The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast
The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast

The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast

Mark Usher and Matilde Crocini

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Does your marriage feel like a war of unmet wants? We know how this feels. Follow our conversation in The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast. We’ll help you both get what you want in marriage so you never have to feel at war again. Hosted by relationship coaches, and husband and wife, Mark Usher and Matilde Crocini.

Recent Episodes

18: The 3 lies husbands have been told about married life
MAY 14, 2026
18: The 3 lies husbands have been told about married life
<div> <p>Do you want to know why most husbands feel trapped in their marriage? Because they’ve been lied to… There are 3 fundamental lies every husband has been told about married life and about how to be the "perfect husband". Society and conditioning through generations tell men that there are 3 things they need to do to perform well and be a “good husband”. As a result of these lies most husbands feel trapped and most wives feel unfulfilled within their relationship. <br>Seeking to escape the marriage is not always the solution. <br>In this episode we debunk these lies and offer a solution that will support both husband and wife to transform their relationship, feeling satisfied and fulfilled again. </p><p>Share this episode with your partner and unlock even better results together!<br> <br>If you enjoyed this episode follow, subscribe and leave a review. It truly helps us reaching more listeners that, just like you, want to unlock the full potential in long-term relationship.</p><p>Also listen to:<br>Episode 12 <a href="https://audioboom.com/posts/8882597-how-to-stop-toxic-criticism-from-ruining-your-marriage-marriage-apocalypse-series-part-2">How to stop toxic criticism from ruining your marriage – Marriage Apocalypse Series Part 2</a><br>Episode 12 <a href="https://youtu.be/1a0nZdNeubk?si=GUZvqFr0ZJFsXO71">YouTube </a></p><p>Follow us on Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/he.wants.she.wants.podcast?igsh=amZoMm5oNHJrbTd6">@he.wants.she.wants.podcast</a></p><p>#marriagepodcast #relationshipadvise #bethehusbandshebragsabout #emotionalintimacy #intimacy #husbandandwife #relatioshipcoaching #consciousmarriage #everydaymarriedlife</p><p>Track 1253823– Monetization ID: 9HWIVQATIQUJECP3.</p></div>
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17: The secret to creating a strong relationship in everyday married life’s chaos
MAY 7, 2026
17: The secret to creating a strong relationship in everyday married life’s chaos
<div> <p>Do you want to know why autopilot marriage happens despite your best intentions? Because in relationship good intentions are not enough.<br>With never-ending to-do lists, work, parenting, commitments with in-laws and more on the table in everyday life’s chaos, your relationship suffers. For husband and wife it’s easy to get caught in the day-to-day routine and forget to prioritise each other. <br>It’s no one’s fault and yet it has a massive impact on emotional connection, intimacy and communication which becomes less and less fulfilling. If you don’t feel seen and prioritised in your relationship, it’s not because of lack of good intentions by your partner, but those intentions may not be enough. <br>You may feel frustrated and think you need to hack most of what you do every day to have the time to dedicate to your marriage, but that’s not realistically possible in most cases. <br>In this episode we share the #1 thing that when implemented will transform your intentionality in an actionable step, bringing connection back on in your relationship, without having to stop doing everything else that is important in your to-do list. </p><p>Chapters:<br>00:00:00 Good intentions are simply not enough in marriage<br>00:03:26 Where your attention goes matters<br>00:06:32 The cost of distraction in relationship<br>00:10:10 Do this to reclaim your focus - your partner will love it<br>00:13:26 This will make reclaiming your focus easier<br>00:19:55 This is the best way to stay connected through the day<br>00:23:55 How to start a new moment differently<br>00:27:17 Transform your marriage doing this together </p><p>Share this episode with your partner and unlock even better results together!<br> <br>If you enjoyed this episode follow, subscribe and leave a review. It truly helps us reaching more listeners that, just like you, want to unlock the full potential in long-term relationship.</p><p>Related episodes:<br>Episode 10 - <a href="https://audioboom.com/posts/8876224-3-steps-to-generate-deeper-intimacy-couples-must-know">3 steps to generate deeper intimacy couples must know</a><br>Episode 10 <a href="https://youtu.be/FG8BY2jdh6w?si=yv5miEgnN151xM6B">YouTube<br></a><br>#marriagepodcast #relationshipadvise #bethehusbandshebragsabout #emotionalintimacy #intimacy #husbandandwife #relatioshipcoaching #consciousmarriage</p><p>Track 1253823– Monetization ID: 9HWIVQATIQUJECP3.</p></div>
