<p>In this episode of 'Conversations With Toi,' we're unpacking the idea of 'running a tight program' in relationships. Are we really as in control as we think? We'll also talk about processing grief following the loss of my aunt, and the complexities of navigating a relationship—or the absence of one—with my biological father. </p><p>And with winter on the way, we're wrapping up with some tips on prepping for the upcoming snowstorm—because a little preparation goes a long way. </p><p>Tune in, and don't forget to follow along at <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://toitime.org">toitime.org</a> and on social media @toitimeblog</p>