I'm sure you've already read it by now, or at least heard of Chante Joseph's 'Is Having A Boyfriend Embarrassing Now?' article for British Vogue. I've seen a lot of discourse since the article blew up with people trying to defend their relationships (which is a whole other issue in itself when people take an analysis on a societal shift that personally), but really, you're missing the point. Let's deep dive... Recommendation of the week: DIY advent calendar, Bird and Blend tea advent calendar, Moth drinks advent calendar, Lily Allen's new album West End Girl. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices