<p><strong>Discover why your greatest strength became your biggest vulnerability in that toxic relationship.</strong></p><p>If you've ever wondered why YOU were targeted by a narcissist, this episode reveals the uncomfortable truth: abusers specifically hunt for empathetic, compassionate women. Your kindness wasn't a weakness—it was their weapon.</p><p>In this eye-opening episode, I break down the exact "empathy signature" that narcissists detect from across a room, and expose how they use your compassionate nature to trap you in cycles of abuse.</p><p><strong>In this episode, you'll discover:</strong></p><ul><li>The specific traits that make empathetic women prime targets for narcissistic abuse</li><li>How abusers test your boundaries from the very first interaction (and what they're looking for)</li><li>The psychological mechanism behind trauma bonding and why it keeps you attached to someone who hurts you</li><li>Why the "sob story strategy" works so effectively on compassionate women</li><li>The devastating cost of having your empathy weaponized against you</li><li>How your own empathy becomes the tool that keeps you trapped</li><li>Why understanding someone's behavior is NOT the same as excusing it</li></ul><p>The sob story strategy, love bombing tactics, and the "I can fix him" phenomenon—we expose it all. This isn't about learning how to change who you are. It's about understanding exactly what happened to you and why.</p><p><strong>You're not stupid for having empathy. You were strategically targeted because of your best qualities. And it's time you understood the game that was being played.</strong></p><p>Don't miss the powerful connections to Episode 104 on triangulation and Episode 103, our 40-minute deep dive on how narcissistic abuse patterns show up in every system women face.</p><p>If this resonates, please share it with someone who needs to hear it. 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