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This week's Mojo Monday episode is a poignant reminder that life is short, and the way we spend our time is crucial. Carly shares a heartwarming story about a lunch date with their dad, who's 88 years young, and the wisdom he imparted to their 20-year-old daughter. This conversation sparks a reflection on how we often get caught up in the daily grind and forget to cherish the present moment. As we navigate our busy lives, it's easy to lose sight of what truly matters. Carly invites us to take a step back and consider how we're spending our time. This episode encourages us to take a closer look at our values and how they align with our daily habits. Carly also shares a powerful exercise that helps us reflect on our time usage and identify areas for improvement.   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Are you stuck in a cycle of overthinking and information overload, unsure how to move forward? In this episode, I chat with Tamsin Simmons as she shares her journey from healthcare management to becoming a leadership coach and author, emphasising the power of the experiment mindset to create meaningful change. Discover how testing small, process-focused experiments can lead you toward your true goals and improve both personal and organisational performance. Key Takeaways The concept of the experiment mindset and its application across areas of life Imposter syndrome: transforming it into a growth opportunity rather than a barrier The importance of focusing on processes over outcomes in behaviour change The three levers of behavior change: environment, psychology, and physiology Practical strategies for designing and running personal experiments The pitfalls of information overload and the “procrastination tools” of consuming content without applying it How organisational incentives and environment influence behaviour, both positively and negatively The role of curiosity and a growth mindset in sustaining motivation and joy The universality of the experiment mindset beyond workplace leadership, including health and personal development   Timestamps:04:44 - Imposter syndrome: from challenge to growth tool06:56 - How perceptions of imposter syndrome evolve with experience09:02 - Why the experiment mindset encourages resilience and growth11:03 - The motivation behind writing The Experiment Mindset13:09 - Changes in leadership and organisational behaviour over the last decade14:43 - The failures of piecemeal workplace wellness strategies16:15 - Moving from knowledge to action: tackling the knowing-doing gap18:42 - Why high-quality information can become a barrier when misused20:11 - The importance of treating yourself as your own experiment 22:40 - Real-world example: personal experimentation with diet and health26:11 - Understanding individual responses to health interventions28:37 - Limiting biases in personal experiments and avoiding confirmation bias30:36 - The three levers of behaviour change: environment, psychology, physiology32:24 - How incentives and environment influence organisational and personal behaviour34:43 - Rethinking outcome-based performance for better wellbeing and results36:26 - The role of physiology and physical capacity in high performance37:36 - The impact of environment on physiology and psychology39:17 - Simple nutritional strategies for sustained energy and performance41:16 - Designing meaningful experiments: aligning with your top-level goals43:04 - Managing big change by setting realistic, incremental goals45:06 - Focusing on process over outcome to foster resilience and curiosity47:35 - The power of curiosity and scientific thinking in everyday experiments48:04 - Applying the experiment mindset beyond work: health, relationships, and life49:46 - Overcoming information overload and “constipation” in decision-making   Resources Tamsin’s book The Experiment Mindset Website: https://www.tamsinsimounds.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tamsinkate Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tamsinsimounds Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/tamsinkatesimounds   Support the Podcast If you found this conversation valuable, consider subscribing and leaving a review on your preferred podcast platform. Your feedback helps us continue to bring you insightful discussions on important health topics.    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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In this episode, I chat with Dr. Jeremy Thompson as we delve into the complexities of identity and mental health. We explore how early life experiences shape our self-perception and the importance of understanding one's true self. Jeremy shares insights from his extensive experience in family medicine and psychological medicine, emphasising the need to separate negative self-perceptions from one's core identity. The conversation touches on the impact of societal labels, the role of upbringing in mental health, and practical approaches to fostering a positive self-image. Key Takeaways Self-identity as a dynamic, compartmentalised system                                                      People’s sense of self is best understood as a mix of core positives and externalised negatives, which should be separated rather than conflated. Childhood trauma’s impact is modifiable through focused reframing                                      Traumatic childhood experiences leave lasting imprints, but their influence can be softened by actively re-examining and challenging negative beliefs formed early on. Authentic self-awareness guides positive choices over societal expectations                Aligning daily actions with one’s true self and natural inclinations, rather than external pressures or shoulds, promotes genuine well-being. Labelling mental health issues risks entrenching identities over understanding                 Applying diagnostic labels too readily risks turning complex mental states into fixed identities, which can hinder recovery and self-growth. Cultivating inner energy through awareness enhances alignment with true self               Attuning to moments of positive energy signals alignment with your authentic inclinations, serving as a compass for satisfying pursuits. The oversimplification of mental health through excessive diagnoses dilutes treatment efficacy                                                                                                                                            The proliferation of mental health diagnoses, many wishy-washy and overlapping, obscures understanding and can lead to self-labelling that hampers progress. The balance of nurturing positive traits while managing negatives is central to resilient identity                                                                                                                                        Strong resilience arises from affirming and cultivating your best qualities while consciously managing and externalising negative forces.   Time Stamps 02:57 Understanding Mental Health and Chronic Stress 06:02 The Importance of Identity in Mental Health 08:53 The Impact of Adverse Childhood Experiences 12:08 The Mixed Bag Concept of Self-Identity 14:53 Building Positive Relationships and Resilience 18:00 The Role of Mental Health Professionals 21:08 Reflecting on Childhood Experiences 23:55 Values, Virtues, and the Real Self 28:46 Understanding Personal Desires vs. Societal Expectations 32:00 The Complexity of Human Nature and Selfishness 34:55 The Dangers of Labels and Identity 38:18 Finding Your True Self and Identity 42:31 Navigating Change and Personal Growth 46:59 The Role of Identity in Health and Well-being   Resources Dr Jeremy Thompson’s new book: https://www.amazon.com.au/Understand-Your-Identity-Jeremy-Thompson/dp/1636986277/ Website - https://understandyourtrueidentity.com/ LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-thompson-41a47969/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/DrJeremyThompson   Support the Podcast If you found this conversation valuable, consider subscribing and leaving a review on your preferred podcast platform. Your feedback helps us continue to bring you insightful discussions on important health topics.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.