<div style="font-weight: 400;"> <div> <p><span data-contrast="none">In this week's episode, host Laura Reagan, LCSW-C, a trauma therapist, consultant and coach, talks about Attachment Styles and how they show up in our lives. In this episode you will hear Laura talk about:</span><span data-ccp-props="{}"> </span></p> </div> <div> <ul> <li data-leveltext="" data-font="Symbol" data-listid="4" aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-posinset="1" data-aria-level="1"> <span data-contrast="none">What is Attachment?</span><span data-ccp-props= "{"134233117":true,"134233118":true,"335559685":945}"> </span></li> <li data-leveltext="" data-font="Symbol" data-listid="4" aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-posinset="2" data-aria-level="1"> <span data-contrast="none">How does Attachment develop?</span><span data-ccp-props= "{"134233117":true,"134233118":true,"335559685":945}"> </span></li> <li data-leveltext="" data-font="Symbol" data-listid="4" aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-posinset="3" data-aria-level="1"> <span data-contrast="none">What are the 4 Attachment styles?</span><span data-ccp-props= "{"134233117":true,"134233118":true,"335559685":945}"> </span></li> <li data-leveltext="" data-font="Symbol" data-listid="4" aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-posinset="3" data-aria-level="1"> <span data-contrast="none">How does Attachment show up in our lives?</span><span data-ccp-props= "{"134233117":true,"134233118":true,"335559685":945}"> </span></li> <li data-leveltext="" data-font="Symbol" data-listid="4" aria-setsize="-1" data-aria-posinset="3" data-aria-level="1"> <span data-contrast="none">Historical context of Attachment over the last 100 years</span><span data-ccp-props= "{"134233117":true,"134233118":true,"335559685":945}"> </span></li> </ul> </div> </div> <div style="font-weight: 400;"> <div> </div> <div> <p><strong>Resources for this Episode:  </strong></p> </div> <div> <p><span data-contrast="none">Dr. Robert T. Muller's book, </span><a href= "https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0784V8WJB/ref=dp-kindle-redirect?_encoding=UTF8&btkr=1" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><span data-contrast="none">Trauma and the Struggle to Open U</span></a></p> </div> </div> <div style="font-weight: 400;"> <p><a href= "https://baltimoreannapolispsychotherapypodcast.libsyn.com/155-trauma-the-struggle-to-open-in-therapy" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><span data-contrast="none">Therapy Chat Interview</span></a><span data-contrast="none"> with Dr. Robert T. Muller</span><span data-ccp-props="{}"> </span></p> </div> <div style="font-weight: 400;"> <p><span data-contrast="none">Lisa Ferentz/s workbook, </span><a href= "https://www.amazon.com/Letting-Self-Destructive-Behaviors-Lisa-Ferentz/dp/1138800775" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><span data-contrast="none">Letting Go of Self Destructive Behaviors: A Workbook of Hope & Healing</span></a><span data-ccp-props="{}"> </span></p> </div> <div style="font-weight: 400;"> <p><span style= "font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Segoe UI', Roboto, Oxygen, Ubuntu, Cantarell, 'Open Sans', 'Helvetica Neue', sans-serif;" data-contrast="none">Dr. Janina Fisher's book, </span><a style= "font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Segoe UI', Roboto, Oxygen, Ubuntu, Cantarell, 'Open Sans', 'Helvetica Neue', sans-serif;" href= "https://www.amazon.com/Healing-Fragmented-Selves-Trauma-Survivors-ebook/dp/B06X9YWZMM/ref=sr_1_1?crid=22W05BJXML2MX&dchild=1&keywords=healing+the+fragmented+selves+of+trauma+survivors&qid=1622421864&s=digital-text&sprefix=healing+the+fragmented+%2Cdigital-text%2C143&sr=1-1" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><span data-contrast="none">Healing the Fragmented Selves of Trauma Survivors: Overcoming Self-Alienation</span></a><span style= "font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Segoe UI', Roboto, Oxygen, Ubuntu, Cantarell, 'Open Sans', 'Helvetica Neue', sans-serif;" data-ccp-props="{}"> </span></p> </div> <div style="font-weight: 400;"> <p><a href= "https://baltimoreannapolispsychotherapypodcast.libsyn.com/277-laura-shares-news-top-10-most-popular-episodes-on-trauma-attachment-dissociation" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><span