Make It, You Have It.

Most African men grow up in an environment that equates being a father to a man who can impregnate. A 15yrs young boy is a father because he has a child. I celebrate the African father who defies the order, gets laughed at just because he takes care of his home, wife and children, and does things unnatural to an African man.

"The rich and the poor have this in common— the LORD created both of them". (Proverbs 22:2) Giving is not a ritual of the rich neither receiving of the poor. It is a constant expressing of an action approved of and exemplifies all that we have received, keep receiving and yet to receive from God.

She is sitted on the royal throne of excellence. She is the greatest treasure to find and the best thing to have. Adorn with wisdom she builds her home, with understanding she keeps and preserve all that is in it. Her warm embrace is like the setting of the sun, it's overwhelming.

I know you're scared to be you. You think showing up looking like everybody, helps you fit in. Who in their right mind would want to go against popular opinions? Against what seems normal. You have to be unashamed of the beauty that lies within you to live proudly, without settling for less.

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We make it sound like a very simple question that demands a simple answer. But what if the answer is a completed one that needs time and space to let out? How willing are we to give our time to not only listen but try to do a little something? How willing are we to care for those that need our attention? Do we ask because it's a sociable thing to do? Or maybe, because we are interested in knowing what's happening in someone else life?   If we don't have time to listen, the heart to care enough, the room to welcome people so we share in their joy and pain then, why do we ask....              H O W     A R E    Y O U ?