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Ever wondered how someone with a full plate—a thriving business, a family, a neurodiverse household, AND a stack of published books—still finds time to sleep?Or better yet… how they use their ADHD to power all of it? If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by your own creativity or wondered if you’re “too much,” you’re going to love this interview with returning guest and my SEO consultant, Meg Casebolt. Her approach to neurodiversity in business proves that ADHD can be a strategic advantage, not a limitation.Meg is an entrepreneurial powerhouse who perfectly embodies the phrase “multi-passionate with a mission.” I’m talking about building a successful SEO consultancy while cranking out several romance novels, nonfiction books, and helping others find their voices—all with the magic (and occasional mayhem) of an ADHD brain. Her writing strategy and approach to creative writing offer a blueprint for managing multiple projects without burning out.This is not a conversation about “doing it all.” It’s about how to let your brain’s unique wiring become your greatest asset. Meg shares candidly about her writing journey: from being a childhood word nerd, to losing the joy of writing through academia’s rigidity, and then rediscovering the creative spark during the uncertainty of the pandemic.Ever felt like your nervous system is on overdrive? You’re not alone—turns out writing romance novels was exactly what Meg needed to dial down anxiety and reclaim hope. This is neurodiversity in business at its most authentic.Here are my top 3 takeaways from our chat:Creativity Needs Structure:Meg breaks big projects like writing novels and business books into manageable, bite-sized sessions—30 minutes a day can add up to published work and reduced overwhelm.Curate Your Input to Cultivate Your Output:Both of us have found that reducing media consumption and focusing on our unique perspectives boosts creativity and clarity—whether you’re writing, building, or rebranding.Honor Your Brain (and Your Needs):It’s not about doing it all—it's about doing what fuels you. Speaker B balances left- and right-brain work, has learned to say no to platforms that drain her energy, and finds flow by following her interests and intrinsic motivations.About today’s guest, Meg Casebolt:Meg Casebolt helps experienced founders, consultants, and creators become findable in AI-powered search—not through keyword tactics, but through strategic authority positioning.As founder of Love At First Search, she works with experts who don’t need more SEO advice but do need a new way to be understood by modern search systems. Her approach focuses on helping people become quotable and recommendable: teaching them to claim specific expertise territory and build the signals AI uses to evaluate credibility.Diann’s Note: After I lost 10k followers on social media accounts overnight due to hackers, I was determined to learn SEO and started working with Meg. Within 1 year, I rank at the top of all search engines in my niche, and 50% of my clients now find me through online search. Meg’s Body of Work: Love at First Search / Signal - SEO membership program (affiliate)Aggressively Human podcast with Jessica LackeySocial Slowdown Meg’s podcast and bookHappily Ever Indie - for self-published romance authorsMeg’s romance novels under her pseudonym Bailey Seaborn Recommended by Meg during the episode:Lacy Boggs, The Content Direction AgencyJoanna Wiebe - 12 Books That Will Make You Insanely Smart Your ADHD-ish™ host, Diann Wingert Diann Wingert brings decades of experience as a psychotherapist and serial business owner and is now a sought-after coach to entrepreneurs with ADHD traits. Diann is a fierce advocate for self-acceptance and meaningful growth at the intersection of neurodivergence and entrepreneurship. She is the creator of the ADHD-ish Method and host of the top-rated ADHD-ish podcast.Connect with DiannReady to work with an ADHD-informed business strategist and coach? Book a free consultation with me. © 2026 ADHD-ish™ Podcast. Intro music by Ishan Dincer / Melody Loops / Outro music by Vladimir / Bobi Music / All rights reserved.

