<p>In this episode of Conversations with Toi, I'm diving into the concept of weaponized incompetence—calling out the ways people use it to dodge responsibilities and how we can set better boundaries. </p><p>We'll also touch on celebrating Black History Month, sharing clear Valentine's Day wishes with your partner, self-care tips for anyone flying solo, and a quick update on my latest adventures with my Hatch. </p><p>Plus, I sprinkled in some thoughts on how big cultural moments—like 50 Cent's Super Bowl DoorDash commercial—get us all talking about what really matters in our relationships and our communities</p><p>Follow me on all socials as Toitimeblog and on the blog itself, <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://www.toitime.org">www.toitime.org</a></p><p></p><p>Not to mention make sure you follow my self care journey on YouTube: <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.youtube.com/@toitimeblog">https://www.youtube.com/@toitimeblog</a></p>