data-contrast="none">10 Most Popular Therapy Chat Episodes on Trauma, Dissociation and Attachment</span></a><span data-ccp-props="{}"> </span></p> </div> <div style="font-weight: 400;"> <p><span style= "font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Segoe UI', Roboto, Oxygen, Ubuntu, Cantarell, 'Open Sans', 'Helvetica Neue', sans-serif;" data-contrast="none">Episodes Linked from above: </span><span style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Segoe UI', Roboto, Oxygen, Ubuntu, Cantarell, 'Open Sans', 'Helvetica Neue', sans-serif;" data-ccp-props="{}"> </span></p> </div> <div style="font-weight: 400;"> <p><a href= "https://baltimoreannapolispsychotherapypodcast.libsyn.com/144-how-does-our-attachment-style-affect-our-relationships" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><span data-contrast="none">10. Episode 144: How Does Our Attachment Style Affect Our Relationships? With Stuart Fensterheim, LCSW</span></a><span data-ccp-props= "{"134233117":true,"134233118":true}"> </span></p> </div> <div style="font-weight: 400;"> <p><a href= "https://baltimoreannapolispsychotherapypodcast.libsyn.com/198-chaos-conflict-secrecy-abusive-dysfunctional-family-dynamics" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><span data-contrast="none">9. Episode 198: Chaos, Conflict, Secrecy: Abusive/Dysfunctional Family Dynamics with Sharon Martin, LCSW</span></a><span data-ccp-props= "{"134233117":true,"134233118":true}"> </span></p> </div> <div style="font-weight: 400;"> <p><a href= "https://baltimoreannapolispsychotherapypodcast.libsyn.com/134-its-not-always-depression-so-what-is-it" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><span data-contrast="none">8. Episode 134: It's Not Always Depression, So What Is It? with Hilary Jacobs Hendel, LCSW</span></a><span data-ccp-props= "{"134233117":true,"134233118":true}"> </span></p> </div> <div style="font-weight: 400;"> <p><a href= "https://baltimoreannapolispsychotherapypodcast.libsyn.com/204-learning-to-be-kind-with-ourselves" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><span data-contrast="none">7: Episode 204: Learning To Be Kind To Ourselves with Dr. Jane Tornatore</span></a><span data-ccp-props= "{"134233117":true,"134233118":true}"> </span></p> </div> <div style="font-weight: 400;"> <p><a href= "https://baltimoreannapolispsychotherapypodcast.libsyn.com/159-understanding-polyvagal-theory" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><span data-contrast="none">6. Episode 159: Understanding Polyvagal Theory with Deb Dana, LCSW</span></a><span data-ccp-props= "{"134233117":true,"134233118":true}"> </span></p> </div> <div style="font-weight: 400;"> <p><a href= "https://baltimoreannapolispsychotherapypodcast.libsyn.com/191-understanding-childhood-emotional-neglect" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><span data-contrast="none">5. Episode 191: Understanding Childhood Emotional Neglect with Dr. Jonice Webb</span></a><span data-ccp-props= "{"134233117":true,"134233118":true}"> </span></p> </div> <div style="font-weight: 400;"> <p><a href= "https://baltimoreannapolispsychotherapypodcast.libsyn.com/202-inherited-family-trauma" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><span data-contrast="none">4. Episode 202: Inherited Family Trauma with Mark Wolynn</span></a><span data-ccp-props= "{"134233117":true,"134233118":true}"> </span></p> </div> <div style="font-weight: 400;"> <p><a href= "https://baltimoreannapolispsychotherapypodcast.libsyn.com/194-childhood-trauma-and-the-mind-body-connection" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><span data-contrast="none">3. Episode 194: Childhood Trauma and the Mind/Body Connection with Dr. Gabor Maté</span></a><span data-ccp-props= "{"134233117":true,"134233118":true}"> </span></p> </div> <div style="font-weight: 400;"> <p><a href= "https://baltimoreannapolispsychotherapypodcast.libsyn.com/212-all-about-disassociation-4-episode-compilation" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><span data-contrast="none">2. Episode 212: All About Dissociation - 4 Episode Compilation including interviews with Kathy Steele, LCSW and Dr. Dick Schwartz </span></a><span data-ccp-props= "{"134233117":true,"134233118":true}"> </span></p> </div> <div style="font-weight: 400;"> <p><a