<p>Have you ever done everything right — showed up, gave your all, bent yourself in half — and still felt unloved? That's not love. That's begging. And in this episode, Ayinke "The Skinny One" is calling it out.</p><p><br /></p><p>We've all been there. Doing too much for people who do too little. Twisting ourselves into someone we're not just to feel accepted. But what if the problem isn't what you're giving — it's who you're giving it to?</p><p><br /></p><p>Ayinke gets vulnerable in this one. She shares the moment she caught herself being the very person she swore she'd never become — and why it shook her. Because sometimes, without even realizing it, we become what hurt us.</p><p><br /></p><p>This episode will make you rethink how you love, who you love, and most importantly — how much of yourself you're sacrificing in the process.</p><p><br /></p>

Skinnies

Ayinke 'n' Alabi

You're Not Loving Them — You're Begging Them

APR 17, 202610 MIN
Skinnies

You're Not Loving Them — You're Begging Them

APR 17, 202610 MIN

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<p>Have you ever done everything right — showed up, gave your all, bent yourself in half — and still felt unloved? That's not love. That's begging. And in this episode, Ayinke "The Skinny One" is calling it out.</p><p><br /></p><p>We've all been there. Doing too much for people who do too little. Twisting ourselves into someone we're not just to feel accepted. But what if the problem isn't what you're giving — it's who you're giving it to?</p><p><br /></p><p>Ayinke gets vulnerable in this one. She shares the moment she caught herself being the very person she swore she'd never become — and why it shook her. Because sometimes, without even realizing it, we become what hurt us.</p><p><br /></p><p>This episode will make you rethink how you love, who you love, and most importantly — how much of yourself you're sacrificing in the process.</p><p><br /></p>