<p>Welcome back! Today we're joined by Colette Jane Fehr, a licensed couples therapist, nationally recognized relationship expert, and author of the <strong>#1 Amazon bestseller </strong><a href="https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/763866/the-cost-of-quiet-by-colette-jane-fehr-lmft-lmhc/">⁠The Cost of Quiet: How to Have the Hard Conversations That Create Secure, Lasting Love⁠</a>.</p><p><strong>We chat about:</strong></p><ul><li>​How Colette "quiet quit" her marriage</li><li>​Dating after divorce</li><li>​Dating as a single parent</li><li>​Conversations that could save your relationship</li><li>​Why having no conflict is actually a red flag</li><li>​How to bring up things that bother you in a relationship</li><li>​Tools for healthier communication</li></ul><p>& more</p><p>Find Colette on Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/colettejanefehr/">⁠@colettejanefehr⁠</a>, order her book <a href="https://www.colettejanefehr.com/new-book">⁠here⁠</a>, or check out her Substack, <a href="https://colettejanefehr.substack.com/?utm_source=ig&utm_medium=social&utm_content=link_in_bio&fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQMMjU2MjgxMDQwNTU4AAGnmxdGCo29Yidje3hDi7wU7SrluXbti2l9p4Og6EWcM1zizxapuT3hF-o7ik8_aem_bpPZFiNuTNNISxDO6bAXlA">⁠Secrets from a Therapist⁠</a>.</p><p><strong>Read my most recent Substacks: </strong></p><p><a href="https://open.substack.com/pub/mostlydating/p/signs-youre-ready-to-date-after-breakup?utm_campaign=post-expanded-share&utm_medium=post%20viewer">⁠⁠⁠Signs You're Ready To Date Again After A Breakup⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p><a href="https://open.substack.com/pub/mostlydating/p/exactly-what-i-did-to-manifest-my?r=iwom&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web">⁠⁠⁠Exactly What I Did To Manifest My Dream Relationship At 33⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p><a href="https://open.substack.com/pub/mostlydating/p/conversations-every-couple-should?utm_campaign=post-expanded-share&utm_medium=web">⁠⁠⁠Conversations Every Couple Should Have In The First Year Of Dating⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p><strong>As always, find me on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</strong><a href="https://www.instagram.com/mostlydating/">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠<strong>⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@mostlydating⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</strong>⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a><strong>. And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review! </strong></p><p>To have your question answered on an upcoming episode, submit it <a href="https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSexZefbAzZQVWs_QMjJQ72ZLUJHxZtr2ivRHCFSBa6vcc7L0Q/viewform">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> or email [email protected]. </p>