#136 - I’ve been doing this wrong for years — Rhyland Qually
APR 15, 202663 MIN
#136 - I’ve been doing this wrong for years — Rhyland Qually
APR 15, 202663 MIN
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<p><br></p><p>I’m 42 days into eating “fun food” every day… and still losing weight.</p><p>Which sounds simple when you say it like that.</p><p>It’s not.</p><p>This episode is basically me walking through what’s actually making it work this time — because I’ve done versions of this before where it <em>didn’t</em> work.</p><p>And the difference isn’t motivation. It’s the details.</p><p>Here are my 6 biggest lessons so far:</p><p><br></p><p><strong>1. “I overeat” isn’t specific enough to fix anything.</strong></p><p>That was my default answer for a long time.</p><p>But this time I had to actually call it out properly:</p><ul><li>I overeat high-protein baking because it feels “safe”</li><li>I snack while cooking and don’t track it</li><li>I get looser on weekends and pretend it evens out</li></ul><p>Once you see the exact behavior, it’s way harder to ignore it.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>2. If you’re going to eat something, make it worth it.</strong></p><p>I’ve had donuts during this.</p><p>Some were great. Some were honestly a waste of calories.</p><p>Same with cookies, chocolate, whatever.</p><p>If you’re building your day around 300–700 calories of “fun food”… and it’s not actually <em>that </em>good?</p><p>You feel it.</p><p>You’d rather just not have eaten it.</p><p><strong>3. Weekends will quietly wreck this if you don’t pay attention.</strong></p><p>This is where I’ve screwed up in the past.</p><p>Friday night hits, and I'm a bit more relaxed.</p><p>Meals become less structured.</p><p>I'm out more. Around more food.</p><p>It’s not one big binge. It’s just… everything’s a bit looser.</p><p>And when I do this every single weekend, it's enough to stall things.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>4. High-protein, “fun” meals change everything.</strong></p><p>This has probably been the biggest difference.</p><p>Instead of just plugging in random treats, I’ve been building meals that are actually satisfying:</p><ul><li>homemade nachos with lean beef and Greek yogurt</li><li>pizza with higher protein bases</li><li>chili, salmon dinners, carrot cake that actually fills you up</li></ul><p>It still feels like you’re eating well… but you’re not blowing through your calories in two bites.</p><p><strong>5. Don’t cut out the stuff that keeps you healthy just to fit in treats.</strong></p><p>This one caught me off guard.</p><p>I pulled back on things like strawberries, fruit, vitamin C… just to make more room for “fun food.”</p><p>And then I got sick for the first time in like four years.</p><p><em>Could be coincidence. Could not be.</em></p><p>Either way, it was a pretty clear reminder: <em>don’t trade your baseline health habits for short-term flexibility.</em></p><p><strong>6. You don’t need to eat the whole thing.</strong></p><p>This sounds obvious. It’s not.</p><p>Restaurants. Family dinners. Dessert. Chocolate.</p><p>You can stop halfway.</p><p>You can take it home.</p><p>You can eat the rest tomorrow.</p><p>You don’t need to finish it just because it’s there.</p><p><u><strong>And then there's one big fitness lesson I've had to relearn:</strong></u></p><p>When you’re injured, stop trying to be clever.</p><p>I dealt with some sciatica during this.</p><p>I tried to work around it with mobility, adjusting my exercises, all that.</p><p>Then I got to a point where I was like, <em>"What am I doing?"</em></p><p>Go use machines, train what doesn’t hurt, and keep things moving.</p><p>Not everything needs to be optimal. It just needs to be consistent.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>If You've ever:</strong></p><ul><li>done well all week, then watched the weekend undo it</li><li>tried to include treats but felt out of control with them</li><li>overcomplicated fat loss to the point it’s exhausting</li><li>or had an injury and no clue how to train around it</li></ul><p>this episode will be helpful for you.</p><p>It’s not a “here’s what you should do.”</p><p>It’s just what’s actually happening, in real time, while I’m doing it.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p>