<p>Today on the show, I am sharing my interview with Farzana Doctor where we talk about non-monogamy, what sexuality looks like in your 40s, and what it means to be a quote unquote “good woman.” We also discuss her new book that is a collection of poetry, <em>You Still Look the Same. </em>I particularly resonated with her poem <em>Boundaries </em>and I know it’s a topic a lot of folks have asked me about. </p><p><strong>Resources from the Show!</strong></p><p>Farzana Doctor: https://farzanadoctor.com/</p><p><em>You Still Look The Same </em>Discount Code: use DOCTOR20 at check-out at <a href="https://freehand-books.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://freehand-books.com</a></p><p>Audiobook link: https://libro.fm/audiobooks/9781778520648</p><p><em>Seven </em>Link: https://farzanadoctor.com/seven/</p><p>Interview with Farzana in Season 2: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/the-love-doctor/id1519672109?i=1000536137699</p><p><em>Burnout </em>by Nagoski sisters: https://www.burnoutbook.net/</p><p>Internal Family Systems therapy: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapy-types/internal-family-systems-therapy</p><p><em>Polysecure </em>by Jessica Fern: ​​https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/52569124-polysecure</p><p>Metamour definition: https://www.polydictionary.org/metamour/</p>