<description>&lt;p&gt;Is your marriage falling apart? Are you feeling the weight of unresolved issues, constant bickering, or that nagging distance between you and your partner? You’re not alone, and we’re here to help!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In this episode of &lt;em&gt;Your Biggest Breakthrough&lt;/em&gt;, we dive deep into the challenges that can strain even the strongest relationships. Drawing from our personal experiences and insights, we’ll help you identify the warning signs that your relationship might be in trouble and offer practical, biblical solutions to turn things around.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;We’ll talk about common pitfalls couples face—like self-centeredness, withdrawal, and the little pet peeves that can snowball into bigger issues. But don’t worry! This isn’t just a list of problems; we’re all about solutions. We’ll guide you through actionable steps to reignite the spark in your marriage, from rekindling romance to fostering open communication.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Whether you’re in a tough spot right now or want to strengthen your relationship, this episode is packed with encouragement, inspiration, and real talk that can lead to genuine breakthroughs. So grab a cup of coffee, lean in, and explore how you can restore joy and connection in your marriage. You won’t want to miss this!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Chapters:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;[00:00] Podcast Preview&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;[00:50] Podcast Introduction&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;[01:37] Books on Relationships&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;[02:03] When Marriages Fall Apart&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;[03:03] Symptoms of Troubled Relationships&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;[05:14] Arguing and Bickering&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;[06:47] Withdrawal and Silent Treatment&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;[07:33] Self-Centered Interests and Hobbies&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;[08:56] Pet Peeves and Small Annoyances&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;[09:51] Unresolved Issues and Resentment&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;[10:35] Recognizing Warning Signs&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;[11:07] Spiritual Disconnect&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Reasons Relationships Fall Apart:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;[11:35] Forgetting What Brought You Together&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;[13:34] Taking Each Other for Granted&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;[17:53] Preoccupation with Personal Interests&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;[19:01] Belittling and Name Calling&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;[21:00] Unresolved Conflicts and Resentment&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;[22:35] Listening to Lies About Happiness Elsewhere&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;[23:55] Drifting Away from God&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;[24:44] Control Issues in Marriage&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;What to Do When Relationships Fall Apart&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;[25:33] Reflecting on What Brought You Together&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;[26:43] Showing Love and Appreciation&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;[27:57] Forgiveness&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;[29:38] Reigniting Play and Romance&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;[30:16] Relying on God's Strength&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;[33:29] Seeking Wise Counsel&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;[34:12] Closing Thoughts&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;[37:21] Personal Experiences with Broken Marriages&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;[38:00] Offering Support and Prayer&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;[38:52] Conclusion and Call to Action&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Resources mentioned:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.yourbiggestbreakthrough.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;FREE Unstoppable Ebook and Audiobook&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Call to action:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Make sure to visit &lt;a href="https://yourbiggestbreakthrough.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;yourbiggestbreakthrough.com&lt;/a&gt; for your &lt;strong&gt;FREE &lt;/strong&gt;access to our e-book and audiobook, "&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Unstoppable: Divine Intervention in Overcoming Adversity&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;," showcasing six powerful real-life stories. Get ready to be inspired by these mind-blowing breakthroughs!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;To learn more about Wendie and her Visibly Fit program, visit &lt;a href="about:blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;wendiepett.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;To find out more about Todd and his coaching program for men, find him on the web at &lt;a href="about:blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;toddisberner.com&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;All the links you need to subscribe to the podcast are at both our websites! And if you feel so inclined, we'd be honored if you were to leave a rating and review of our show. It definitely helps with us being more visible to more people.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;And if we like it, we might just read your review on the podcast!&lt;/p&gt;</description>

Your Biggest Breakthrough

Wendie Pett, ND and Todd Isberner

Episode 148: When Marriages Fall Apart: Signs, Causes, and How to Fix Relationship Issues

SEP 24, 202439 MIN
Your Biggest Breakthrough

Episode 148: When Marriages Fall Apart: Signs, Causes, and How to Fix Relationship Issues

SEP 24, 202439 MIN

Description

Is your marriage falling apart? Are you feeling the weight of unresolved issues, constant bickering, or that nagging distance between you and your partner? You’re not alone, and we’re here to help!

In this episode of Your Biggest Breakthrough, we dive deep into the challenges that can strain even the strongest relationships. Drawing from our personal experiences and insights, we’ll help you identify the warning signs that your relationship might be in trouble and offer practical, biblical solutions to turn things around.

We’ll talk about common pitfalls couples face—like self-centeredness, withdrawal, and the little pet peeves that can snowball into bigger issues. But don’t worry! This isn’t just a list of problems; we’re all about solutions. We’ll guide you through actionable steps to reignite the spark in your marriage, from rekindling romance to fostering open communication.

Whether you’re in a tough spot right now or want to strengthen your relationship, this episode is packed with encouragement, inspiration, and real talk that can lead to genuine breakthroughs. So grab a cup of coffee, lean in, and explore how you can restore joy and connection in your marriage. You won’t want to miss this!

Chapters:

[00:00] Podcast Preview

[00:50] Podcast Introduction

[01:37] Books on Relationships

[02:03] When Marriages Fall Apart

[03:03] Symptoms of Troubled Relationships

[05:14] Arguing and Bickering

[06:47] Withdrawal and Silent Treatment

[07:33] Self-Centered Interests and Hobbies

[08:56] Pet Peeves and Small Annoyances

[09:51] Unresolved Issues and Resentment

[10:35] Recognizing Warning Signs

[11:07] Spiritual Disconnect

Reasons Relationships Fall Apart:

[11:35] Forgetting What Brought You Together

[13:34] Taking Each Other for Granted

[17:53] Preoccupation with Personal Interests

[19:01] Belittling and Name Calling

[21:00] Unresolved Conflicts and Resentment

[22:35] Listening to Lies About Happiness Elsewhere

[23:55] Drifting Away from God

[24:44] Control Issues in Marriage

What to Do When Relationships Fall Apart

[25:33] Reflecting on What Brought You Together

[26:43] Showing Love and Appreciation

[27:57] Forgiveness

[29:38] Reigniting Play and Romance

[30:16] Relying on God's Strength

[33:29] Seeking Wise Counsel

[34:12] Closing Thoughts

[37:21] Personal Experiences with Broken Marriages

[38:00] Offering Support and Prayer

[38:52] Conclusion and Call to Action


Resources mentioned:

FREE Unstoppable Ebook and Audiobook


Call to action:

Make sure to visit yourbiggestbreakthrough.com for your FREE access to our e-book and audiobook, "Unstoppable: Divine Intervention in Overcoming Adversity," showcasing six powerful real-life stories. Get ready to be inspired by these mind-blowing breakthroughs!

To learn more about Wendie and her Visibly Fit program, visit wendiepett.com

To find out more about Todd and his coaching program for men, find him on the web at toddisberner.com.

All the links you need to subscribe to the podcast are at both our websites! And if you feel so inclined, we'd be honored if you were to leave a rating and review of our show. It definitely helps with us being more visible to more people.

And if we like it, we might just read your review on the podcast!