Why is Everyone Yelling?

<p>Kenna Valdez is joining me on the podcast today! Kenna is the creator behind the account <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thefliphubb/">@thefliphubb </a>on Instagram. She is your resource for all things DIY, home flips, and furniture flips. So many cool things that she is doing over there including her new home that they had flipped, a house in the woods that is just too cute!</p> <p>Kenna is the mom of three. In this episode, we start the conversation talking about her road to motherhood. She has a severe case of endometreosis and knew that becoming a mom would be challenging. She did end up having two children biologically and then they fostered and adopted their third child. We talk about that a lot in this episode. We also talk about how she started her business, what she is passionate about, how she manages her business and motherhood/family life!</p> <p><strong>What we talked about:</strong></p> <p>5:10- Her infertility experience</p> <p>9:30- Her experience with fostering and adopting</p> <p>16:30- The &#8220;balance&#8221; of parenting and running a business</p> <p>17:45- Her house that she flipped</p> <p>25:15- Getting started with DIY</p> <p>34:00- Her childcare situation and logistics of their family and business</p> <p>41:20- End of podcast questions</p> <p><strong>Show notes:</strong></p> <p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/thefliphubb/">Kenna on Instagram</a></p> <p><em>Book recommendations:</em></p> <p>Remarkably Bright Creatures</p> <p>The Push</p> <p>The Whispers</p> <p><strong>Connect with Lindsey:&nbsp;</strong></p> <p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/lindseyhein626/?hl=en" target="_Blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Lindsey on Instagram</a></p> <p><a href="https://twitter.com/LindseyHein" target="_Blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Lindsey on Twitter</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/illhaveanotherpodcast/" target="_Blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Lindsey on Facebook&nbsp;</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.patreon.com/lindseyhein">Support the I’ll Have Another Podcast on Patreon</a></p> <p><strong>Follow SandyBoy Productions:</strong></p> <p><a href="https://twitter.com/SandyBoyPro">Sandyboy Productions on Twitter</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/sandyboyproductions/">Sandyboy Productions on Instagra</a>m</p> <p><strong>SandyBoy Productions Shows:&nbsp;</strong></p> <p><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/why-is-everyone-yelling/id1533854578">Why is Everyone Yelling?</a></p> <p><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-illuminate-podcast/id1478568941">The Illuminate Podcast</a></p> <p><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-herban-farmacy/id1558435108">The Herban Farmacy Podcast</a></p> <p><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-trail-network-podcast/id1738325869">The Trail Network Podcast</a></p> <p><strong>Sponsors:</strong></p> <p><a href="http://lagoonsleep.com/lindsey">Lagoon</a></p> <p>Use the code “Lindsey” for 15% off your order</p>

<p>I am excited to share my conversation with Hailey Magee. This is a conversation all about communication and setting boundaries and how to stop people pleasing. Big conversation, right? Hailey made it fun and manageable, though!</p> <p>Hailey has a new book out called Stop People Pleasing and Find Your Power! I think there are so many good takeaways from this conversation to help you strengthen your relationships in all areas of your lives! There are many types of communicators and learning about the type of communicator that you are and what type those people are around you is SO important to have healthy and happy relationships. We also talked about when to set a boundary and when to push past what is comfortable for you. I want to live in a world where we can have boundaries and we can show up fully for everyone. </p> <p>This was such a great conversation and I&#8217;m so grateful for all of the work that Hailey is putting out into the world!