Send us a textIf you’ve set big goals for the year but they already feel like a heavy obligation... or if you’re a leader trying to fix team problems but only finding more frustration... this episode is for you.Today, I sat down with organizational change strategist John Hildebrand to explore why traditional goal setting often fails without a "magnetic vision." We discuss the science behind why goals can become "negative emotional attractors" when they aren't connected to a larger purpose, and how to shift your brain into a state that sustains long-term growth.John shares his personal journey from a status-driven definition of success to one of deep self-discovery. We unpack the difference between "fixing" and "visioneering," the hidden power of Empathy in leadership, and the specific questions you need to ask to bypass your inner critic.You’ll learn:✓ The "Magnetic Vision" Secret: Why setting goals without an inspiring 10-year vision is a recipe for burnout and failure. ✓ Vision Crafting vs. Problem Solving: How to use the "Positive Opposite" approach to focus on what you want to see, rather than obsessing over what’s wrong. ✓ The "Lottery Question": A powerful exercise to silence your practical brain ($500 million tax-free!) and discover what truly lights you up. ✓ Empathy as a Hard Skill: Why this talent is often misunderstood and how it serves as a direct line to building trust in teams. ✓ Living the Questions: Wisdom from poet Rainer Maria Rilke on how to be patient with uncertainty and "live your way" into the answers.Mentioned in this episode:The Science of Change Book by Richard Boyatzis: https://www.amazon.com/s?k=science+of+change+boyatzis&adgrpid=12026 Career Change QuizFeeling successful but quietly restless? Take this short quiz (carefully curated by a career coach)  to evaluate what kind of career change (if any) actually makes sense for you right now.TAKE THE QUIZ Checked all the boxes of success but still feel like something’s missing? My new book, Discovering Your Calling, is a guide for ambitious women ready to stop drifting and build a life of true fulfillment and joy. Your calling is waiting.✨ Get your copy of the Discovering Your Calling book today!   Your calling is waiting! Support the showTake the Career Change Quiz: www.sherimiterco.com/careerquiz Connect or work with Sheri: Book a 30 Minute Clarity Call Website - www.sherimiterco.com Let's be friends on Social Media - @SheriMiter Apply to work with Sheri- Apply Here Searching for Mary Kay products? Shop HereTo learn more about CliftonStrengths and Gallup - Click Here Matthew 5:14-16 is the inspiration for this podcast.Gallup®, Clifton StrengthsFinder®, StrengthsFinder®, the 34 Clifton StrengthsFinder® theme names are trademarks of Gallup, Inc.