them.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you want deeper relationships, meaningful progress, and a spiritual life that actually transforms you — this episode will help you create the conditions where real growth can finally take root.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;h1&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Key Takeaways&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;Creating the right environment is&amp;nbsp;&lt;em&gt;more important&lt;/em&gt;&amp;nbsp;than any single growth tactic.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;The&amp;nbsp;&lt;strong&gt;Parable of the Sower&lt;/strong&gt;&amp;nbsp;offers a framework for understanding how environment impacts growth.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;The three major components of a growth environment are&amp;nbsp;&lt;strong&gt;habits&lt;/strong&gt;,&amp;nbsp;&lt;strong&gt;self-coaching&lt;/strong&gt;, and&amp;nbsp;&lt;strong&gt;people&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Spaciousness&lt;/strong&gt;&amp;nbsp;is the foundational habit that enables reflection, listening, and deeper living.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Weekly and quarterly rhythms create structure for long-term transformation.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Growth requires a willingness to step outside your comfort zone.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Self-coaching begins with listening — to patterns, emotions, circumstances, and God.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Four kinds of people accelerate growth: mentors, mentees, soul friends, and prophets.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;A “prophet” (your Nathan) is someone with permission to speak hard truth into your life.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;h1&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Resources&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.amazon.com/Space-Breathe-Again-Overloaded-Overwhelmed/dp/1734940026" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Tommy’s Book:&lt;/strong&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;em&gt;Space to Breathe Again&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/space-for-life/id1506941393?i=1000663978764" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Space for Life Episode: “30 Minutes to Your Best Week”&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/space-for-life/id1506941393?i=1000663978731" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Space for Life Episode: “The Art of Journaling”&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/space-for-life/id1506941393?i=1000663978792" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Space for Life Episode: "What's the Big Deal About Margin?"&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/space-for-life/id1506941393?i=1000663978790" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;Space for Life Episode: "What's a Spacious Life?"&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"&gt;0:00 Intro&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"&gt;1:46 Why Environment Matters&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"&gt;4:26 Parable of the Sower&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"&gt;9:42 Four Types of Soil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"&gt;12:49 Three Elements of Growth&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"&gt;16:43 Habits of Spaciousness&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"&gt;25:06 Weekly + Long-Term Rhythms&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"&gt;32:57 Self Coaching + Reflection&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"&gt;41:50 People of Growth&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"&gt;45:22 4 Types of People You Need in Your Life&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"&gt;55:48 Finding Your Nathan&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! http://tommythompson.org&lt;/p&gt;</description>

Space for Life

Tommy Thompson

Creating an Environment for Growth

DEC 4, 202563 MIN
Space for Life

Creating an Environment for Growth

DEC 4, 202563 MIN

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<p>In this episode of&nbsp;<em>Space for Life</em>, Tommy and Joe dive deep into one of the most overlooked drivers of personal transformation:&nbsp;<strong>the environment you build around your life</strong>. Instead of focusing on tips, hacks, or quick fixes, they explore how habits, self-coaching, meaningful relationships, and spiritual spaciousness create the kind of “rich soil” where long-term growth actually happens.</p><p><br></p><p>Drawing from the&nbsp;<strong>Parable of the Sower</strong>, Tommy unpacks four types of “soil environments” and shows how they mirror the spiritual, emotional, and practical conditions we create in our lives. The conversation moves through the role of spaciousness, the discomfort that often precedes growth, why self-reflection is essential, and the four kinds of people every person needs around them.</p><p><br></p><p>If you want deeper relationships, meaningful progress, and a spiritual life that actually transforms you — this episode will help you create the conditions where real growth can finally take root.</p><p><br></p><h1><strong>Key Takeaways</strong></h1><ul><li>Creating the right environment is&nbsp;<em>more important</em>&nbsp;than any single growth tactic.</li><li>The&nbsp;<strong>Parable of the Sower</strong>&nbsp;offers a framework for understanding how environment impacts growth.</li><li>The three major components of a growth environment are&nbsp;<strong>habits</strong>,&nbsp;<strong>self-coaching</strong>, and&nbsp;<strong>people</strong>.</li><li><strong>Spaciousness</strong>&nbsp;is the foundational habit that enables reflection, listening, and deeper living.</li><li>Weekly and quarterly rhythms create structure for long-term transformation.</li><li>Growth requires a willingness to step outside your comfort zone.</li><li>Self-coaching begins with listening — to patterns, emotions, circumstances, and God.</li><li>Four kinds of people accelerate growth: mentors, mentees, soul friends, and prophets.</li><li>A “prophet” (your Nathan) is someone with permission to speak hard truth into your life.</li></ul><p><br></p><h1><strong>Resources</strong></h1><ul><li><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Space-Breathe-Again-Overloaded-Overwhelmed/dp/1734940026" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>Tommy’s Book:</strong>&nbsp;<em>Space to Breathe Again</em></a></li><li><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/space-for-life/id1506941393?i=1000663978764" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>Space for Life Episode: “30 Minutes to Your Best Week”</strong></a></li><li><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/space-for-life/id1506941393?i=1000663978731" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>Space for Life Episode: “The Art of Journaling”</strong></a></li><li><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/space-for-life/id1506941393?i=1000663978792" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>Space for Life Episode: "What's the Big Deal About Margin?"</strong></a></li><li><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/space-for-life/id1506941393?i=1000663978790" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Space for Life Episode: "What's a Spacious Life?"</a></li></ul><p><br></p><p><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">0:00 Intro</span></p><p><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">1:46 Why Environment Matters</span></p><p><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">4:26 Parable of the Sower</span></p><p><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">9:42 Four Types of Soil</span></p><p><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">12:49 Three Elements of Growth</span></p><p><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">16:43 Habits of Spaciousness</span></p><p><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">25:06 Weekly + Long-Term Rhythms</span></p><p><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">32:57 Self Coaching + Reflection</span></p><p><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">41:50 People of Growth</span></p><p><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">45:22 4 Types of People You Need in Your Life</span></p><p><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">55:48 Finding Your Nathan</span></p><p><br></p><p>Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! http://tommythompson.org</p>