“The goal isn't to be sober, the goal is to love yourself so much you don't need to drink," Sarah Rusbatch says. Sarah is author of the bestselling book Beyond Booze, How to Create a Life You Love Alcohol Free, a multi-award-winning Health and Wellbeing Coach, an accredited Grey Area Drinking Coach, a menopause coach and a keynote speaker sharing her journey to sobriety and impact of alcohol on mental health to global audiences. Sarah works tirelessly to support women all over the world to create and live their best lives as they age.
Sarah is originally from the UK and is now based in Western Australia. She has supported thousands of individuals (mostly women) to change their relationship with alcohol and, consequently, change their lives. Grey Area Drinking describes the place between "every now and again" drinking, and "rock bottom dependent" drinking. This type of drinking in women has increased over 80% in the last 30 years. After an article she wrote for Mamamia (you can read it HERE), 8,000 women reached out to her within 24 hours for help with their drinking.
In this episode we discuss:
--Why Alcohol Use Disorder in Women has increased more than 80% in the last 30 years
--Why ageing impacts a woman’s ability to metabolise alcohol and impact menopause symptoms, yet middle-aged women are drinking the most
--The specific health risks to women of drinking at such a significant level
--The normalization of everyday drinking
--What needs to change in culture and society in order to change drinking patterns
--What it takes to create a life you love without alcohol (the heart of her book)
--Dispelling the myths that a life without alcohol is boring; and explaining what actually opens up for us when we take a break from alcohol
--The peer pressure many people experience when cutting down or removing alcohol and how to handle this
--The benefits the thousands of women she has coached have experienced when they removed alcohol.
"You have full permission to outgrow alcohol," Sarah shares.
Learn more and follow Sarah:
Instagram - @sarahrusbatch
Bronwyn Schweigerdt is a licensed psychotherapist and anger expert. She helps her clients and podcast listeners come back to life through integrating with their inner child, dislodging shame, and healing their relationship with anger. Her podcast is Angry at the Right Things.
Instead of fixing peoples’ messes, Bronwyn’s goal is to elicit feelings people are most ashamed to have, such as hatred and rage. She knows that even though feelings are invisible, they don’t evaporate, but store away in our bodies until processed.
According to Bronwyn, these feelings haunt us and cause mental and physical illness until we express them into words with someone who can hear and validate them. She especially loves playing midwife in this way, helping her clients – and now, her podcast listeners – externalize painful feelings once and for all. She has experienced success in helping people break free of depression, anxiety, bipolar disorder, even psychosis, by reconnecting them to their anger, and healing their relationship with anger, and with themselves.
Learn more and follow Bronwyn:
https://angryattherightthings.com/
https://www.youtube.com/@bronwynschweigerdt1382
https://www.instagram.com/schweigerdtbronwyn/
Qin (“Ching”) Sun Stubis was born in the rubble of a Shanghai shantytown during the Great Chinese Famine, which killed some 50 million people. She was left alone in her crude bamboo crib for two years while her parents worked to scrape together a few coins each day for their daily handful of rice. Growing up, she and her sisters were at first ignored by the rest of the family for being “worthless” girls, and later shunned as political pariahs when their honest father was imprisoned for speaking out against the injustice he saw around them.
Despite extreme poverty, Qin pulled herself up by reading forbidden books and winning admission to one of China’s most prestigious universities, graduating with a degree in English and English Literature. With the help of a U.S. Senator, she emigrated to the United States to further her studies and has sought through her writing to build greater understanding between Eastern and Western cultures and underscore our common hopes, dreams and struggles.
Qin is a writer, newspaper columnist, and author of the award-winning book, Once Our Lives, the true story of four generations of Chinese women who struggle to survive war, revolution, and the seemingly unshakeable power of an ancient Chinese superstition. The book, which has been named a best read by Ms. Magazine, Glamour Magazine UK, GRAND Magazine and Readers’ Favorite, and won the Nellie Bly Award for Journalistic Non-Fiction, takes the reader on an exotic journey filled with real stories of luxurious banquets, lost jewels, babies sold in opium dens, kidnappings by pirates and political persecution – seen through the eyes of a man for whom the truth would spell disaster and a lonely, beautiful girl with three identities.
