A Bit of Optimism is on hiatus this week, so we’re revisiting one of our favorite conversations! In this episode, Simon talks with psychologist Ty Tashiro about social awkwardness and why being awkward can actually be a superpower.*****Awkwardness gets a bad rap. But being awkward is often an indicator that someone has extraordinary.Psychologist and author Ty Tashiro has spent a great deal of time studying (and living!) social awkwardness. He's fascinated by how the same traits that cause us social embarrassment can also drive exceptional accomplishment. As a fellow awkward person, I was delighted to sit down with Ty and discuss the competitive advantages of social awkwardness, and how sometimes what society labels a weakness turns out to be our greatest strength.This...is A Bit of Optimism.For more on Ty and his work check out: his book, <a href="https://www.tytashiro.com/awkwardbook">AWKWARD: The Science of Why We're Socially Awkward and Why That's Awesome</a><a href="http://tytashiro.com/">tytashiro.com</a>

<description>&lt;p&gt;A Bit of Optimism is on hiatus this week, so we’re revisiting one of our favorite conversations! In this episode, Simon talks with psychologist Ty Tashiro about social awkwardness and why being awkward can actually be a superpower.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;*****&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Awkwardness gets a bad rap. But being awkward is often an indicator that someone has extraordinary.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Psychologist and author Ty Tashiro has spent a great deal of time studying (and living!) social awkwardness. He's fascinated by how the same traits that cause us social embarrassment can also drive exceptional accomplishment. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;As a fellow awkward person, I was delighted to sit down with Ty and discuss the competitive advantages of social awkwardness, and how sometimes what society labels a weakness turns out to be our greatest strength.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This...is A Bit of Optimism.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;For more on Ty and his work check out: &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;his book, &lt;a href="https://www.tytashiro.com/awkwardbook"&gt;AWKWARD: The Science of Why We're Socially Awkward and Why That's Awesome&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://tytashiro.com/"&gt;tytashiro.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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Simon talks with psychologist Ty Tashiro about social awkwardness and why being awkward can actually be a superpower.



Revisited: Why Awkward Is Awesome with psychologist Ty Tashiro

Is there such a thing as female leadership? Or is gender not a factor?DeDe Halfhill would say yes and no. A retired Air Force colonel, Dede spent 20 years in the military, where she advised some of the military’s most powerful leaders during the War in Iraq.She was often the only woman in the room for weeks on end. And while DeDe found the principles of leadership to be universal, there was no denying her experience as a woman leader was different from the men.DeDe is an old friend of mine, and I was excited to talk with her about what she learned during her time in the Air Force. She explained to me why people react differently to male versus female leaders, why loneliness often shows up as exhaustion, and how the ability to do emotional labor makes all leaders great, regardless of gender.This...is A Bit of Optimism.For more on DeDe and her work, check out:<a href="https://dedehalfhill.com">dedehalfhill.com</a>

<description>&lt;p&gt;Is there such a thing as female leadership? Or is gender not a factor?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;DeDe Halfhill would say yes and no. A retired Air Force colonel, Dede spent 20 years in the military, where she advised some of the military’s most powerful leaders during the War in Iraq.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;She was often the only woman in the room for weeks on end. And while DeDe found the principles of leadership to be universal, there was no denying her experience as a woman leader was different from the men.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;DeDe is an old friend of mine, and I was excited to talk with her about what she learned during her time in the Air Force. She explained to me why people react differently to male versus female leaders, why loneliness often shows up as exhaustion, and how the ability to do emotional labor makes all leaders great, regardless of gender.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This...is A Bit of Optimism.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;For more on DeDe and her work, check out:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://dedehalfhill.com"&gt;dedehalfhill.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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Is there such a thing as female leadership? Or is gender not a factor?



Does Gender Change How We Lead? with retired colonel DeDe Halfhill

We turn to ancient philosophies to help us cope with the stress of modern life. But what if ancient wisdom could use some help from the modern world?Jay Shetty has made it his life’s work to make wisdom, peace, and purpose available to everyone. After living as a monk for 3 years, he left his monastic lifestyle with the hope of spreading what he learned to as many people as possible. Today, he’s the host of the On Purpose podcast, a #1 New York Times bestselling author, a life coach, and an entrepreneur who has helped millions of people find clarity in their lives.I was excited to talk with Jay about the balance between ancient practices and modern life. He shared with me the three biggest lessons he learned as a monk, what people get wrong about meditation, and how we can slow down and reflect amid the bustle of modern society.For more on Jay and his work, check out:<a href="https://www.jayshetty.me/tour" target="_blank">On Purpose Live Tour</a><a href="http://jayshetty.me/" target="_blank">jayshetty.me</a>