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16: How to stop the damage of Stonewalling in relationship – 4 steps to restore communication – Marriage Apocalypse Series Part 5
APR 30, 2026
16: How to stop the damage of Stonewalling in relationship – 4 steps to restore communication – Marriage Apocalypse Series Part 5
<div> <p>Do you want to know why 85% of stonewalling happens in men? Research shows that between husband and wife the husband is more likely to fall into the pattern of stonewalling. With that said, research also shows that when the wife stonewalls it’s a real red flag signalling the risk of divorce. <br>Stonewalling often follows when there’s a pattern of contempt in communication. And although in some cases stonewalling can be used intentionally as a manipulation tactic within abusive relationships, this is not what is actually happening in most cases. <br>But whatever the reason for stonewalling, this emotional shutdown always communicates a message of rejection to your partner, and this is why in this episode we share how couples can consciously communicate to eradicate stonewalling as a pattern and transform the marriage together. <br>By following the four steps we share in this episode you will be able to catch the partner before it escalates in conflict and turn the situation around so that no partner is feeling rejected or hurt anymore.  </p><p>Share this episode with your partner and unlock even better results together!<br> <br>If you enjoyed this episode follow, subscribe and leave a review. It truly helps us reaching more listeners that, just like you, want to unlock the full potential in long-term relationship.</p><p>Other episodes in this series:<br>Ep 11 <a href="https://audioboom.com/posts/8878837-the-4-traits-that-will-doom-your-marriage-if-you-don-t-act-now-marriage-apocalypse-series-part-1">The 4 traits that will doom your marriage if you don’t act now — Marriage Apocalypse Series, Part 1</a><br><a href="https://youtu.be/ZEv1QjYmB5k?si=ygMwtcDGItWUbu64">Episode 11 YouTube</a></p><p>Ep 12 <a href="https://audioboom.com/posts/8882597-how-to-stop-toxic-criticism-from-ruining-your-marriage-marriage-apocalypse-series-part-2">How to stop toxic criticism from ruining your marriage – Marriage Apocalypse Series Part 2</a><br><a href="https://youtu.be/1a0nZdNeubk?si=GUZvqFr0ZJFsXO71">Episode12 YouTube</a></p><p>Ep 13 <a href="https://audioboom.com/posts/8885325-4-steps-to-avoid-defensiveness-from-hurting-communication-in-your-relationship-marriage-apocaly">4 steps to avoid defensiveness from hurting communication in your relationship – Marriage Apocalypse Series Part 3</a><br><a href="https://youtu.be/loxGxGr6gpY?si=4rod9MoNaBmDe9wJ">Episode 13 YouTube<br></a><br>Ep 15 <a href="https://audioboom.com/posts/8894943-3-phases-to-eradicate-contempt-in-marriage-couples-not-doing-this-risk-divorce-marriage-apoca">3 phases to eradicate contempt in marriage – couples not doing this risk divorce – Marriage Apocalypse Series Part 4</a><br><a href="https://youtu.be/vOTxg83wYaU?si=v8UjWkvvS4oqL310">Episode 15 YouTube</a></p><p>Track 1253823– Monetization ID: 9HWIVQATIQUJECP3.</p><p>#marriagepodcast #relationshipadvise #bethehusbandshebragsabout #emotionalintimacy #intimacy #husbandandwife #relatioshipcoaching #consciousmarriage</p></div>
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25 MIN
15: 3 phases to eradicate contempt in marriage – couples not doing this risk divorce – Marriage Apocalypse Series Part 4
APR 24, 2026
15: 3 phases to eradicate contempt in marriage – couples not doing this risk divorce – Marriage Apocalypse Series Part 4
