<p>Welcome back! Today we&#39;re answering listener questions about a boyfriend who makes weird comments about a listener&#39;s spending habits, another boyfriend who refuses to use words of affirmation, a long-distance pen pal situation, dating after divorce, and what to do when your partner speaks for you in social settings.</p><p><strong>Read my most recent Substacks: </strong></p><p><a href="https://open.substack.com/pub/mostlydating/p/how-to-learn-values-early-dating?utm_campaign=post-expanded-share&utm_medium=post%20viewer">⁠⁠⁠How To Find Out Fast If Your Values Are Aligned⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p><a href="https://open.substack.com/pub/mostlydating/p/how-to-meet-people-in-real-life?utm_campaign=post-expanded-share&utm_medium=post%20viewer">⁠⁠⁠How to Meet People IRL &amp; Make Yourself More Approachable⁠⁠⁠</a></p><p><a href="https://open.substack.com/pub/mostlydating/p/how-to-learn-values-early-dating?utm_campaign=post-expanded-share&utm_medium=post%20viewer">⁠⁠⁠<strong>As always, find me on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</strong>⁠⁠⁠</a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/mostlydating/">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠<strong>⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@mostlydating⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</strong>⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a><strong>. And if you&#39;re enjoying the pod, please leave a rating &amp; review! </strong></p><p>To have your question answered on an upcoming episode, submit it <a href="https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSexZefbAzZQVWs_QMjJQ72ZLUJHxZtr2ivRHCFSBa6vcc7L0Q/viewform">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> or email [email protected]. </p>