<p>Subscribe to Dostcast Clips:</p><p>https://www.youtube.com/@dostcastclips?sub_confirmation=1</p><p><br></p><p>Listen to Dostcast on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/70vrbHeSvrcXyOeISTyBSy?si=be05dbdd564245d9</p><p><br></p><p>Join the Dostcast Janta Party on WhatsApp for regular updates: https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029VbAZwo5D8SDs5kf94N3T</p><p><br></p><p>Want to suggest a guest?</p><p><br></p><p>Fill this form: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1ft_-1QDs7XpsSWnaPOeF21yUlhk9bzKvwHSyh4hHfBU/edit?usp=drivesdk</p><p><br></p><p>====================================================================</p><p><br></p><p>Shobhaa De is an iconic Indian columnist, author, and social commentator, renowned for her bold and insightful perspectives on relationships, sexuality, and modern life. With a career spanning decades, she has fearlessly explored the nuances of desire, intimacy, and authenticity.</p><p><br></p><p>In this episode, Vinamre and Shobhaa discuss:</p><p><br></p><p>- Sex playlists, classical music, and the theatre of lovemaking</p><p>- The art of being a suitor and the beauty of long letters</p><p>- Sensuality vs. sexuality and the forgotten art of kissing</p><p>- Fantasy, commitment, and the crisis of authenticity in modern love</p><p>- Why women often perform sex as a duty</p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p>Follow Shobhaa De: </p><p>Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shobhaade/</p><p>X: https://x.com/DeShobhaa</p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p>Timestamps </p><p><br></p><p>0:00 Coming Up</p><p>1:08 Sex Playlists and Classical Music</p><p>9:18 How to Be a Suitor</p><p>11:28 The Beauty of Letters</p><p>16:21 How She Grew Up</p><p>18:08 Why Writing Long Messages is Better</p><p>20:08 Fantasy, Commitment, and Rejection</p><p>25:28 The Crisis of Authenticity</p><p>30:03 The Relation Between Food and Love</p><p>40:28 The Theatre of Lovemaking is Missing</p><p>47:28 Sensuality vs. Sexuality</p><p>54:18 The Art of Kissing</p><p>59:38 Women Performing Sex as a Duty</p><p>1:02:13 Fantasy, Infidelity, and Marriage</p><p>1:07:38 Closure</p><p>1:09:38 How Writing Would Change People</p><p>1:17:28 The Art of Writing Professionally</p><p>1:22:38 Journaling</p><p>1:25:48 Conclusion</p><p><br></p><p>====================================================================</p><p><br></p><p>Vinamre Kasanaa is a writer at heart, podcaster and entrepreneur by craft.</p><p>He spends a significant part of his time reading and researching.</p><p>With over 500 podcasts under his belt, he’s interviewed everyone—from HNIs and industry leaders to everyday superheroes.</p><p><br></p><p>Follow Vinamre:</p><p><br></p><p>LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/vinamre-kasanaa-b8524496/</p><p>Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vinamrekasanaa/</p><p>Twitter: https://twitter.com/VinamreKasanaa</p><p><br></p><p>Dostcast: </p><p>Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dostcast/</p><p>Twitter: https://twitter.com/dostcast</p><p><br></p><p>====================================================================</p><p><br></p><p>Contact Us:</p><p>For business inquiries: [email protected]</p>