<div> <p>Do you want to know why most marriages fails?  The most common answers could be infidelity, financial issues, lack of love, having picked the wrong partner and so on. And yet most of the most common reasons for divorce are the symptoms of an underlying pattern that erodes the relationship and that is contempt. <br>When husband and wife have left the cycle of defensiveness and criticism go on unchecked, this leads to a building of contempt which is the greatest predictor of divorce. <br>The good news is, it’s never too late to turn your relationship around by transforming your communication and rebuild connection. In this episode we share the antidote to contempt so that you and your partner can transform your marriage together.</p><p>Share this episode with your partner and unlock even better results together!<br> <br>If you enjoyed this episode follow, subscribe and leave a review. It truly helps us reaching more listeners that, just like you, want to unlock the full potential in long-term relationship.</p><p>Chapters:<br>00:00:00 Contempt: the number 1 predictor of divorce<br>00:05:14 The most potent antidote to contempt<br>00:08:11 Phase 1: see the perfection in the present<br>00:13:34 Skilfully reclaim your past together<br>00:20:20 Reclaim the potential for your marriage's future<br>00:25:30 Listen to the full marriage Apocalypse Series</p><p>Related episodes:<br>Episode 11 <a href="https://audioboom.com/posts/8878837-the-4-traits-that-will-doom-your-marriage-if-you-don-t-act-now-marriage-apocalypse-series-part-1">The 4 traits that will doom your marriage if you don’t act now — Marriage Apocalypse Series, Part 1</a><br>Episode 11 <a href="https://youtu.be/ZEv1QjYmB5k?si=ygMwtcDGItWUbu64">YouTube video<br></a><br>Episode 12 <a href="https://audioboom.com/posts/8882597-how-to-stop-toxic-criticism-from-ruining-your-marriage-marriage-apocalypse-series-part-2">How to stop toxic criticism from ruining your marriage – Marriage Apocalypse Series Part 2</a><br>Episode 12 <a href="https://youtu.be/1a0nZdNeubk?si=GUZvqFr0ZJFsXO71">YouTube video<br></a><br>Episode 13 <a href="https://audioboom.com/posts/8885325-4-steps-to-avoid-defensiveness-from-hurting-communication-in-your-relationship-marriage-apocaly">4 steps to avoid defensiveness from hurting communication in your relationship – Marriage Apocalypse Series Part 3</a><br>Episode 13 <a href="https://youtu.be/loxGxGr6gpY?si=4rod9MoNaBmDe9wJ">YouTube Video</a></p><p>Track 1253823– Monetization ID: 9HWIVQATIQUJECP3.</p><p>#marriagepodcast #relationshipadvise #bethehusbandshebragsabout #emotionalintimacy #intimacy #husbandandwife #relatioshipcoaching #consciousmarriage</p></div>
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27 MIN
14: 5 relationship hacks to fuel the flame in your marriage this spring
APR 16, 2026
14: 5 relationship hacks to fuel the flame in your marriage this spring
<div> <p>Do you want to know why most marriages fail to keep the flames of intimacy and connection going? <br>Because life gets busy and most couples forget to fuel the flames, so those flames slowly die. And with them so do emotional intimacy, sexual connection and overall happiness in marriage. Spring renewal is not all about spring cleaning your house and refreshing your wardrobe. It can also be a very effective way to spark life back in your marriage and bring that connection back online. In this episode we share 5 relationship hacks to help you fuel the flames in your marriage. This is an opportunity for husband and wife to get together and transform their relationship this spring! This is your time to bloom together!</p><p>Chapters: <br>00:00:00 Harness spring energy for deeper couple connection<br>00:05:20 Celebrate your shared victories<br>00:07:40 Fuel this to fuel the flame<br>00:12:46 Remove what drains your energy<br>00:16:04 The best way to make it happen<br>00:18:57 The environment is important too</p><p>Related episode:<br>Ep4: <a href="https://audioboom.com/posts/8857792-if-your-partner-ignores-your-dreams-use-these-3-steps">If your partner ignores your dreams use these 3 steps</a></p><p><a href="https://youtu.be/wkA2fW6WW7c?si=8BCjtSl0Y7vHcoLu">Ep 4 YouTube video</a></p><p>Share this episode with your partner and unlock even better results together!<br> <br>If you enjoyed this episode follow, subscribe and leave a review. It truly helps us reaching more listeners that, just like you, want to unlock the full potential in long-term relationship.</p><p>Track 1253823– Monetization ID: 9HWIVQATIQUJECP3.</p><p>#marriagepodcast #relationshipadvise #bethehusbandshebragsabout #emotionalintimacy #intimacy #husbandandwife #relatioshipcoaching #consciousmarriage</p></div>
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28 MIN