What is the secret to a great marriage?  This is the most frequent question that I receive. The answer is simple: seeking, receiving, and responding to feedback. In this episode, I share how feedback is the key to true closeness.  I explain why the purpose of marriage is growth and becoming our best selves, not comfort and convenience.Feedback Check-In1.      I am working on __________.2.      On a scale of 1-10, how am I doing on _________?3.      What can I do to move that number closer to 10?4.      What else can I do to make to make you (my partner) feel love and like a priority?For a copy of Emil’s Feedback Check-In handout, email him at [email protected] your own copy of - You Can Turn Conflict into Closeness