<description>&lt;p&gt;In this episode, Dana is joined by Emma Lyons, a trauma-informed healer who exposes the true identity of our harshest inner critic. Emma shares her harrowing journey of being the scapegoat in a dysfunctional family with a covert narcissistic mother, and how that trauma manifested as a paralyzing "shame voice." She reveals her powerful realization that this voice isn't just self-doubt; it's an internalized narcissist that acts like a parasite, sabotaging success, visibility, and peace. Emma provides a revolutionary framework for "breaking up" with this internal abuser, challenging the very idea of "healthy shame" and offering listeners a path to reclaim their power, their voice, and their right to be "shameless."&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;a href= "https://www.linkedin.com/in/emma-lyons-traumamatrix/"&gt;Emma's Linkedin&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt; &lt;a href="https://traumamatrix.substack.com/"&gt;Emma's Substack&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://tinyurl.com/nottodaynarc"&gt;Emma's Free Guide&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description>

Phoenix and Flame Podcast

Dana Skaggs: psychotherapist and keynote speaker

How to Reclaim Your Power from Shame

MAR 29, 202636 MIN
Phoenix and Flame Podcast

How to Reclaim Your Power from Shame

MAR 29, 202636 MIN

Description

In this episode, Dana is joined by Emma Lyons, a trauma-informed healer who exposes the true identity of our harshest inner critic. Emma shares her harrowing journey of being the scapegoat in a dysfunctional family with a covert narcissistic mother, and how that trauma manifested as a paralyzing "shame voice." She reveals her powerful realization that this voice isn't just self-doubt; it's an internalized narcissist that acts like a parasite, sabotaging success, visibility, and peace. Emma provides a revolutionary framework for "breaking up" with this internal abuser, challenging the very idea of "healthy shame" and offering listeners a path to reclaim their power, their voice, and their right to be "shameless." Emma's Linkedin Emma's Substack Emma's Free Guide