<p>In this episode, Jo Sparrow speaks with Tracy Graham, an adopted adult who shares her lived experience of adoption trauma, identity and reunion across the lifespan. Tracy reflects on growing up in her adoptive family, the silence and emotional harm she experienced, and how adoption loss shaped her sense of self. The conversation explores adoption identity, motherhood, and the emotional labour often carried by adopted adults, as well as the realities of adoption reunion. Tracy’s story highlights the power of truth-telling, reconnection, and the role of narrative in healing and meaning-making.</p><p> 00:00 Tracy&#39;s Early Life and Adoption Experience</p><p>08:16 The Impact of Adoption on Identity</p><p>16:34 Moving to Australia: A New Beginning</p><p>18:34 Navigating Motherhood and Family Expectations</p><p>22:03 The Search for Biological Family</p><p>33:57 Discovering the Truth About Her Origins</p><p>36:10 The Impact of Early Separation</p><p>37:52 Navigating Relationships with Biological Family</p><p>40:15 Understanding Silence and Emotional Barriers</p><p>42:52 The Risk of Asking About the Past</p><p>45:22 Serendipity in Family Connections</p><p>49:53 Building Relationships with Siblings</p><p>52:34 The Complexity of Family Dynamics</p><p>58:30 Releasing Emotional Burdens</p><p>01:02:27 Leaving a Legacy for Future Generations</p><p>This episode will resonate with adopted adults, parents who lost children to adoption, siblings, adoptive parents, practitioners, and anyone seeking a deeper, more honest understanding of the lifelong impacts of adoption. </p><p> </p><p>🎧 If this conversation resonates, subscribe for more honest discussions about adoption, identity and the lived experience of adopted adults, mothers and fathers who lost children to adoption and therapists, researchers and policy makers in this space. </p><p><br></p><p>This episode discusses adult themes and listener discretion is advised. For more information go to <a href="http://www.jigsawqueensland.com/podcast">⁠http://www.jigsawqueensland.com/podcast⁠</a></p><p> </p><p>To be considered for interview on the podcast, fill in the prospective guest form you&#39;ll find on the podcast page of the website.  </p><p><br></p><p>Your host is Dr Jo-Ann Sparrow - President of Jigsaw Queensland (<a href="http://www.jigsawqueensland.com/">⁠www.jigsawqueensland.com⁠</a>) </p><p>Connect with us Instagram - adopt_perspective_podcast </p><p>Facebook - Jigsaw Post-Adoption Centre Queensland  </p><p>If you are looking for support and reside in Queensland, Australia, you can reach Jigsaw Queensland&#39;s Forced Adoption Support Service on toll-free 1800 21 03 13, or you can call Jigsaw on 07 3358 6666. If you live in another state of Australia, you can still call the Forced Adoption Support Service in the state that you&#39;re calling from. In every other state of Australia, Relationships Australia operates this service. </p><p>A big thank you to Matt Sparrow for composing and recording our original theme music.  </p><p>We acknowledge the traditional custodians of the land on which we work and the many lands that our clients now live on and we wish to acknowledge and show our respects to Elders past and present for their continuing connection to culture and the contributions they make to community. We acknowledge how much we have to learn from them and their unique understanding of connection and adoption and their recognition that at the base of every change is truth telling and healing. </p>