Centered with Abby
Centered with Abby

Centered with Abby

Abby Ilardi Lowry

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Centered with Abby is the mindfulness‑meets‑somatics podcast for anyone tired of living on autopilot. Every other week you’ll get a calming mini‑retreat—guided breath, gentle yoga, journaling, and more—to pause, reset, and reduce stress. On alternate weeks Abby reads her “Deep Talk” essays, offering a blend of psychology, philosophy, and practical tools for crafting a vivid life of meaning and purpose. Hosted by licensed psychotherapist, yoga‑somatics instructor, and embodied arts facilitator Abby Ilardi Lowry, this show helps you stay centered, creative, and fully alive amid modern chaos. www.centeredwithabby.com

Recent Episodes

Mini-Retreat: What if You're Already Enough?
OCT 4, 2025
Mini-Retreat: What if You're Already Enough?
<p>What if you’re already enough—exactly as you are?</p><p>Today’s mini-retreat is a companion to last week’s essay (which you can find <a target="_blank" href="https://mindbodymaven.substack.com/p/what-if-youre-already-enough">here</a>).</p><p>Set up a cozy corner with a blanket and warm drink of choice and join me for a brief practice that blends mindful movement, breath, and reflection. We’ll begin by dropping into the present, exploring a brief movement practice that you can tailor to your energy today. From there, I’ll read a short essay and invite you to notice what arises—thoughts, sensations, memories—without judgment.</p><p>We’ll close with a simple mantra meditation you can carry into your day:</p><p><strong>I am doing enough. I have enough. I am enough.</strong></p><p>If you want to go deeper, last week’s post includes the full essay written out plus some journaling prompts to help you explore how “enoughness” might feel in your body and your life. Try keeping the mantra on a sticky note where you’ll see it often, and notice what shifts when you move through your day from this place.</p><p><strong>If this resonated:</strong> share it with a friend, leave a comment with what came up for you, and subscribe for future mini-retreats.</p><p>References & links</p><p>* YouTube: <a target="_blank" href="https://www.youtube.com/@somasongwellness">SomaSong Wellness</a></p><p>* Instagram: <a target="_blank" href="https://www.instagram.com/awakenwithabby">@</a>centeredwithabby • <a target="_blank" href="https://www.instagram.com/somasongwellness">@somasongwellness</a></p><p>* Other Substack: <a target="_blank" href="https://singingsomatics.substack.com">singingsomatics.substack.com</a></p><p>* <strong>Website:</strong> <a target="_blank" href="https://abby-ilardi.kit.com/somasong?_gl=1*11ss08r*_gcl_au*Njc2NDIwMjE2LjE3NTU4MDU4NjcuMTI3MzcyODYwMi4xNzU4MzEwMjkxLjE3NTgzMTAzNDI.">abbyilardi.com</a></p><p>About Your Host</p><p>Abby is a psychotherapist, yoga teacher, and creator of Centered with Abby and SomaSong. Her work blends psychology, somatic therapy, yoga, and expressive arts to help people care for their inner world and rediscover a life of presence and wonder.</p><p>This is for educational purposes only and is not intended to be construed as psychotherapy or medical advice. If you are struggling and need someone to talk to, call or text your local help line (<strong>988</strong> in the U.S.) for immediate support.</p><p></p> <br/><br/>Get full access to Centered with Abby at <a href="https://www.centeredwithabby.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&#38;utm_campaign=CTA_4">www.centeredwithabby.com/subscribe</a>
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Autumn Equinox Mini-Retreat: Finding Balance
SEP 19, 2025
Autumn Equinox Mini-Retreat: Finding Balance
