<p>In this episode, I sit down with <strong>Bill</strong>, the founder of <strong>Story State Solutions</strong>, a coaching business focused on helping men navigate post-sobriety recovery and helping professionals get unstuck in their personal and professional lives.</p><p>Bill’s message is powerful because it goes beyond sobriety.</p><p>For him, sobriety isn’t the finish line—it’s the starting line.</p><p>With <strong>37 years of sobriety</strong>, a <strong>Level 3 Enlifted certification</strong>, and a background as an ultra-endurance athlete—including preparing for an upcoming <strong>200-mile race through the Sierra Nevada</strong>—Bill has built his life around resilience, ownership, discipline, and movement forward.</p><p>His coaching framework:<br /><strong>Story → State → Actions → Results</strong><br />is designed to help people stop overthinking, get out of their heads, and start taking action.</p><p>This conversation is about recovery, identity, mindset, suffering, purpose, and learning how to turn pain into momentum.</p><ul><li>Bill’s journey through addiction and 37 years of sobriety</li><li>Why sobriety alone doesn’t automatically create fulfillment</li><li>The power of changing the story you tell yourself</li><li>How your emotional state impacts your actions and outcomes</li><li>Why movement and discipline matter for mental health</li><li>The mindset required to endure ultra-endurance races—and life itself</li><li>The idea that life isn’t happening <em>to</em> you, it’s happening <em>through</em> you</li></ul><p>A lot of people believe recovery is about stopping something.</p><p>Bill believes recovery is about becoming someone.</p><p>This episode is for anyone who feels stuck, disconnected, overwhelmed, or trapped inside their own thoughts—and needs a reminder that change starts with action.</p><p>During this episode, we also talk about the upcoming <strong>200-mile Sierra Nevada race fundraiser</strong> supporting <strong>Stay in the Fight</strong>, the mental health charity started in memory of my brother Anthony.</p><p>Being strong doesn’t mean being invincible.<br />It means showing up every single day—even when life hits hard.</p><p>Anthony carried a lot of people while quietly fighting his own battles with mental health. After losing him in 2024, we created <strong>Stay in the Fight</strong> because nobody should have to struggle alone—and nobody should have to skip therapy because they can’t afford it.</p><p>The mission is simple:<br />Provide mental health resources and therapy with <strong>no cost and no barriers</strong>.</p><p>This race is for Anthony.<br />And for everyone still in the fight.</p><p>Finish the Race Apparel: <strong>ftrapparel.com</strong></p><p>Become Stronger Industries: <strong>become-stronger.com</strong></p><p>Support <strong>Stay in the Fight</strong>:<br /><a href="https://www.stayinthefight.am/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://www.stayinthefight.am/</a></p><p>If this episode gave you something valuable, share it with someone who needs to hear it.</p><p>And as always—<strong>go one step further than you thought you could go.</strong></p><p>In this episode, we discuss:Why this episode matters200-Mile Race Fundraiser — Stay in the FightSponsors &amp; Resources</p>

Building Men

Dennis Morolda, Building Men

Episode 232 Bill Matthews: Sobriety Is the Starting Line

MAY 18, 202683 MIN
Building Men

Episode 232 Bill Matthews: Sobriety Is the Starting Line

MAY 18, 202683 MIN

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<p>In this episode, I sit down with <strong>Bill</strong>, the founder of <strong>Story State Solutions</strong>, a coaching business focused on helping men navigate post-sobriety recovery and helping professionals get unstuck in their personal and professional lives.</p><p>Bill’s message is powerful because it goes beyond sobriety.</p><p>For him, sobriety isn’t the finish line—it’s the starting line.</p><p>With <strong>37 years of sobriety</strong>, a <strong>Level 3 Enlifted certification</strong>, and a background as an ultra-endurance athlete—including preparing for an upcoming <strong>200-mile race through the Sierra Nevada</strong>—Bill has built his life around resilience, ownership, discipline, and movement forward.</p><p>His coaching framework:<br /><strong>Story → State → Actions → Results</strong><br />is designed to help people stop overthinking, get out of their heads, and start taking action.</p><p>This conversation is about recovery, identity, mindset, suffering, purpose, and learning how to turn pain into momentum.</p><ul><li>Bill’s journey through addiction and 37 years of sobriety</li><li>Why sobriety alone doesn’t automatically create fulfillment</li><li>The power of changing the story you tell yourself</li><li>How your emotional state impacts your actions and outcomes</li><li>Why movement and discipline matter for mental health</li><li>The mindset required to endure ultra-endurance races—and life itself</li><li>The idea that life isn’t happening <em>to</em> you, it’s happening <em>through</em> you</li></ul><p>A lot of people believe recovery is about stopping something.</p><p>Bill believes recovery is about becoming someone.</p><p>This episode is for anyone who feels stuck, disconnected, overwhelmed, or trapped inside their own thoughts—and needs a reminder that change starts with action.</p><p>During this episode, we also talk about the upcoming <strong>200-mile Sierra Nevada race fundraiser</strong> supporting <strong>Stay in the Fight</strong>, the mental health charity started in memory of my brother Anthony.</p><p>Being strong doesn’t mean being invincible.<br />It means showing up every single day—even when life hits hard.</p><p>Anthony carried a lot of people while quietly fighting his own battles with mental health. After losing him in 2024, we created <strong>Stay in the Fight</strong> because nobody should have to struggle alone—and nobody should have to skip therapy because they can’t afford it.</p><p>The mission is simple:<br />Provide mental health resources and therapy with <strong>no cost and no barriers</strong>.</p><p>This race is for Anthony.<br />And for everyone still in the fight.</p><p>Finish the Race Apparel: <strong>ftrapparel.com</strong></p><p>Become Stronger Industries: <strong>become-stronger.com</strong></p><p>Support <strong>Stay in the Fight</strong>:<br /><a href="https://www.stayinthefight.am/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://www.stayinthefight.am/</a></p><p>If this episode gave you something valuable, share it with someone who needs to hear it.</p><p>And as always—<strong>go one step further than you thought you could go.</strong></p><p>In this episode, we discuss:Why this episode matters200-Mile Race Fundraiser — Stay in the FightSponsors &amp; Resources</p>