<description>&lt;p&gt;We turn to ancient philosophies to help us cope with the stress of modern life. But what if ancient wisdom could use some help from the modern world?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Jay Shetty has made it his life’s work to make wisdom, peace, and purpose available to everyone. After living as a monk for 3 years, he left his monastic lifestyle with the hope of spreading what he learned to as many people as possible. Today, he’s the host of the On Purpose podcast, a #1 New York Times bestselling author, a life coach, and an entrepreneur who has helped millions of people find clarity in their lives.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I was excited to talk with Jay about the balance between ancient practices and modern life. He shared with me the three biggest lessons he learned as a monk, what people get wrong about meditation, and how we can slow down and reflect amid the bustle of modern society.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;For more on Jay and his work, check out:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.jayshetty.me/tour" target="_blank"&gt;On Purpose Live Tour&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://jayshetty.me/" target="_blank"&gt;jayshetty.me&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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We turn to ancient philosophies to help us cope with the stress of modern life. But what if ancient wisdom could use some help from the modern world?

The Myth of the Perfect Meditator with podcaster Jay Shetty

To recognize your own talent takes time and self-awareness. But to find the courage to pursue it? That often requires a spark of inspiration from someone else.For Hasan Minhaj, that spark came from an unexpected trio—a teacher, a roommate, and Napster. A former correspondent on The Daily Show, Hasan’s natural gift of gab allowed him to build a wide-ranging career which spans standup, acting, Netflix shows, and, most recently, his podcast, Hasan Minhaj Doesn’t Know.I had the pleasure of sitting down with Hasan to discuss his journey—why gifted people crave external validation, why kids are braver than adults, and where comedians truly rank in the artistic hierarchy.This… is A Bit of Optimism.For more on Hasan and his work check out:<a href="http://hasanminhaj.com/" target="_blank">hasanminhaj.com</a>

<description>&lt;p&gt;To recognize your own talent takes time and self-awareness. But to find the courage to pursue it? That often requires a spark of inspiration from someone else.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;For Hasan Minhaj, that spark came from an unexpected trio—a teacher, a roommate, and Napster. A former correspondent on &lt;i&gt;The Daily Show&lt;/i&gt;, Hasan’s natural gift of gab allowed him to build a wide-ranging career which spans standup, acting, Netflix shows, and, most recently, his podcast, &lt;i&gt;Hasan Minhaj Doesn’t Know.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I had the pleasure of sitting down with Hasan to discuss his journey—why gifted people crave external validation, why kids are braver than adults, and where comedians truly rank in the artistic hierarchy.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This… is &lt;i&gt;A Bit of Optimism.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;For more on Hasan and his work check out:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://hasanminhaj.com/" target="_blank"&gt;hasanminhaj.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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To recognize your own talent takes time and self-awareness. But to find the courage to pursue it? That often requires a spark of inspiration from someone else.

When Your 'Flaw' Becomes Your Edge with Comedian Hasan Minhaj

Most people believe the only way to lead is to become the best at something. But what if great leadership means admitting you’re not the best at anything?Jocko Willink believes the secret to his greatest achievements come down to one thing – humility. A retired Navy SEAL commander, Jocko served 20 years in the U.S. military, leading one of the most decorated special operations units through combat in the Iraq War. A New York Times bestselling author, podcast host, and entrepreneur, he now teaches those in the civilian world the skills he learned from his time in the SEAL Teams.This was my first time meeting Jocko Willink, and we discussed why new leaders should never try to prove their own competence and the difference between tyrannical and open-minded leaders.This…is A Bit of Optimism.For more on Jocko and his work, check out:<a href="http://jocko.com/" target="_blank">jocko.com</a>

<description>&lt;p&gt;Most people believe the only way to lead is to become the best at something. But what if great leadership means admitting you’re not the best at anything?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Jocko Willink believes the secret to his greatest achievements come down to one thing – humility. A retired Navy SEAL commander, Jocko served 20 years in the U.S. military, leading one of the most decorated special operations units through combat in the Iraq War. A New York Times bestselling author, podcast host, and entrepreneur, he now teaches those in the civilian world the skills he learned from his time in the SEAL Teams.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This was my first time meeting Jocko Willink, and we discussed why new leaders should never try to prove their own competence and the difference between tyrannical and open-minded leaders.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This…is A Bit of Optimism.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;For more on Jocko and his work, check out:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://jocko.com/" target="_blank"&gt;jocko.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;/p&gt;
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Most people believe the only way to lead is to become the best at something. But what if great leadership means admitting you’re not the best at anything?

Humble Leaders Lead Better Teams with Retired Navy SEAL Jocko Willink

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