What if growth isn't about grinding harder, but carrying less? In this episode, we explore Joseph's surprising blueprint for success: first, name your pain to release its hold, then build from a place of freedom. By examining why Menashe ("God made me forget") precedes Ephraim ("God made me fruitful"), we uncover a timeless principle that turns spiritual insight into daily strategy.We bridge this ancient narrative with lived experience. The Sforno interprets "forgetting" as the ultimate release from past troubles—a capacity we all possess but seldom use. Rambam takes this further, describing repentance (teshuvah) as the act of becoming "a different person," breaking the cycle that keeps us tethered to yesterday's failures. We'll apply this to real-world scenarios: the difficult client you still resent, the project that imploded, the habit you can't seem to break. The aim isn't amnesia; it's the disciplined choice to stop letting the past dictate your next move.You will leave with a clear, actionable approach: hold onto your principles, but drop the baggage. Cultivate a short memory where it serves you, like an athlete who takes the eleventh shot with the same confidence as the first, despite missing the previous ten. Crowd out rumination with forward-pulling goals and redirect your focus to where it truly belongs—the work that bears fruit. Detachment precedes growth, not because the pain wasn't real, but because your future cannot flourish while the past occupies center stage.Ready to travel lighter and build stronger? Listen now, subscribe for more practical Torah wisdom, and share with us: What are you choosing to set down today?Support the showJoin The Motivation Congregation WhatsApp community for daily motivational Torah content!------------------Check out our other Torah Podcasts and content! SUBSCRIBE to The Motivation Congregation Podcast for daily motivational Mussar! Listen on Spotify or 24six! Find all Torah talks and listen to featured episodes on our website, themotivationcongregation.org Questions or Comments? Please email me @ [email protected]