Welcome back to ADHD-ish™, where we're kicking off a five-episode series reframing the most talked-about ADHD traits as tools for entrepreneurial success, starting with hyperfocus.Forget the myth that hyperfocus is a rare, unpredictable gift. ADHD-ish™ host, Diann Wingert, reveals that the most successful ADHD entrepreneurs create the conditions for hyperfocus rather than hoping it just shows up.Here’s the game-changing insight:Hyperfocus is a state, not a fixed trait—and you can stack the deck to get into it on demand.3 Key Takeaways:Engineer Your Hyperfocus: Don’t wait for the muse—set up conditions like real deadlines, novel environments, meaningful rewards, supportive sensory cues, and a nourished body to invite focus on demand.Body Doubling is a Real Strategy: Working alongside others—friends on Zoom, coworking sessions, or even a busy coffee shop—provides social accountability and can reliably spark focus.Stack Conditions, Not Guilt: Hyperfocus isn’t about willpower; it’s about stacking multiple supportive factors. Even intentionally stacking just two of these can create momentum in your business.Hyperfocus can be a genuine business asset—if you learn to direct it. But, there are hidden costs to hyperfocus, too:Mental exhaustion and decision fatigueNeglected relationshipsOther parts of your business are left idleRemember: Hyperfocus is a power tool. Use it wisely—and plan for the comedown.What’s My Hyperfocus Setup? In my own business, I decide, ahead of time, exactly what needs my hyper-focused attention and how much time I’ll devote to it.The routine is precise: comfortable clothes, a high-protein breakfast, natural light, a pre-game ritual of exercise, sunshine, and social connection. And hydration throughout the hyperfocused state. No brain jerky for me.What’s not in my routine: willpower, white-knuckling, bullying myself or shame. The environment is repeatable, the stakes are real, and the body, mind, and brain are primed and ready. After it's over? Rest, recalibration, and reconnection.Hyperfocus as Skill - Start Here:Pick one 90-minute block of business-critical work.Deliberately create at least two of the five conditions above.Do the work—and observe the impact on your focus.Don’t be an overachiever and do all five. Start small, track the effect, and iterate. It’s not a productivity contest—it’s your personal hyperfocus experiment.Resources mentioned in this episode:Focus MateFocused Space (affiliate link)Zoom Spotify playlistsYour ADHD-ish ™ host, Diann Wingert Diann Wingert is a business strategist, coach, serial entrepreneur, former psychotherapist, and passionate thought leader at the intersection of ADHD and entrepreneurship.In addition to hosting the ADHD-ish ™ podcast, Diann is the creator of The ADHD-ish ™ Method, a practicing Buddhist, dog mom, and relentlessly curious human.Diann explains neuroscience in a relatable way. Through her accessible storytelling, Diann empowers others to understand their brains, manage their energy, and show compassion to themselves as they navigate the demands of being a business owner and in their everyday lives.Want more strategies for time blindness, novelty chasing, object permanence issues, and procrastination? Make sure you don’t miss the next episodes in this “Reframing Your ADHD Traits as Business Strategies” series. Subscribe/Follow ADHD-ish on Apple or SpotifyWant my help to build your business with ADHD in mind? Schedule a free consultation to explore expert ADHD entrepreneur coaching with Diann Wingert© 2026 ADHD-ish™ Podcast. Intro music by Ishan Dincer / Melody Loops / Outro music by Vladimir / Bobi Music / All rights reserved.

ADHD fundamentally impacts executive function—the mental skills for planning, prioritizing, delegating, and following through. So, when an entrepreneur hires a VA and is expected to onboard, direct, and give detailed instructions, they’re faced with a mismatch: the very skills they struggle with are those they now must use to instruct their assistant.Traditional VAs, trained to “do what they’re told,” end up sitting idle, waiting for direction, while the entrepreneur is paralyzed by indecision and shame. The result? Money is wasted, little is accomplished, and increased frustration, making it even harder to try again.What if support could be different? What if, instead of looking for a “unicorn” VA who can do everything, ADHD entrepreneurs sought out “distant assistants”—human lifelines who specialize in executive functioning, regulated communication, and operationalized thinking?Today’s guest is Avigail (Avy) Schondorf, fellow ADHD entrepreneur, podcaster, and owner of the Alisto agency that trains and outsources distant assistants who understand what neurodivergent business owners really need.This conversation is full of insights, humor, cringeworthy moments, and a new paradigm for shame-free support.Here are 3 key takeaways for anyone considering hiring support:A “bad” solution is not worse than no solution. Many ADHD entrepreneurs avoid help out of fear that it won’t work, but that only fuels more shame and wasted energy.Don’t wait for the “perfect” moment or system. The real tipping point isn’t having more work—it’s being ready to ask for what you need, without shame.Stop looking for unicorns—lean into teams. Expecting one assistant to do everything sets everyone up for failure. Specialized support means you (and your VA) can play to your strengths.If “doing it all myself” isn’t scalable OR sustainable, maybe it’s time to delegate differently—and embrace asking for help as a sign of strength.About today’s guest, Avigail (Avy) Schondorf:Avigail (Avy) Schondorf is a social worker turned entrepreneur who built two companies around the way her brain actually works.She's the founder of Alisto Virtual Workforce, a team of Distant Assistants who specialize in supporting