You start every January with a new plan: stricter rules, cleaner eating, earlier workouts. By March, the plan has quietly vanished, and you’re left blaming yourself… again. In this episode, we pull back the curtain on why your 2025 diet really failed—and why it has a lot less to do with willpower and a lot more to do with being a midlife woman with an actual life, actual hormones, and actual responsibilities.We unpack the hidden reasons your “perfect” plan fell apart: night snacking on the couch, saying yes to food you don’t want so you don’t offend anyone, mistaking exhaustion for hunger, and using “I deserve this” food as your only form of self-care. Instead of shaming you for not sticking to the plan, we treat those moments as data that show you what’s really going on with your body, brain, and environment.You’ll learn why traditional diets aren’t designed for midlife women dealing with perimenopause, stress, aging parents, and a heavy mental load—and why that matters for belly fat, cravings, brain fog, and burnout. Most importantly, you’ll walk away with a simple, kind, three-step “post-mortem” to review 2025 and design 2026 in a completely different way.WHAT YOU’LL LEARNWhy your 2025 diet failed even if you “did everything right” at the startHow midlife hormones, stress, and exhaustion quietly sabotage rigid diet plansThe difference between willpower problems and skill problems when it comes to overeatingThe Listener Takeaway: Why This Episode MattersThis episode matters because it finally separates you from the diet failures you’ve been carrying around for years. It shows you that your belly fat, cravings, fatigue, and “I know what to do, I’m just not doing it” struggle are not signs that you’re broken—they’re signals that the strategies you’ve been handed were never designed for midlife women like you. When you see overeating and “falling off the wagon” as skill gaps instead of character flaws, you can start to feel hopeful again instead of ashamed.You’ll walk away with permission to stop punishing yourself with harsher rules and start asking better questions: What actually got in the way? What is my brain or body trying to tell me? What one skill would make this easier on a real, messy Tuesday? That shift—from self-blame to problem-solving—is what makes long-term change possible. Instead of starting another year with an all-or-nothing reset, you can enter 2026 with a simpler, kinder, more effective approach that respects your midlife body, your responsibilities, and your capacity.RESOURCES Hey! I love hearing from you. Send me a text. Let me know what resonated with you. Sign Up for the LIVE Workshop: How to Stop Overeating without Going on a Diet at https://elizabethsherman.com/stop-overeatingIf you’re a woman in midlife who wants better health without obsessing over weight, you’re in the right place. I’m Elizabeth Sherman, a life and health coach and host of the Total Health in Midlife Podcast. After coaching hundreds of women, I know the real problem usually isn’t “not enough information” – it’s too much of it, and not knowing where to start. With close to 300 episodes, this show can feel that way too. To make it easy, I created a free Listener’s Roadmap that helps you figure out which episodes are right for you right now. Tell me what you’re struggling with – low energy, emotional eating, stress, sleep, exercise, or all of the above – and I’ll point you to a curated path of episodes and resources to get you moving. Download your free roadmap at https://elizabethsherman.com/roadmap.