<p>Hello and welcome to this week’s Centered with Abby mini-retreat.</p><p>These retreats are designed to help you create a ritual of self-care—a routine that invites you to pause from daily life, check in, reset, nourish your nervous system, and move forward with more intention. Practice anytime from the comfort of your home, and come as you are—whatever you’re bringing in today is welcome here.</p><p>Before getting started, I encourage you to take some time to get cozy and set your space. You’ll get the most out of this if you carve out some intentional time. Limit distractions, silence notifications, and consider a small ritual to mark the beginning—brew a cup of tea, light a candle or twinkle lights, diffuse some essential oils or incense, or do any other quick practice that signals to yourself that this time is special. Our brains love ritual, so repeating these little opening rituals helps your system drop in more quickly in the future.</p><p><strong>Theme:</strong> This retreat is inspired by the autumn equinox in the Northern Hemisphere. As we move into a time of equal daylight and darkness, we are reminded to find balance. Today we’ll explore the lessons of the equinox and examine what balance means in our bodies, breath, and lives.</p><p>What you’ll experience</p><p>* A gentle centering to arrive in your body and your space</p><p>* Breath awareness and even-count breathing (inhale/exhale balanced)</p><p>* Optional box breathing</p><p>* Somatic, balancing movement practice</p><p>* A reflective journaling prompt to integrate your insights</p><p>A note on autonomy & safety</p><p>Everything I offer is a suggestion, not a mandate. Please adapt or rest anytime—this is your practice.</p><p>Journal prompt to take with you</p><p><strong>What aspects of your life feel out of balance right now?</strong> Consider work/school, rest, friendships, family, romance, your relationship with yourself, self-care, health, mental health, spirituality, creativity, and play.</p><p>What would balance look and feel like? <strong>Name 1–3 small actions</strong> that would move you toward it this week.</p><p>If this resonated</p><p>* <strong>Subscribe</strong> to get future mini-retreats and somatic practices in your inbox.</p><p>* <strong>Listen & share</strong> this episode with someone who could use a reset.</p><p>* <strong>Follow on IG:</strong> @centeredwithabby</p><p>* <strong>Website:</strong> abbyilardi.com</p><p>* <strong>SomaSong Method & courses:</strong> learn how to use singing/toning/humming and somatics to build nervous system resilience. Find us at @somasongwellness on Youtube and Instagram and singingsomatics.substack.com. You can also join our email list to be the first to know when our upcoming course drops. (<a target="_blank" href="https://abby-ilardi.kit.com/somasong?_gl=1*11ss08r*_gcl_au*Njc2NDIwMjE2LjE3NTU4MDU4NjcuMTI3MzcyODYwMi4xNzU4MzEwMjkxLjE3NTgzMTAzNDI.">Join Here</a>).</p><p>About Your Host</p><p>Abby is a licensed professional counselor, somatic therapist, yoga teacher, and creator of Centered with Abby and SomaSong. Her work blends psychology, somatic therapy, yoga, and expressive arts to help people care for their inner world and rediscover a life of presence and wonder.</p><p>This is for educational purposes only and is not intended to be construed as psychotherapy or medical advice. If you are struggling and need someone to talk to, call or text your local help line (<strong>988</strong> in the U.S.) for immediate support.</p> <br/><br/>Get full access to Centered with Abby at <a href="https://www.centeredwithabby.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&#38;utm_campaign=CTA_4">www.centeredwithabby.com/subscribe</a>
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23 MIN
Balm for a Broken World
SEP 13, 2025
Balm for a Broken World
<p>Episode summary</p><p>A two-part episode: first, a read-aloud of my essay <strong>“Balm for a Broken World”</strong>—naming that <em>compassion is not endorsement</em> and setting this space as one of solace and care. Then, a brief, trauma-informed loving-kindness (<em>mettā</em>) practice to steady the nervous system and widen care <strong>alongside</strong> accountability.</p><p>What’s inside</p><p><strong>Essay reading:</strong> reflections on dehumanization, self-compassion, and holding care with clear boundaries</p><p><strong>Guided practice:</strong> adaptable loving-kindness meditation</p><p><strong>Trauma-informed options:</strong> change the words, keep eyes open, skip any step, pause anytime</p><p>A note on lineage:</p><p>Loving-kindness (<em>mettā</em>; Sanskrit: <em>maitrī</em>) is a classic heart practice from the Buddhist tradition (see the Karaṇīya Mettā Sutta) and is widely used in secular mindfulness today. This version is shortened and adapted for accessibility.