neurodivergent entrepreneurs — and AvyHD, her strategy and thought leadership brand where she gets real about ADHD, delegation, and building a business without burning out.When she's not running her team or hosting the AvyHD Podcast, she's lifting weights, reading, or wrangling two very energetic daughters.Connect with Avy: WebsiteAVYHD podcastLinkedIn Mentioned during this episode:Avigail’s Octopus promptJamie from Bottleneck Distant Assistant My interview on Avi’s podcast, “Consistency, the Other C Word for ADHD Entrepreneurs”Your ADHD-ish™ host, Diann Wingert Diann Wingert brings decades of experience as a psychotherapist and serial business owner and is now a sought-after coach to entrepreneurs with ADHD traits. Her style is direct, strategic, and always honest—peppered with the insight of someone who lives and breathes the neurodivergent experience.Diann is a fierce advocate for self-acceptance and meaningful growth at the intersection of neurodivergence and entrepreneurship. She is the creator of the ADHD-ish Method and host of the top-rated ADHD-ish podcast.Links:Follow / Subscribe to ADHD-ish so you don’t miss an episodeReady to work with an ADHD-informed business strategist and coach? Visit my website. © 2026 ADHD-ish™ Podcast. Intro music by Ishan Dincer / Melody Loops / Outro music by Vladimir / Bobi Music / All rights reserved.

You’ve scrolled past Mental Health Awareness Month posts thinking, “That doesn’t apply to me.” Your business looks fine. On the surface, YOU look fine. But what if the very skills driving your success are quietly putting your mental health at risk? The ADHD-ish ™ Podcast tackles the conversations mainstream mental health awareness misses—especially for high-functioning ADHD entrepreneurs.For those with ADHD, the world often evaluates “functioning” based on visible output, and being able to run a business is seen as “high functioning.” But the trap is that the more capable and outwardly composed you appear, the less likely you—and others—are to notice when your mental health is slipping.This isn’t about denial. It’s the same creativity, drive, and resilience that helped build your business that masks the warning signs. What looks like ambition could be an ADHD brain that never learned to stop, rest, or celebrate. This is the hidden reality of ADHD entrepreneur chronic stress.Your ability to “power through” is precisely what puts you at risk for long-term exhaustion, burnout, and a quiet form of isolation.Four hidden risk categories:1. Cognitive TrapsThese are thinking patterns that feel like logic but quietly work against us. Do any of these sound familiar?The perpetually moving finish line (rest is always “after the next thing”)“I work better under pressure” — sound familiar? It’s a seductive trap, not a strategy!Comparing your struggles to others and invalidating your own needs2. Nervous System ConfusionYou might think you’re resting when you’re actually just switching to a different kind of stimulation (hello, endless content consumption!). Genuine restoration often looks like boredom at first, but it’s what your mind and body actually need.3. Recovery FailuresHigh-functioning ADHD people are notorious for skipping the habits that keep us steady, especially when we need them the most.Jumping right back into work after time off? That’s the “vacation tax.”Ditching sleep, movement, and real food when stress rises? That’s called “stress inversion.”Having no interests or life outside your business? That’s a hidden drain on your energy and identity.4. Loss of Connection & IdentityBusyness can become a mask for loneliness. Relationships that aren’t transactional quietly disappear, and your sense of self can erode until it’s fused with your business. If your only role is “the one who has it together” for everyone else, this one may hit home especially hard.You are not broken. These patterns are the predictable result of managing ADHD in a career that rewards output and intensity. If you recognize yourself in this description, don’t make it another to-do item. Instead, let this be an invitation: Pause. Notice. Take your own needs seriously, even—and especially—when you’re “doing well.” Your mental health is always worth protecting, no matter how high-functioning ADHD you appear to others.Your ADHD-ish ™ host, Diann Wingert Diann Wingert is a business strategist, coach, serial entrepreneur, former psychotherapist, and passionate thought leader at the intersection of ADHD and entrepreneurship. In addition to hosting the ADHD-ish ™ podcast, Diann is the creator of The ADHD-ish ™ Method, a practicing Buddhist, dog mom, and relentlessly curious human.Diann explains neuroscience in a relatable way. Through her accessible storytelling, Diann empowers others to understand their brains, manage their energy, and show compassion to themselves as they navigate the demands of being a business owner and in their everyday lives.Ready to Explore More?Try out “Di AI”—my digital ADHD business coach I have spent the last several months training and fine-tuning Di AI with The ADHD-ish ™ Method frameworks, strategies, and mindset tools. Not quite ready to work with an ADHD business coach? Di AI is currently in beta, and you can get access for free.Ready to work with an expert ADHD entrepreneur coach? Most of us started out bootstrapping our business and raw dogging everything on our own. But that approach will only get you so far. If you want to get further and faster, it might be time for the guidance, support, and accountability you can only get from working with an expert strategist and coach. Book a free consultation to see if we are a fit. And remember: You are never too high-functioning for your own mental health to matter.© 2026 ADHD-ish Podcast. Intro music by Ishan Dincer / Melody Loops / Outro music by Vladimir / Bobi Music / All rights reserved.