For the past 17 years, she has been a newspaper columnist, exploring the rich legacy of Asian culture and the common links we all share. She has just completed a novel and also writes poems, essays, short stories and original Chinese tall tales inspired by traditional Asian themes. Qin has published more than 200 works in such media as The New York Times, USA Today, The Santa Monica Star, GRAND Magazine, Lotus Magazine, Paper Dragon and Mochi Magazine, and speaks to audiences around the world about writing and the need to strengthen the bonds of understanding and humanity that connect us all. You can find out more about her and her book, Once Our Lives, at www.QinSunStubis.com.
Learn more and follow Qin:
o Website: www.QinSunStubis.com
o Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/qinsun.stubis
o Facebook Fan Page "Once Our Lives by Qin Sun Stubis"
o Instagram: instagram.com/qinstubis/
o Goodreads: goodreads.com/author/show/22904309.Qin_Sun_Stubis
o LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/qin-sun-stubis-5977011a/
o YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCVLYagaq5R6LPHGn3fsxOVA
Aishah Iqbal is a first-time filmmaker and marketing executive who directed the award-winning film, #whitehairdontcare: A New Era in Beauty. The documentary challenges ageism in the beauty industry. With 15+ years in global analytics and advertising, she blends storytelling, strategy and social impact to empower women to embrace their natural aging process. The film explores the question: Who gets to define beauty?
Aishah is a highly accomplished and results-driven Analytics & Data Operations leader with 15+ years of experience spearheading transformative initiatives for global organizations—most recently leading Global Analytics Operations for Google via Media Futures Group (EssenceMediacom). She brings proven expertise in designing scalable data strategies, automating complex workflows and nurturing high-performing, globally distributed analytics teams. Her passion lies in aligning data operations with business objectives to unlock efficiency, enable faster decision-making and deliver measurable ROI.
Throughout her career, she has partnered with C-suite and EVP-level leadership to drive operational transformation across organizations, evolve team capabilities and lead impactful change management initiatives. She thrives in environments that demand both strategic vision and practical execution.
Outside of work, she is the proud mother of a wonderful daughter who helps her prioritize the invaluable intangibles in life. She is deeply committed to creative storytelling and personal growth—sharing her journey and learnings as a filmmaker, writer, blogger and podcast contributor.
In this episode, we talk about how she became a filmmaker, using TikTok and Reddit to float ideas, how to deal with online hate, single motherhood, ageism and more. She embraces her graying hair and is helping all of us learn to embrace our own choices, which may include natural aging.
Website (for the film) - www.whitehairdontcarefilm.com
Social Media links -
https://www.instagram.com/aishahiqbal/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/aishahiqbal/
https://www.instagram.com/whitehairdontcarefilm/
TikTok: @grayloxx
Lynda Samphire is a highly intuitive transformational coach -- a trusted guide for those ready to explore their gifts, creativity and inner wisdom. Fueled by the loss of her mother at a very early age and a lifelong fascination with human behavior and the mystical, Lynda’s journey has been shaped by a profound commitment to inner exploration and self-healing. The more whole she felt the more she desired to support others on their path toward emotional freedom, inner clarity, stress relief and creative flow, which led to certifications in Psychology and Metaphysical Science, Reiki, Energy Psychology, Earth Medicine Mentoring, Transpersonal Hypnotherapy and ICF Coaching.
Lynda blends her strong intuitive insights and deep spiritual wisdom with structured expertise and practical tools to facilitate and support transformational growth and deep remembrance. Microdosing for stress and creativity, guided dream and sleep work, breathwork and embodiment practices, light language and a variety of trauma-informed, spiritually aligned techniques are central ingredients to the alchemy she facilitates. She provides these intentional pathways for transformation in 1-2-1 and group settings, immersive retreats and through online courses.
Lynda lives with her husband in the Pacific Northwest. She enjoys hiking, yoga and connecting with nature.
In this episode, we discuss:
From Stuck to Flow - Lynda's journey out of high-functioning anxiety and depression into deep thriving
Walking on the Sovereign Edge - How exploring liminal spaces opens doors to divine wisdom
When Ego Dances with Heart - How to embrace the polarity of human life
Remembering Who We Are - Connecting with our true nature through microdosing
Nightly Messengers – Tapping into our sleep wisdom through unlocking our dreams
Learn more: https://www.lwsamphire.com
https://www.instagram.com/lyndasamphire/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/lyndawsamphire-301903260/
https://www.facebook.com/lynda.weavercarrougher