</p> <p><strong>What we talked about:</strong></p> <p>4:00- Her book launch</p> <p>5:00- How she has ended up in this space of helping others heal their people pleasing tendencies</p> <p>7:10- External versus internal validation&nbsp;</p> <p>8:15- Being a people pleaser</p> <p>9:40- Communication types and how we can use that to understand our own relationships</p> <p>32:10- Deciding when to set boundaries</p> <p>38:00- Giving yourself the space to change your mind</p> <p>44:20- Growth in her business</p> <p>46:20- End of podcast questions</p> <p><strong>Show notes:</strong></p> <p><a href="https://www.haileymagee.com/book">Hailey&#8217;s website</a></p> <p>The Good Enough Job</p> <p><strong>Connect with Lindsey: </strong></p> <p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/lindseyhein626/?hl=en" target="_Blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Lindsey on Instagram</a></p> <p><a href="https://twitter.com/LindseyHein" target="_Blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Lindsey on Twitter</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/illhaveanotherpodcast/" target="_Blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Lindsey on Facebook&nbsp;</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.patreon.com/lindseyhein">Support the I’ll Have Another Podcast on Patreon</a></p> <p><strong>Follow SandyBoy Productions:</strong></p> <p><a href="https://twitter.com/SandyBoyPro">Sandyboy Productions on Twitter</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/sandyboyproductions/">Sandyboy Productions on Instagra</a>m</p> <p><strong>SandyBoy Productions Shows:&nbsp;</strong></p> <p><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/why-is-everyone-yelling/id1533854578">Why is Everyone Yelling?</a></p> <p><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-illuminate-podcast/id1478568941">The Illuminate Podcast</a></p> <p><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-herban-farmacy/id1558435108">The Herban Farmacy Podcast</a></p> <p><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-trail-network-podcast/id1738325869">The Trail Network Podcast</a></p> <p><strong>Sponsors:</strong></p> <p><a href="http://previnex.com/">Previnex</a></p> <p>Use the code “another” for 15% off&nbsp;</p> <p>OR use code “LindseyStrength” for 15% off if you purchase their new Muscle Health Plus</p>

<p>Elise Loehnen is on the podcast today! She is the author of <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Our-Best-Behavior-Seven-Deadly/dp/059324303X">On Our Best Behavior: The Seven Deadly Sins and the Price Women Pay to Be Good</a>. This book weaves together history, memoir, and cultural criticism to explore the ways patriarchy lands in the bodies of women and embeds itself in our consciousness. Elise also hosts the podcast Pulling the Thread. If you are into spirituality at all and are interested in hearing from spiritual elders and wise thinkers those are some really great conversations over there! Elise has co-written/ghost written 12 other books. </p> <p>In this conversation, we focus on raising emotionally healthy boys. This is hard to do because it&#8217;s a cultural thing not just something that happens inside our own homes! We talk about envy, something women tend to struggle with. We talk about how women are givers and why that is. I have a lot of spiritual questions (of course!) I love that this is one of the things that she focuses on in her work and it was so fun to pick her brain!</p> <p>This is a wide-ranging conversation and I had SO much fun chatting with Elise!</p> <p><strong>Show notes:</strong></p> <p><a href="https://www.eliseloehnen.com">Elise&#8217;s Website</a><br><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Our-Best-Behavior-Seven-Deadly/dp/059324303X">Check out Elise&#8217;s book</a></p> <p><em>Book recommendations:</em></p> <p>Falling Upwards</p> <p>The Universal Christ</p> <p>The Wisdom Pattern</p> <p>The Amen Effect</p> <p><strong>Connect with Lindsey:&nbsp;</strong></p> <p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/lindseyhein626/?hl=en" target="_Blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Lindsey on Instagram</a></p> <p><a href="https://twitter.com/LindseyHein" target="_Blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Lindsey on Twitter</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/illhaveanotherpodcast/" target="_Blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Lindsey on Facebook&nbsp;</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.patreon.com/lindseyhein">Support the I’ll Have Another Podcast on Patreon</a></p> <p><strong>Follow SandyBoy Productions:</strong></p> <p><a href="https://twitter.com/SandyBoyPro">Sandyboy Productions on Twitter</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/sandyboyproductions/">Sandyboy Productions on Instagra</a>m</p> <p><strong>SandyBoy Productions Shows:&nbsp;</strong></p> <p><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/why-is-everyone-yelling/id1533854578">Why is Everyone Yelling?