Welcome back to ADHD-ish! In this episode, my guest Ian Wilson, a creative agency owner of over 16 years, is what I call a natural-born entrepreneur. From hustling for his first job at age eleven to building a unique partnership with his neurodivergent business partner Eric, Ian sheds light on why traditional approaches to team building rarely work for people whose brains are wired a bit differently.We’ll hear how Ian and Eric’s complementary neurotypes—ADHD and autism - have enabled them to build a successful agency grounded in autonomy, mastery, and ownership. Ian shares lessons learned on building a team of “hurricane chasers,” hiring for attitude over experience, and why the bold move of unapologetically charging what you’re worth doesn’t just benefit the business—it creates a thriving company culture.Whether you’re a founder who is churning and burning team members or a solopreneur anticipating that first hire, this episode is packed with practical advice, refreshing honesty, and plenty of laughs about what happens when you fully embrace the ADHD-ish way of doing business.Three key takeaways:Self-awareness and self-acceptance matter more than “best practices.” Knowing what you’re brilliant at—and what you hate—makes it so much easier to build a business (and find team members) that complement your strengths and support your growth.Hire for traits, not just skills. Ian’s team isn’t made up of “perfect resumes” but of entrepreneurial thinkers who enjoy solving problems and don’t need to be micromanaged. Find the ones who vibe with your approach and love challenging themselves to figure things out.Be bold about your value. Ian & Eric tell prospects: “We’re probably the most expensive quote you’ll get—and here’s why.” Setting unapologetic boundaries not only draws the right clients but also creates a culture of excellence and transparency.Mic Drop Moment:Ian & Eric deliberately hire people who crave these three things, no matter their resume. Their neurodivergent advantage? Investing in traits, not credentials.Autonomy: Freedom to do things your way.Mastery: The drive to get better and own your craft.Ownership: Feeling like your contributions actually matter.About today’s guest, Ian Wilson:Ian is the Co-Founder and Creative Director of buildcreate, a full-service B2B marketing agency for manufacturing, technology, engineering, and industrial clients in Ann Arbor, Michigan. Home-schooled and entrepreneurial from childhood, Ian discovered his ADHD as an adult. He and his business partner, Eric Lynch, who is autistic, have discovered that their secret sauce as neurodivergent leaders is to hire smart people and let them work to their strengths.Connect with Ian: LinkedIn- Company Website - Email Your ADHD-ish host, Diann Wingert Diann Wingert brings decades of experience as a psychotherapist and serial business owner and is now a sought-after coach to entrepreneurs with ADHD traits. Diann is a fierce advocate for self-acceptance and meaningful growth at the intersection of neurodivergence and entrepreneurship. She is the creator of the ADHD-ish Method and host of the top-rated ADHD-ish podcast.Mentioned during this episode:Ep # 303: Which Company Culture is Your ADHD Brain Building?Links:Follow / Subscribe to ADHD-ish so you don’t miss an episodeKnow another entrepreneur with ADHD who thinks there is only one way to build a team - the neurotypical way? Share this episode.Ready to work with an ADHD-informed business strategist and coach? Visit my website. © 2026 ADHD-ish Podcast. Intro music by Ishan Dincer / Melody Loops/ Outro music by Vladimir / Bobi Music / All rights reserved.