href= "https://baltimoreannapolispsychotherapypodcast.libsyn.com/111-relationships-childhood-emotional-neglect" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><span data-contrast="none">1. Episode 111: Relationships and Childhood Emotional Neglect with Dr. Jonice Webb</span></a><span data-ccp-props= "{"134233117":true,"134233118":true}"> </span></p> </div> <div style="font-weight: 400;"> <p><span style= "font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Segoe UI', Roboto, Oxygen, Ubuntu, Cantarell, 'Open Sans', 'Helvetica Neue', sans-serif;" data-contrast="none">Healthline Article on </span><a style= "font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Segoe UI', Roboto, Oxygen, Ubuntu, Cantarell, 'Open Sans', 'Helvetica Neue', sans-serif;" href= "https://www.healthline.com/health/parenting/avoidant-attachment#takeaway" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><span data-contrast="none">Avoidant Attachment</span></a><span style= "font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Segoe UI', Roboto, Oxygen, Ubuntu, Cantarell, 'Open Sans', 'Helvetica Neue', sans-serif;" data-ccp-props="{}"> </span></p> </div> <div style="font-weight: 400;"> <p><span style= "font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Segoe UI', Roboto, Oxygen, Ubuntu, Cantarell, 'Open Sans', 'Helvetica Neue', sans-serif;" data-contrast="none">Healthline Article on </span><a style= "font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Segoe UI', Roboto, Oxygen, Ubuntu, Cantarell, 'Open Sans', 'Helvetica Neue', sans-serif;" href= "https://www.healthline.com/health/parenting/disorganized-attachment#causes" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><span data-contrast= "none">Disorganized Attachment</span></a><span style= "font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Segoe UI', Roboto, Oxygen, Ubuntu, Cantarell, 'Open Sans', 'Helvetica Neue', sans-serif;" data-ccp-props="{}"> </span></p> </div> <div style="font-weight: 400;"> <p><span style= "font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Segoe UI', Roboto, Oxygen, Ubuntu, Cantarell, 'Open Sans', 'Helvetica Neue', sans-serif;" data-contrast="none">CPTSD Foundation Article on </span><a style= "font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Segoe UI', Roboto, Oxygen, Ubuntu, Cantarell, 'Open Sans', 'Helvetica Neue', sans-serif;" href= "https://cptsdfoundation.org/2018/10/22/anxious-ambivalent-attachment-style-an-examination-of-its-causes-and-how-it-affects-adult-relationships/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><span data-contrast="none">Anxious Attachment</span></a><span style= "font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Segoe UI', Roboto, Oxygen, Ubuntu, Cantarell, 'Open Sans', 'Helvetica Neue', sans-serif;" data-ccp-props="{}"> </span></p> </div> <div style="font-weight: 400;"> <p><a href= "http://ecourse.psychalive.org/making-sense-of-your-life-ecourse-dan-siegel-lisa-firestone/?utm_source=psychalive&utm_medium=article&utm_campaign=avoidant%20attachment" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><span data-contrast= "none">E-Course</span></a><span data-contrast="none"> from Dr. Daniel Siegel and Dr. Lisa Firestone on Attachment</span><span data-ccp-props="{}"> </span></p> </div> <div style="font-weight: 400;"> <p><a href="https://www.counselingrecovery.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><span data-contrast="none">Michelle Farris's Blog</span></a><span data-contrast="none"> with information on Codependency</span> <span style= "font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Segoe UI', Roboto, Oxygen, Ubuntu, Cantarell, 'Open Sans', 'Helvetica Neue', sans-serif;">  </span></p> </div> <div style="font-weight: 400;"> <p><a href="https://www.livewellwithsharonmartin.com/" target= "_blank" rel="noopener"><span data-contrast="none">Sharon Martin's website</span></a><span data-contrast="none"> with her books, blog posts and more on Codependency and Perfectionism</span><span data-ccp-props="{}"> </span></p> </div> <div style="font-weight: 400;"> <p><span data-contrast= "none">Dr. Jonice Webb's </span><a href= "https://drjonicewebb.com/" target="_blank" rel= "noopener"><span data-contrast="none">Childhood Emotional Neglect Website</span></a><span data-ccp-props="{}"> </span></p> </div> <div 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Trauma Chat Podcast