</p><p>This is for educational purposes only and is not intended to be construed as psychotherapy or medical advice. If you are struggling and need someone to talk to, call or text your local help line (<strong>988</strong> in the U.S.) for immediate support.</p><p>Links & resources:</p><p>Substack Community: www.centeredwithabby.com</p><p>Abby's personal website: www.abbyilardi.com</p><p>Share & support:</p><p>If this helped, forward it to someone who needs a soft landing today. And make sure you're subscribed so you don't miss any upcoming essays, podcasts, practices, or tools.</p><p><strong>Credits</strong>Guidance & reading: Abby Ilardi (Centered with Abby / SomaSong)Music: <em>[Meditation Relaxing Music]</em> by <em>[DanaMusic]</em> — <em>[Pixabay]</em></p> <br/><br/>Get full access to Centered with Abby at <a href="https://www.centeredwithabby.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&#38;utm_campaign=CTA_4">www.centeredwithabby.com/subscribe</a>
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21 MIN
Mini-Retreat: September Reflect & Reset
SEP 4, 2025
Mini-Retreat: September Reflect & Reset
<p>Reflect & Reset — a mini retreat for your month</p><p><strong>Take 30 minutes to pause, breathe, and reconnect.</strong></p><p>In this guided mini retreat, you’ll look back on the last month with curiosity and set kind, clear intentions for the month ahead—through gentle breath, soft stretching, and a guided reflection you can use for journaling, personal check-in, or a conversation with someone you trust.</p><p><strong>Get the companion retreat prompts here:</strong></p><p>Paid subscribers on Substack → <a target="_blank" href="http://www.centeredwithabby.com?utm_source=chatgpt.com"><strong>www.centeredwithabby.co</strong></a><strong>m</strong></p><p>About This Episode</p><p>So often we move from one thing to the next—emails, errands, responsibilities—without pausing to enjoy our own lives. A reset isn’t about adding more. It’s about slowing down enough to notice what mattered, release what didn’t, and choose what comes next.</p><p>That’s what this 30-minute guided retreat is for.</p><p><strong>I’ll lead you through:</strong></p><p><strong>Gentle breath + movement</strong> to help your body settle</p><p><strong>Monthly reflection</strong> to review the last month with compassion</p><p><strong>Intention setting</strong> for the month ahead—simple, doable, aligned</p><p>Prompts you can <strong>journal</strong>, <strong>speak out loud</strong>, or <strong>use in conversation</strong></p><p>You don’t need special equipment—just a quiet space, a notebook, and the willingness to give yourself half an hour of undivided attention.</p><p>Imagine finishing this retreat feeling grounded, clear, and reconnected to what really matters. That clarity is always within reach—it just takes a pause to access it.</p><p>If you’d like to enrich the experience, my paid Substack subscribers will also get:</p><p>-A tea blend recipe curated especially for this “Reflect & Reset” retreat</p><p>-All prompts written out to save you time and extra writing.</p><p>About Your Host</p><p>Abby is a psychotherapist, yoga teacher, and creator of Centered with Abby and SomaSong. Her work blends psychology, somatic therapy, yoga, and expressive arts to help people care for their inner world and rediscover a life of presence and wonder.</p><p>Get full access to Centered with Abby at <a target="_blank" href="http://www.centeredwithabby.com?utm_source=chatgpt.com"><strong>www.centeredwithabby.com/subscribe</strong></a></p> <br/><br/>Get full access to Centered with Abby at <a href="https://www.centeredwithabby.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&#38;utm_campaign=CTA_4">www.centeredwithabby.com/subscribe</a>
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24 MIN