<description>&lt;p&gt;After 10 years of coaching separated men, four specific things I used to recommend, I now recommend differently — or not at all. I'm breaking down where I stand today on no contact, ultimatums, moving out, and marriage counseling, plus a single question I now use for most separation decisions.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;🔗 Full show notes + free PDF one-sheet: &lt;a href= "https://husbandhelphaven.com/episode-36"&gt;https://husbandhelphaven.com/episode-36&lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt; 🔗 Join Husband Help Group: &lt;a href= "https://husbandhelphaven.com/group"&gt;https://husbandhelphaven.com/group&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Timestamps:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;ul&gt; &lt;li&gt;0:00 — Why I'm doing an episode like this&lt;/li&gt; &lt;li&gt;1:24 — A strong mind keeps training (Tim Keller story)&lt;/li&gt; &lt;li&gt;3:06 — The mission hasn't changed, the implementation has&lt;/li&gt; &lt;li&gt;3:58 — Shift #1: No contact — almost never&lt;/li&gt; &lt;li&gt;7:09 — Shift #2: Ultimatums — almost never &lt;/li&gt; &lt;li&gt;10:42 — Shift #3: Moving out — stay in the home&lt;/li&gt; &lt;li&gt;13:00 — Shift #4: Marriage counseling — cautiously open&lt;/li&gt; &lt;li&gt;19:24 — The unifying thread: demonstrating change is possible&lt;/li&gt; &lt;li&gt;21:44 — Where to start + Husband Help Group&lt;/li&gt; &lt;/ul&gt;</description>

Husband Help Haven Podcast: Marriage Advice for Men Facing Separation, Affair or Divorce

Stephen Waldo

4 Ways I Coach Men Differently Than I Did 10 Years Ago

JUN 3, 202624 MIN
Husband Help Haven Podcast: Marriage Advice for Men Facing Separation, Affair or Divorce

4 Ways I Coach Men Differently Than I Did 10 Years Ago

JUN 3, 202624 MIN

Description

After 10 years of coaching separated men, four specific things I used to recommend, I now recommend differently — or not at all. I'm breaking down where I stand today on no contact, ultimatums, moving out, and marriage counseling, plus a single question I now use for most separation decisions. 🔗 Full show notes + free PDF one-sheet: https://husbandhelphaven.com/episode-36 🔗 Join Husband Help Group: https://husbandhelphaven.com/group Timestamps: 0:00 — Why I'm doing an episode like this 1:24 — A strong mind keeps training (Tim Keller story) 3:06 — The mission hasn't changed, the implementation has 3:58 — Shift #1: No contact — almost never 7:09 — Shift #2: Ultimatums — almost never 10:42 — Shift #3: Moving out — stay in the home 13:00 — Shift #4: Marriage counseling — cautiously open 19:24 — The unifying thread: demonstrating change is possible 21:44 — Where to start + Husband Help Group