<p>I often wonder, what is it about me that I don't want to do more than he is doing or expend more energy than him in this marriage? Why am I protecting myself from going all out or all in despite how he is showing up or what he is doing? This episode is jut the tip of the iceberg for more conversation to come as we unpack why I and Maybe why you are keeping score in your marriage. Let's get into it...</p>