</a></p> <p><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-illuminate-podcast/id1478568941">The Illuminate Podcast</a></p> <p><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-herban-farmacy/id1558435108">The Herban Farmacy Podcast</a></p> <p><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-trail-network-podcast/id1738325869">The Trail Network Podcast</a></p> <p><strong>Sponsors:</strong></p> <p><a href="http://previnex.com/">Previnex</a></p> <p>Use the code “another” for 15% off&nbsp;</p> <p>OR use code “LindseyStrength” for 15% off if you purchase their new Muscle Health Plus</p> <p><a href="http://lagoonsleep.com/lindsey">Lagoon</a></p> <p>Use the code “Lindsey” for 15% off your order</p>

<p>Julie Bogart is back on the show today!</p> <p>Julie Bogart has a book called&nbsp;<em><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Critical-Thinkers-Parents-Growing/dp/0593192281/ref=asc_df_0593192281/?tag=hyprod-20&amp;linkCode=df0&amp;hvadid=533525922227&amp;hvpos=&amp;hvnetw=g&amp;hvrand=4922743302686405450&amp;hvpone=&amp;hvptwo=&amp;hvqmt=&amp;hvdev=c&amp;hvdvcmdl=&amp;hvlocint=&amp;hvlocphy=9028752&amp;hvtargid=pla-1394181866040&amp;psc=1">Raising Critical Thinkers</a></em>. Julie is the creator and owner of Brave Writer, an online writing and language arts program.</p> <p>In this episode, we talk about what happens when our hopes and dreams for our kids do not align with their hopes and dreams for themselves. We also talk about motivating our kids to be a successful person without pushing them in one direction or another. We also talk about relationships with adult parents!</p> <p><strong>What we talked about:</strong></p> <p>5:45- Leaning into aging</p> <p>10:45- Hopes and dreams that we have for our kids</p> <p>21:35- Allowing your kids to lead the way as they are following their dreams</p> <p>32:35- Siblings fighting&nbsp;</p> <p>48:00- Relationships with our adult parents</p> <p>58:05- Message to younger generations</p> <p><strong>Show notes:</strong></p> <p><a href="https://bravewriter.com/">BraveWriter.com</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/juliebravewriter/">Julie on Instagram</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Critical-Thinkers-Parents-Growing/dp/0593192281/ref=asc_df_0593192281/?tag=hyprod-20&amp;linkCode=df0&amp;hvadid=533525922227&amp;hvpos=&amp;hvnetw=g&amp;hvrand=4922743302686405450&amp;hvpone=&amp;hvptwo=&amp;hvqmt=&amp;hvdev=c&amp;hvdvcmdl=&amp;hvlocint=&amp;hvlocphy=9028752&amp;hvtargid=pla-1394181866040&amp;psc=1">Julie’s book: Raising Critical Thinkers</a></p> <p><a href="https://sandyboyproductions.com/2023/01/10/episode-117-julie-bogart/">Julie on Episode 117 of the Why is Everyone Yelling? Podcast</a></p> <p><strong>Connect with Lindsey:&nbsp;</strong></p> <p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/lindseyhein626/?hl=en" target="_Blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Lindsey on Instagram</a></p> <p><a href="https://twitter.com/LindseyHein" target="_Blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Lindsey on Twitter</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/illhaveanotherpodcast/" target="_Blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Lindsey on Facebook&nbsp;</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/1193852490731885/?ref=bookmarks">Join the I’ll Have Another Facebook Group</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.patreon.com/lindseyhein">Support the I’ll Have Another Podcast on Patreon</a></p> <p><strong>Follow SandyBoy Productions:</strong></p> <p><a href="https://twitter.com/SandyBoyPro">Sandyboy Productions on Twitter</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/sandyboyproductions/">Sandyboy Productions on Instagra</a>m</p> <p><strong>SandyBoy Productions Shows:&nbsp;</strong></p> <p><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/why-is-everyone-yelling/id1533854578">Why is Everyone Yelling?</a></p> <p><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-illuminate-podcast/id1478568941">The Illuminate Podcast</a></p> <p><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-herban-farmacy/id1558435108">The Herban Farmacy Podcast</a></p> <p><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ready-to-run/id1611109506">The Ready to Run Podcast</a></p> <p><strong>Sponsors:</strong></p> <p><a href="http://helloskincare.com/">Hello Skincare</a></p> <p>Use code “LindseyH20” for 20% off of your order</p>