Laura Reagan, LCSW-C

08: Attachment Styles

AUG 3, 202113 MIN
Trauma Chat Podcast

08: Attachment Styles

AUG 3, 202113 MIN

Description

In this week's episode, host Laura Reagan, LCSW-C, a trauma therapist, consultant and coach, talks about Attachment Styles and how they show up in our lives. In this episode you will hear Laura talk about:  What is Attachment?  How does Attachment develop?  What are the 4 Attachment styles?  How does Attachment show up in our lives?  Historical context of Attachment over the last 100 years    Resources for this Episode:   Dr. Robert T. Muller's book, Trauma and the Struggle to Open U Therapy Chat Interview with Dr. Robert T. Muller  Lisa Ferentz/s workbook, Letting Go of Self Destructive Behaviors: A Workbook of Hope & Healing  Dr. Janina Fisher's book, Healing the Fragmented Selves of Trauma Survivors: Overcoming Self-Alienation  10 Most Popular Therapy Chat Episodes on Trauma, Dissociation and Attachment  Episodes Linked from above:   10. Episode 144: How Does Our Attachment Style Affect Our Relationships? With Stuart Fensterheim, LCSW  9. Episode 198: Chaos, Conflict, Secrecy: Abusive/Dysfunctional Family Dynamics with Sharon Martin, LCSW  8. Episode 134: It's Not Always Depression, So What Is It? with Hilary Jacobs Hendel, LCSW  7: Episode 204: Learning To Be Kind To Ourselves with Dr. Jane Tornatore  6. Episode 159: Understanding Polyvagal Theory with Deb Dana, LCSW  5. Episode 191: Understanding Childhood Emotional Neglect with Dr. Jonice Webb  4. Episode 202: Inherited Family Trauma with Mark Wolynn  3. Episode 194: Childhood Trauma and the Mind/Body Connection with Dr. Gabor Maté  2. Episode 212: All About Dissociation - 4 Episode Compilation including interviews with Kathy Steele, LCSW and Dr. Dick Schwartz   1. Episode 111: Relationships and Childhood Emotional Neglect with Dr. Jonice Webb  Healthline Article on Avoidant Attachment  Healthline Article on Disorganized Attachment  CPTSD Foundation Article on Anxious Attachment  E-Course from Dr. Daniel Siegel and Dr. Lisa Firestone on Attachment  Michelle Farris's Blog with information on Codependency   Sharon Martin's website with her books, blog posts and more on Codependency and Perfectionism  Dr. Jonice Webb's Childhood Emotional Neglect Website  Nedra Tawwab’s book Set Boundaries, Find Peace: A Guide to Reclaiming Yourself.  Additional Links:  Leave a message with a question to be included in a future episode: https://www.speakpipe.com/traumachatpod  Follow Trauma Chat on Instagram: www.instagram.com/traumachatpod  Follow Trauma Therapy Coaching & Consulting on Facebook: www.facebook.com/traumatherapyconsulting   Get more information on Trauma Chat at: www.traumachatpod.com. Sign up for the email list to stay in touch and receive a free gift!  New website coming soon: www.traumatherapistnetwork.com - a community for finding information, resources and help for trauma. Sign up for the email list to be notified when the website goes live and receive a free gift!  To listen to Laura's other podcast, Therapy Chat, go to: www.therapychatpodcast.com   If you like Trauma Chat please go to iTunes and leave a rating and review and subscribe to receive each episode as soon as it comes out.  Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - https://petebailey.net/audio