Send us Fan MailWhat happens when the chapter of hands-on parenting starts to shift  and suddenly you have space to ask, who am I now? This week I'm joined by Rebecca Greene, social worker, parent coach, and host of the Whinypalooza podcast, for an honest, warm, and often hilarious conversation about the evolving journey of parenting teenagers, rediscovering your identity, and the quiet work of a long marriage.Rebecca's three kids are each teaching her something different about letting go. With Max newly off to college, we explore what it really means to grow up alongside your children, and why the first child is always the guinea pig.In this episode, we talk about:Why parenting is a relationship, not a role,  and what changes when you start treating it that wayThe elastic band of letting go: how capable kids become when we step backReclaiming your identity after 20 years of putting yourself on the back burnerMarriage lessons from 21 years with Seth, including why pausing before you speak might be the most underrated relationship skillThe emotional vs. physical conflict types (and why opposites always seem to find each other)Love languages in real life: why acts of service land differently for different peopleIgnoring outside pressure and tuning into your own family's valuesWhy fear sits at the heart of most parenting struggles — and how self-care connects you to deeper intuition about your kidsRebecca's parting wisdom is simple and powerful: when we focus on our own nervous system and keep ourselves in a good state, we show up better for everyone around us.Rebecca Greene received her Bachelor’s degree in psychology and her Master’s degree in social work.  Rebecca is a social worker, blogger, vlogger, podcaster and author. Connect with Rebecca: Visit her websiteThe Whinypaluza Facebook GroupRebecca's PodcastYoutubeEnjoyed this episode? Subscribe, leave a review, Christina Fletcher is a Spiritual Alignment coach, energy worker, author, speaker and host of the podcast Showing Up Whole.She specialises in practical spirituality and integrating inner work with outer living, so you can get self development off of the hobby shelf and integrated as a powerful fuel to your life. Through mindset, spiritual connection, intuitive guidance, manifestation, and mindfulness techniques Christina helps her clients overcome overwhelm and shame to find a place of flow, ease, and deep heart-centered connection.Christina has been a spiritual alignment coach, healer and spiritually aware parent coach for 11 years and trained in Therapeutic Touch 12 years ago.  She is also a meditation teacher and speaker. For more information please visit her website www.spirituallyawareliving.com Want to uncover where you need the most energy alignment? Take her new Energy Alignment Quiz to identify which of your energetic worlds (mind, body, heart or spirit) needs aligning the most! Or Follow her on her social media accounts:FacebookInstagramorLinkedin...