<p>Julie Bogart has a book called&nbsp;<em><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Critical-Thinkers-Parents-Growing/dp/0593192281/ref=asc_df_0593192281/?tag=hyprod-20&amp;linkCode=df0&amp;hvadid=533525922227&amp;hvpos=&amp;hvnetw=g&amp;hvrand=4922743302686405450&amp;hvpone=&amp;hvptwo=&amp;hvqmt=&amp;hvdev=c&amp;hvdvcmdl=&amp;hvlocint=&amp;hvlocphy=9028752&amp;hvtargid=pla-1394181866040&amp;psc=1">Raising Critical Thinkers</a>&nbsp;</em>which is mainly what we talked about in this episode. We chat not only about raising critical thinkers but also how to be critical thinkers ourselves. Julie provides passionate &amp; compassionate exploration of what critical thinking is and how to hone this vital skill set in our children.</p> <p>Julie is the mother of 5 grown children and has so much wisdom to share in this episode! We had such a candid conversation about how to think for ourselves in a world where information is constantly being thrown in our direction.</p> <p><strong>What we talked about:</strong></p> <p>2:55- Introduction to Julie</p> <p>6:00- Becoming critical thinkers</p> <p>11:30- Teaching our kids how to become critical thinkers</p> <p>19:00- Critical thinking at school</p> <p>21:20- Allowing your kids to make critical decisions for themselves</p> <p>25:40- Entering into conversations with people that we don’t agree with</p> <p>37:35- Religion while raising kids</p> <p>44:50- Divorce</p> <p>52:30- End of podcast questions</p> <p><strong>Show notes:</strong></p> <p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Accidental-Universe-World-Thought-Knew/dp/034580595X/ref=sr_1_1?gclid=CjwKCAiA8OmdBhAgEiwAShr408k0v6hsKBcn-2RwqpShHuNzuIhIcHF51milTYqTFNYQDgkTJf23WBoCtsAQAvD_BwE&amp;hvadid=241646774789&amp;hvdev=c&amp;hvlocphy=9028752&amp;hvnetw=g&amp;hvqmt=e&amp;hvrand=12041453255831831821&amp;hvtargid=kwd-499981937032&amp;hydadcr=3178_10391046&amp;keywords=accidental+universe&amp;qid=1673227270&amp;sr=8-1">The Accidental Universe</a></p> <p><a href="https://bravewriter.com/">BraveWriter.com</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/juliebravewriter/">Julie on Instagram</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Critical-Thinkers-Parents-Growing/dp/0593192281/ref=asc_df_0593192281/?tag=hyprod-20&amp;linkCode=df0&amp;hvadid=533525922227&amp;hvpos=&amp;hvnetw=g&amp;hvrand=4922743302686405450&amp;hvpone=&amp;hvptwo=&amp;hvqmt=&amp;hvdev=c&amp;hvdvcmdl=&amp;hvlocint=&amp;hvlocphy=9028752&amp;hvtargid=pla-1394181866040&amp;psc=1">Julie’s book: Raising Critical Thinkers</a></p> <p><strong>Connect with Lindsey:&nbsp;</strong></p> <p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/lindseyhein626/?hl=en" target="_Blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Lindsey on Instagram</a></p> <p><a href="https://twitter.com/LindseyHein" target="_Blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Lindsey on Twitter</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/illhaveanotherpodcast/" target="_Blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Lindsey on Facebook&nbsp;</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/1193852490731885/?ref=bookmarks">Join the I’ll Have Another Facebook Group</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.patreon.com/lindseyhein">Support the I’ll Have Another Podcast on Patreon</a></p> <p><strong>Follow SandyBoy Productions:</strong></p> <p><a href="https://twitter.com/SandyBoyPro">Sandyboy Productions on Twitter</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/sandyboyproductions/">Sandyboy Productions on Instagra</a>m</p> <p><strong>SandyBoy Productions Shows:&nbsp;</strong></p> <p><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/why-is-everyone-yelling/id1533854578">Why is Everyone Yelling?</a></p> <p><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-illuminate-podcast/id1478568941">The Illuminate Podcast</a></p> <p><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-herban-farmacy/id1558435108">The Herban Farmacy Podcast</a></p> <p><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ready-to-run/id1611109506">The Ready to Run Podcast</a></p> <p><strong>Sponsors:</strong></p> <p><a href="http://goodr.com/">Goodr</a></p> <p>Use code “Lindsey15” for 15% off your order</p>