In this second episode with my dad, we go way past “how was your week” and straight into the kind of honest, reflective conversation most families wish they could have without someone storming off to fold laundry aggressively.We talk about what it looked like to build a family without a clear “roles and responsibilities” script, how my parents approached parenting with fairness between a daughter and a son, and what my dad believes the real job of parenting is: giving your kids the tools, the grounding, and the freedom to become themselves.Then we get into the deeper stuff.We unpack “broken bird syndrome” and how kids can become distracted by other people’s unmet needs, why co-parents have to share information (especially when something is going on emotionally with a child), and how overparenting can become a well intentioned substitute for getting the right support.I share a story I’ve only pieced together fully as an adult: how a childhood abduction attempt at Disney quietly shaped anxiety patterns later, and why early intervention matters more than we realize. My dad reflects on how easy it is to assume “all’s well that ends well” and miss the downstream impact.We also talk about the moment a parent realizes their child is no longer a little girl, but an independent adult. We revisit pivotal memories (volleyball, church confirmation, and more), how strong will is formed, and how relationships evolve in seasons.This episode is part parenting conversation, part nervous system education, part “it’s never too late to change the model.”You can reach us here:Katie Kovaleski: Website: KatieKovaleski.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/coach_katiek/Work with me: Book your 20 minute connection call here: Let's ConnectWavier & Release of Liability and Disclaimer: The information provided by the therapist(s) is not intended, nor is implied to be a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.  The listener is advised to always seek the  advice of their health care practitioner or other qualified health care provider with questions regarding medical conditions, or the mental health and welfare of the listener. I (listener) accept that Kathryn Kovaleski is not liable for any injury, or damages, to person or property, resulting from listening to this podcast.