Dating in your 30s, 40s, and beyond feels like you only get two options: the guy who can’t make a decision to save his life, or the one who plays games and leaves you anxious. <br /><br />Where are the men with actual <i>backbone</i>... without the ego?<br />The ones who make you feel safe, not small? <br /><br />In this girls girl episode, we’re breaking down the masculine energy women are <i>actually</i> attracted to and spoiler: it’s not the alpha-male podcasts or the “nice guy” who lets you lead everything.<br /><br />We cover:  <br /><ul><li><b>The 3 signs of healthy masculine energy</b> that make strong women relax  </li></ul><br /><br /><br /><ul><li>Why “soft boy” energy feels like dating another kid you have to raise </li></ul><br /><ul><li>The difference between a man who’s <i>safe</i> vs. one who’s just <i>safe to ignore</i><i></i></li></ul><br /><ul><li>What we really mean when we say we want a man to “lead”</li></ul><br /><ul><li>How to spot the players cosplaying as providers before you catch feelings</li></ul><br /><br />If you’re tired of choosing between chaos and caretaking in your relationships, this one’s for you.<br />Send to the group chat.